Topic: I've been single since October 2007
Sweetwater2's photo
Sun 03/09/08 09:12 PM
WOW you look like you could get any guy you wantedflowerforyou

JaceKnows's photo
Sun 03/09/08 09:12 PM
Do what you do, don't try and force it. Sometimes being single is by choice, sometimes it's not always OUR choice. Enjoy the time you have, go out with friends, put yourself out there. Avoid playing the desperate card, it will only make you feel bad. Relax, have fun in whatever you do, and people will notice. You'll be fine. (= BOL to you! flowerforyou flowerforyou drinker drinker

the_don6972's photo
Sun 03/09/08 09:12 PM

try 6 yrs without a true love

dude your 18 grow up and be a freakin man and stop whining

crystal14882's photo
Sun 03/09/08 09:13 PM


It was great..but now I am starting to get lonely. How do you meet someone? Any advice? How should I attempt to pass the time?


Here are some suggestions-

Drink more alcohol.
Drink more alcohol.
Drink more alcohol.

I've been single since mid-2004, BTW.

Sounds good but I only drink about once every 3 months and I don't want a guy who I need to have my beer goggles on for!

no photo
Sun 03/09/08 09:14 PM
Ummmmmm, no realationship here for, well, ummmmm, 6 years sad
Why I ask, why? sad

flowerforyou

the_don6972's photo
Sun 03/09/08 09:14 PM


try 6 yrs without a true love

You are young...I was losing my virginity at your age...

hmmmmdevil :wink: me too except 15 but hey just cuz im only 18 dont mean anything i have the experience of a late 20's year old not self proclaimed

Enya's photo
Sun 03/09/08 09:15 PM
heels beat me! laugh

I've been single since 2003.


'irad8you'

did you ever work in humble?

crystal14882's photo
Sun 03/09/08 09:15 PM

Do what you do, don't try and force it. Sometimes being single is by choice, sometimes it's not always OUR choice. Enjoy the time you have, go out with friends, put yourself out there. Avoid playing the desperate card, it will only make you feel bad. Relax, have fun in whatever you do, and people will notice. You'll be fine. (= BOL to you! flowerforyou flowerforyou drinker drinker

That's what I do. I am starting to look at my "friends" and realize they are doing nothing for themselves...so I am trying to find a way to meet a new group of more "mature" people and I am not into rushing anything...I just want someone to talk to when I do something silly at work...or when my kids have me rolling on the floor with the craziest cutest sayings...

crystal14882's photo
Sun 03/09/08 09:16 PM
Edited by crystal14882 on Sun 03/09/08 09:18 PM

WOW you look like you could get any guy you wantedflowerforyou

Looks can intimidating and I am just the average girl next door that will keep you laughing for hours... It's not finding someone...it's finding someone who can keep my ineterest without being controlling or shoved up my a$$

duckiegiggles's photo
Sun 03/09/08 09:17 PM
so what is your catch?
why do you think youre single?

crystal14882's photo
Sun 03/09/08 09:19 PM

one thing is being alone, and another thing is being lonely.
each one serves a purpose. maybe u need to get to know urself better before u r able to be with somebody else.
it seems contradictory the fact that we want to get to know others when we don't even know ourselves.
the best answer i can give to ur question is that we don't need to look for love, the more we look for it, the more it hides or it becomes illusory. It's better to wait for the right person at the right time.

Very well put, not looking to get married or fall in love...looking for a companion who I can trust and spend time with...Women are evil...so I want a man lol...

pjdh1952's photo
Sun 03/09/08 09:19 PM
crystal14882 and lalady1966, Neither one of you should be lonely! I been alone for 29 years!!! My job kept me single!sad

crystal14882's photo
Sun 03/09/08 09:20 PM
Edited by crystal14882 on Sun 03/09/08 09:21 PM

so what is your catch?
why do you think youre single?

Single by choice. I have not found anyone who is as physically active as I am. It's hard to find someone to accept two children. It's hard to find someone who is honest and faithful. I don't date people from my area and I live by the rule...don't date you friend's ex's or your ex's friends...I guess that pretty well sums it up...I live in a small town lol...

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Sun 03/09/08 09:21 PM


one thing is being alone, and another thing is being lonely.
each one serves a purpose. maybe u need to get to know urself better before u r able to be with somebody else.
it seems contradictory the fact that we want to get to know others when we don't even know ourselves.
the best answer i can give to ur question is that we don't need to look for love, the more we look for it, the more it hides or it becomes illusory. It's better to wait for the right person at the right time.

Very well put, not looking to get married or fall in love...looking for a companion who I can trust and spend time with...Women are evil...so I want a man lol...

women ain't evil. it's just a matter to know where do we put our heads into.

vegasgirl2007's photo
Sun 03/09/08 09:21 PM
been single for awhile myself.....i'm getting lonely too:wink: laugh

Engraven_Image's photo
Sun 03/09/08 09:22 PM


so what is your catch?
why do you think youre single?

Single by choice. I have not found anyone who is as physically active as I am. It's hard to find someone to accept two children. It's hard to find someone who is honest and faithful. I don't date people from my area and I live by the rule...don't date you friend's ex's or your ex's friends...I guess that pretty well sums it up...I live in a small town lol...
laugh It's your own fault then!laugh J/k!

crystal14882's photo
Sun 03/09/08 09:22 PM



wow 6 months....

and here i thought my 2 years was taking it too soon.

lol...telling me you have had 0 relations in the last 2 years...??!!??


well if your counting that i have been single, yes. slightly over.

or are we talking with no relations? hell thats been 9 years since i had a real relationship......

I am talking single...no relationship...no intimacy (including FWB)

Single_Rob's photo
Sun 03/09/08 09:23 PM
try 2 years and 2 months. No fwb, nothing. Getting tougher though, lol

crystal14882's photo
Sun 03/09/08 09:24 PM



so what is your catch?
why do you think youre single?

Single by choice. I have not found anyone who is as physically active as I am. It's hard to find someone to accept two children. It's hard to find someone who is honest and faithful. I don't date people from my area and I live by the rule...don't date you friend's ex's or your ex's friends...I guess that pretty well sums it up...I live in a small town lol...
laugh It's your own fault then!laugh J/k!

lmao...it's my fault my friends were horny lol...j/k...If I could find a man who likes to go out and get off his ass whether it be snowboarding, going to the gym, tanning, swimming, jet skiing, playing darts or pool, hunting...whatever...it's finding one lol...

Wonderbread's photo
Sun 03/09/08 09:24 PM


my god! you're gorgeous, is it the a$$hole magnet following you again?

I think I have one in each cheek lol...how many good men are left or m I going to have to wait ten years when everyone starts getting divorced that's my age lol...

ROFL.
Or you can cause divorces.
rofl.
You're cute, you shouldn't have problems finding a good guy here.
Just wait.