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come on tobias explain this to me.......... i wanna know how you figure that somebody gets screwed over constantly and starts to doubt people in general doesn't deserve to be happy? are they not more deserving to find somebody to treat them well or should they all hide under a rock so it's easier on you? i don't think it's that they don't deserve to be happy...everyone does. i think it's more of people not admitting to it then blind side the other person with it and use it against them later not everyone does that but some do |
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come on tobias explain this to me.......... i wanna know how you figure that somebody gets screwed over constantly and starts to doubt people in general doesn't deserve to be happy? are they not more deserving to find somebody to treat them well or should they all hide under a rock so it's easier on you? i don't think it's that they don't deserve to be happy...everyone does. i think it's more of people not admitting to it then blind side the other person with it and use it against them later not everyone does that but some do 
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kinda like how some people on tv try and see if their partner would cheat by having someone hit on them. some people think it is wrong b/c you pretty much set someone up to see if they will cheat, but hey, whether set up or not, cheating is cheating!!!!
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sometimes people think they are over things until they get into another relationship and it hits them...something snaps so to speak and they realize that they are NOT over what ever caused them to have that issue....maybe? hell i dont know haha...im dealing with this issue right now myself....battling the demons so to speak
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so everybody has an answer here except tobias.......... nice
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so everybody has an answer here except tobias.......... nice you have left him speechless |
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ok tobias just ignore it, so the real problem here is you got tested and failed and your looking for an outlet i get it..... oh woe is me boo hoo...... I wasn't ignoring you I was on other sites, and I just got back. I am not saying that people don't deserve to be happy, but I have found out that the women i have been with have trust issues push me away for no reason. I have never cheated on a woman, so its frustrating when there is no trust for something that I didn't do. |
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ok tobias just ignore it, so the real problem here is you got tested and failed and your looking for an outlet i get it..... oh woe is me boo hoo...... I wasn't ignoring you I was on other sites, and I just got back. I am not saying that people don't deserve to be happy, but I have found out that the women i have been with have trust issues push me away for no reason. I have never cheated on a woman, so its frustrating when there is no trust for something that I didn't do. ok tobias...go read my thread i posted last night called "im ashamed of myself" under relationship advice its exactly about this babe!
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ok tobias just ignore it, so the real problem here is you got tested and failed and your looking for an outlet i get it..... oh woe is me boo hoo...... I wasn't ignoring you I was on other sites, and I just got back. I am not saying that people don't deserve to be happy, but I have found out that the women i have been with have trust issues push me away for no reason. I have never cheated on a woman, so its frustrating when there is no trust for something that I didn't do. ok tobias...go read my thread i posted last night called "im ashamed of myself" under relationship advice its exactly about this babe!
I read it earlier. I'm sorry about the situation. And I find that the only way to get over things is to just break through your fear. I hope things go well.
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ok tobias just ignore it, so the real problem here is you got tested and failed and your looking for an outlet i get it..... oh woe is me boo hoo...... I wasn't ignoring you I was on other sites, and I just got back. I am not saying that people don't deserve to be happy, but I have found out that the women i have been with have trust issues push me away for no reason. I have never cheated on a woman, so its frustrating when there is no trust for something that I didn't do. ok tobias...go read my thread i posted last night called "im ashamed of myself" under relationship advice its exactly about this babe!
I read it earlier. I'm sorry about the situation. And I find that the only way to get over things is to just break through your fear. I hope things go well.
thanks sweetie pie. im working on it. but, i dont know exactly what causes it or why we think we are ready only to find we are not. hopefully you will find the right one for you . if you care for her enough, try sticking it out...being there for her thru the good, the bad and the ugly babe...in the long run, your persistence may pay off.....just an idea...wishing you best of luck too darlin! 
