What would you do if you found out someone you were talking to was a felon.. a violent one...

vs.

what if the person were upfront and told you right away?

Peccy told me about his violent criminal record

What type of felon?
there are dif degrees of felonies....
guess it would dep. on how bad they were.

A violent felony... I would more than likely walk away. I would listen to the circumstances first, then I would try and back up his story. I wouldn't just take his word for it. If he lied about it, then I found out... I would leave for sure.

I didn't mean to say that he had a record.... I just meant that in that line of question I was acting like him... do you really want to start a world war between Peccy and I... we do a good enough job all by ourselves...

First degree attempted murder.

Its cool Lily I know that you did time in prison

Both happened to me, in the same person. I believed him when he said it was in his past. I married him ( ) and for that, I was a fool. I think if more time had passed (It was eight years before we met) it might have been different. I doubt it though. He is still a very angry, manipulative, and controlling person. He has learned to put his fist down, but now he just attacks in other ways.

I'd have to say in my case.... I should have walked away. There are individuals who make one mistake and not again, but that is rare. Violent people commit violent acts.

In the future? I'd say No. Hell no... Absolutely Fvcking Hell NO..

(psssst want me to tell you how I really feel?)

Violent people do not change. They might grow old and get tired of it, but they are still the violent person they always were.

Doesnt sound like a good idea

No it was only a movie I did, and it was just that one time in college when I needed money.....

I had one tell me upfront and well I didn't really enjoy his company any longer. I mean hey, to be truthful, he told me too soon! Ha ha. Something you can wait to tell others and be it under right circumstances.

Anyone agree or no??

Let the past stay in the past. I have no trouble believing that people change.

I do

for some reason, those are the only guys i've ever been attracted to...

ya, I need a bit of danger, but that may be over board for me... It sounded like something that went awry, but there are 3 sides to every story...

one day, i'll learn that prison time isn't sexy. one day...

until then, i'm staying single.

my ex-husband spent a year and a half in prison...for breaking down a door with a shotgun and pulling his then-wife out of the neighbor's house by her hair. all mister tarzan and stuff...

I would have to walk on this one!! There are to many single people out there, why would you want to involve yourself with someone like this? I don't think I would walk..I think I would run!