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Did you call her yet???  she lives on the west coast and gets up real early.... so that would be a negative. I know... y'all can form a line to kick me in the ass later... lol I'm out WEST...it's only 6:50...CALL HER!!! No more excuses...she'll be thrilled to hear your voice! Sorry i meant east coast... i'm a bit flusted.. lol Oh...ok, you are forgiven!  Did you ask what time she gets home from work? OR can you text her? Text a message during her work day, then call her after she's home from work. |
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Did you call her yet??? she lives on the west coast and gets up real early.... so that would be a negative. I know... y'all can form a line to kick me in the ass later... lol I'm out WEST...it's only 6:50...CALL HER!!! No more excuses...she'll be thrilled to hear your voice! Sorry i meant east coast... i'm a bit flusted.. lol and on the east coast its only 10 pm Pick up the phone and call her!!!!!!!! |
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be careful as you go but if you don't at least call her you may very well be missing out on the best thing to ever happen to you...you'll never know unless you try
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I have to agree with you about the movin in thing.. but I was movin in that direction anyway so.. like I said.. Its almost too good to be true.. nothing ever falls in place that well for me.. Honey, you've anguished over Calling her ... don't even consider moving in...move to the same town, the same general area...don't rush it...Get past the first phone call first, ok??
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Did you call her yet??? she lives on the west coast and gets up real early.... so that would be a negative. I know... y'all can form a line to kick me in the ass later... lol I'm out WEST...it's only 6:50...CALL HER!!! No more excuses...she'll be thrilled to hear your voice! Sorry i meant east coast... i'm a bit flusted.. lol Oh...ok, you are forgiven! Did you ask what time she gets home from work? OR can you text her? Text a message during her work day, then call her after she's home from work. yeah I know when she gets home.. and well thats what i was thinking.. I really just dont want to sound overly excited.. I know its a turn off.. specially after reading that dang red flag post earlier.... thanks whoever that was... lol |
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go with your heart but be careful
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go with your heart but be careful thank you.. |
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go with your heart but be careful thank you.. your very welcome
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go with your heart but be careful thank you.. your very welcome well im glad she doesnt frequent the forums.. I guess she'd know why i havent called  
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go with your heart but be careful thank you.. your very welcome well im glad she doesnt frequent the forums.. I guess she'd know why i havent called Yeah...too busy on the thread fretting over the call! 
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go with your heart but be careful thank you.. your very welcome well im glad she doesnt frequent the forums.. I guess she'd know why i havent called Yeah...too busy on the thread fretting over the call! I'm gonna text her tomarrow morning and call her after work... and I will update everyone.. maybe...lol
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Edited by
shutterbug
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Mon 03/17/08 05:08 AM
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go with your heart but be careful thank you.. your very welcome well im glad she doesnt frequent the forums.. I guess she'd know why i havent called Yeah...too busy on the thread fretting over the call! I'm gonna text her tomarrow morning and call her after work... and I will update everyone.. maybe...lol MAYBE!!!???  What do you mean maybe? Come on, we've come THIS far with ya...besides, inquirring minds want to know.  Bet you'll get off that phone wishing you would have called sooner my friend! 