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ok tobias just ignore it, so the real problem here is you got tested and failed and your looking for an outlet i get it..... oh woe is me boo hoo...... I wasn't ignoring you I was on other sites, and I just got back. I am not saying that people don't deserve to be happy, but I have found out that the women i have been with have trust issues push me away for no reason. I have never cheated on a woman, so its frustrating when there is no trust for something that I didn't do. ok tobias...go read my thread i posted last night called "im ashamed of myself" under relationship advice its exactly about this babe!
I read it earlier. I'm sorry about the situation. And I find that the only way to get over things is to just break through your fear. I hope things go well.
thanks sweetie pie. im working on it. but, i dont know exactly what causes it or why we think we are ready only to find we are not. hopefully you will find the right one for you . if you care for her enough, try sticking it out...being there for her thru the good, the bad and the ugly babe...in the long run, your persistence may pay off.....just an idea...wishing you best of luck too darlin!
Yeah but to me I shouldn't be treated bad, just because some has issues with other people. |
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ok tobias just ignore it, so the real problem here is you got tested and failed and your looking for an outlet i get it..... oh woe is me boo hoo...... I wasn't ignoring you I was on other sites, and I just got back. I am not saying that people don't deserve to be happy, but I have found out that the women i have been with have trust issues push me away for no reason. I have never cheated on a woman, so its frustrating when there is no trust for something that I didn't do. ok tobias...go read my thread i posted last night called "im ashamed of myself" under relationship advice its exactly about this babe!
I read it earlier. I'm sorry about the situation. And I find that the only way to get over things is to just break through your fear. I hope things go well.
thanks sweetie pie. im working on it. but, i dont know exactly what causes it or why we think we are ready only to find we are not. hopefully you will find the right one for you . if you care for her enough, try sticking it out...being there for her thru the good, the bad and the ugly babe...in the long run, your persistence may pay off.....just an idea...wishing you best of luck too darlin!
Yeah but to me I shouldn't be treated bad, just because some has issues with other people. you are so very correct. you have to not take it to heart, even though that is very hard and understand that when people are bitter they are lashing out at who ever is there at that moment but the core of that anger is directed to someone else, you just happen to be in the line of fire. that does not make it right...im sorry you were hurt, i am guilty of being one of those bitter people who hurt someone unnecessarily. 
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ok tobias just ignore it, so the real problem here is you got tested and failed and your looking for an outlet i get it..... oh woe is me boo hoo...... I wasn't ignoring you I was on other sites, and I just got back. I am not saying that people don't deserve to be happy, but I have found out that the women i have been with have trust issues push me away for no reason. I have never cheated on a woman, so its frustrating when there is no trust for something that I didn't do. ok tobias...go read my thread i posted last night called "im ashamed of myself" under relationship advice its exactly about this babe!
I read it earlier. I'm sorry about the situation. And I find that the only way to get over things is to just break through your fear. I hope things go well.
thanks sweetie pie. im working on it. but, i dont know exactly what causes it or why we think we are ready only to find we are not. hopefully you will find the right one for you . if you care for her enough, try sticking it out...being there for her thru the good, the bad and the ugly babe...in the long run, your persistence may pay off.....just an idea...wishing you best of luck too darlin!
Yeah but to me I shouldn't be treated bad, just because some has issues with other people. you are so very correct. you have to not take it to heart, even though that is very hard and understand that when people are bitter they are lashing out at who ever is there at that moment but the core of that anger is directed to someone else, you just happen to be in the line of fire. that does not make it right...im sorry you were hurt, i am guilty of being one of those bitter people who hurt someone unnecessarily.
I have no hard fealings, and if you are trying to trust well thats a very good thing. Its always good to grow. |
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living inside a shell is a miserable existence. its lonely and dark...i have to learn to come out. i thank you for your kind words. i pray for you too babe, that you find that special someone who will treat you as you deserve
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Thank you for your kind words. I hope that you get through what it is you are going threw, I know its tough, so hang in there.
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Thank you for your kind words. I hope that you get through what it is you are going threw, I know its tough, so hang in there. you too pumpkin!
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