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I'll try and keep this short but im not even sure where to begin.
so i've been chatting on here with a certain lady for a few weeks now and things seem to going in the direction i'd like them too. We've both verbally made it clear there is interest and attraction,  and by the coversations and topics and no i'm not even talking about sex. Thats maybe come up 3 times in our hundreds of conversations. Ofcourse there is tons of flirting going on...  and we are both looking for a relationship... Not to mention shes smart.. Fantastic right!!! So this is where it gets interesting.... We don't live in the same state, ok cool i'm in the process of selling my place to move out of this area anyway. She even invited me to stay with her. Great right? I think.. Well heres the kicker I feel like shes out of my league.. She gave me her # but I cant get myself to call her... WTF??? I've never been so awestruck by a woman and yet afraid.. any thoughts |
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 Its a bad sign this early on in the game
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grow some balls and do it.
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You will never know if you don't call. Regrets are hard to live with. Go for it. She already likes you.
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If you like her and she likes you- and you think this could work- why would you let a little thing like fear get in the way of love.
CALL HER!!!!!!!! noone is better than anyone else- so she is not out of your "league" just do it! 
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I'll try and keep this short but im not even sure where to begin. so i've been chatting on here with a certain lady for a few weeks now and things seem to going in the direction i'd like them too. We've both verbally made it clear there is interest and attraction, and by the coversations and topics and no i'm not even talking about sex. Thats maybe come up 3 times in our hundreds of conversations. Ofcourse there is tons of flirting going on... and we are both looking for a relationship... Not to mention shes smart.. Fantastic right!!! So this is where it gets interesting.... We don't live in the same state, ok cool i'm in the process of selling my place to move out of this area anyway. She even invited me to stay with her. Great right? I think.. Well heres the kicker I feel like shes out of my league.. She gave me her # but I cant get myself to call her... WTF??? I've never been so awestruck by a woman and yet afraid.. any thoughts Hun she doesn't seem to think you're out of her league. Call her you have nothing to lose by doing that. Good luck.
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I'll try and keep this short but im not even sure where to begin. so i've been chatting on here with a certain lady for a few weeks now and things seem to going in the direction i'd like them too. We've both verbally made it clear there is interest and attraction, and by the coversations and topics and no i'm not even talking about sex. Thats maybe come up 3 times in our hundreds of conversations. Ofcourse there is tons of flirting going on... and we are both looking for a relationship... Not to mention shes smart.. Fantastic right!!! So this is where it gets interesting.... We don't live in the same state, ok cool i'm in the process of selling my place to move out of this area anyway. She even invited me to stay with her. Great right? I think.. Well heres the kicker I feel like shes out of my league.. She gave me her # but I cant get myself to call her... WTF??? I've never been so awestruck by a woman and yet afraid.. any thoughts hon, just dial the digits, no one is ever out of anyones league.
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Early bird get's the worm.....eerrrr, well on her part anyway
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pick up the phone and call. From everything you've said in your post your both looking forward to meeting each other.
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Edited by
muntjack
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Sun 03/16/08 05:07 PM
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I'll try and keep this short but im not even sure where to begin. so i've been chatting on here with a certain lady for a few weeks now and things seem to going in the direction i'd like them too. We've both verbally made it clear there is interest and attraction, and by the coversations and topics and no i'm not even talking about sex. Thats maybe come up 3 times in our hundreds of conversations. Ofcourse there is tons of flirting going on... and we are both looking for a relationship... Not to mention shes smart.. Fantastic right!!! So this is where it gets interesting.... We don't live in the same state, ok cool i'm in the process of selling my place to move out of this area anyway. She even invited me to stay with her. Great right? I think.. Well heres the kicker I feel like shes out of my league.. She gave me her # but I cant get myself to call her... WTF??? I've never been so awestruck by a woman and yet afraid.. any thoughts |
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you will never know just how sexy her voice might sound if you dont call, i can tell you it will be the thrill of her day to hear from you.
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Edited by
bassman1959
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Sun 03/16/08 05:09 PM
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I'll try and keep this short but im not even sure where to begin. so i've been chatting on here with a certain lady for a few weeks now and things seem to going in the direction i'd like them too. We've both verbally made it clear there is interest and attraction, and by the coversations and topics and no i'm not even talking about sex. Thats maybe come up 3 times in our hundreds of conversations. Ofcourse there is tons of flirting going on... and we are both looking for a relationship... Not to mention shes smart.. Fantastic right!!! So this is where it gets interesting.... We don't live in the same state, ok cool i'm in the process of selling my place to move out of this area anyway. She even invited me to stay with her. Great right? I think.. Well heres the kicker I feel like shes out of my league.. She gave me her # but I cant get myself to call her... WTF??? I've never been so awestruck by a woman and yet afraid.. any thoughts hon, just dial the digits, no one is ever out of anyones league. I agree. As long as you have been honest with her about yourself.......call her. |
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So you can sit and wonder, rather than call and find out.
Good idea. |
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From what i read it seems as if u shouldnt let this one get away. Give it a try, im sure u will be glad u did it
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Call her, don't have any regrets later when you kick yourself in the a** for not calling her.
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 well, I believe SHE knows NOW that your nervous and I would call now,,,and talk,after your first 5 minutes,,,you can relax...HOW DO I KNOW, I've been like that forever,,,lol Its that first 2minutes thats tite,,,,in the vocal cords,lol... DO IT and get through the small stuff so you can find out the big stuff,lol..  YOU WILL BE FINE!!!!
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Call her... (gives slight bear push)
I wouldnt live with her right away- but if I were you Id call her! Get to know as much about her as you can! You are at a point where you want to pinch yourself- because its hard to believe! Go for it! You may just of found the love of your life! If you didnt- well at least you tried! I just got in this simular situation- and I went for it! Good luck to you!
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She has obviously seen your profile, so what makes you think she is out of your league? I am not sure on the shacking up part already, I would make sure I had my own place prior to moving to that local
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Call her, don't have any regrets later when you kick yourself in the a** for not calling her.  right on missy
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I've never had any problem in the past calling a woman.. and i'm normally calm and collected. So this is kinda new to me. Thanks for the overwhelming and quick advise...
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