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Why don't you just go there for a couple of weeks to see if you are compatible first. I wouldn't give everything up here to go there without a trail run first. People are not always what they seem. Good Luck
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I'll try and keep this short but im not even sure where to begin. so i've been chatting on here with a certain lady for a few weeks now and things seem to going in the direction i'd like them too. We've both verbally made it clear there is interest and attraction,  and by the coversations and topics and no i'm not even talking about sex. Thats maybe come up 3 times in our hundreds of conversations. Ofcourse there is tons of flirting going on... and we are both looking for a relationship... Not to mention shes smart.. Fantastic right!!! So this is where it gets interesting.... We don't live in the same state, ok cool i'm in the process of selling my place to move out of this area anyway. She even invited me to stay with her. Great right? I think.. Well heres the kicker I feel like shes out of my league.. She gave me her # but I cant get myself to call her... WTF??? I've never been so awestruck by a woman and yet afraid.. any thoughts okay. I'll shoot straight with you. I get the 'you're out of my league' a lot from guys on line and in person. You know what makes me gaa gaa over a guy? When they just take the territory. My last BF was 27 years younger than me. He didn't have the education, social status nor background I had. But he kept pursuing. Kept going after me. He wasn't intimidated. It was amazingly attractive and won me over without a doubt. Confidence ROCKS!!! You are a great guy. Believe in yourself and she will be smitten. Good luck to you hon
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I'll try and keep this short but im not even sure where to begin. so i've been chatting on here with a certain lady for a few weeks now and things seem to going in the direction i'd like them too. We've both verbally made it clear there is interest and attraction, and by the coversations and topics and no i'm not even talking about sex. Thats maybe come up 3 times in our hundreds of conversations. Ofcourse there is tons of flirting going on... and we are both looking for a relationship... Not to mention shes smart.. Fantastic right!!! So this is where it gets interesting.... We don't live in the same state, ok cool i'm in the process of selling my place to move out of this area anyway. She even invited me to stay with her. Great right? I think.. Well heres the kicker I feel like shes out of my league.. She gave me her # but I cant get myself to call her... WTF??? I've never been so awestruck by a woman and yet afraid.. any thoughts okay. I'll shoot straight with you. I get the 'you're out of my league' a lot from guys on line and in person. You know what makes me gaa gaa over a guy? When they just take the territory. My last BF was 27 years younger than me. He didn't have the education, social status nor background I had. But he kept pursuing. Kept going after me. He wasn't intimidated. It was amazingly attractive and won me over without a doubt. Confidence ROCKS!!! You are a great guy. Believe in yourself and she will be smitten. Good luck to you hon *she already is smitten Jud* |
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I take it he hasn't called yet....
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Me2g...how'd the call go?
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I'll try and keep this short but im not even sure where to begin. so i've been chatting on here with a certain lady for a few weeks now and things seem to going in the direction i'd like them too. We've both verbally made it clear there is interest and attraction, and by the coversations and topics and no i'm not even talking about sex. Thats maybe come up 3 times in our hundreds of conversations. Ofcourse there is tons of flirting going on... and we are both looking for a relationship... Not to mention shes smart.. Fantastic right!!! So this is where it gets interesting.... We don't live in the same state, ok cool i'm in the process of selling my place to move out of this area anyway. She even invited me to stay with her. Great right? I think.. Well heres the kicker I feel like shes out of my league.. She gave me her # but I cant get myself to call her... WTF??? I've never been so awestruck by a woman and yet afraid.. any thoughts You are truly interested in this girl and she is so impressed by you that she feels out of your league. Why the heck not explore how this goes. Just don't sell your place before you get to know her. Don't put the horse before the cart. I know this is exciting now, but take a trip, meet her and make sure that you are compatable. Good luck with the call and I am keeping my fingers crossed that you have found someone for you Can't wait for your update. I love happy endings.
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Me2g...how'd the call go? it took a few tries to actually get ahold of her but I did.. I didnt know her schedule and yes... she made me sweat it cuz I didnt call right away, but that just made me more determined... lol (and I think it just made her all the more curious too) but yeah....  WOW!!! Her accent alone is enough to drive me insane.... put that together with her personallity.. top it off with her smile I think im smittin.. cupid done good this time..  And just so you all know I had been planning to put my place up for sale this spring anyhow.. and will reguardless of the outcome here. Im not trying to just jump into anything.. ive made that mistake before.. |
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Me2g...how'd the call go? it took a few tries to actually get ahold of her but I did.. I didnt know her schedule and yes... she made me sweat it cuz I didnt call right away, but that just made me more determined... lol (and I think it just made her all the more curious too) but yeah.... WOW!!! Her accent alone is enough to drive me insane.... put that together with her personallity.. top it off with her smile I think im smittin.. cupid done good this time.. And just so you all know I had been planning to put my place up for sale this spring anyhow.. and will reguardless of the outcome here. Im not trying to just jump into anything.. ive made that mistake before.. SEE!!! Didn't I tell you. Good luck as you move forward!
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