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Topic: Why Lie???!!!!!
rarerose's photo
Thu 03/06/08 08:33 AM
Why is it that some people feel like they have to lie to you for you to like them? They talk about honesty but bluntly lie to you prob thinking they will never find out, but you know what we usually do....mad explode ....it hurts I hate to be lied to why do it, I dont understand.

MirrorMirror's photo
Thu 03/06/08 08:35 AM
flowerforyou I absolutely understand how you feel sweetheartflowerforyou

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Thu 03/06/08 08:35 AM
Me niether.

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Thu 03/06/08 08:38 AM
I am going through the same thing, 1 lie leads to 5 more, if ya cant be honest, i dont wanna know you!!! But thee are good honest people out there too, sweetie!!!

lynn83's photo
Thu 03/06/08 08:39 AM
Mikey is right. There are really great people out there. And they are worth looking for.

franshade's photo
Thu 03/06/08 08:40 AM
Because they are uncertain/unsure of themselves.

flowerforyou

crystal14882's photo
Thu 03/06/08 08:40 AM
No one who lies will reply to this...they are out playing the field right now not trying to find someone who cares about them...I was just lied to this week...I didn't get mad. It's his loss, not mine.

franshade's photo
Thu 03/06/08 08:42 AM

No one who lies will reply to this...they are out playing the field right now not trying to find someone who cares about them...I was just lied to this week...I didn't get mad. It's his loss, not mine.


wtg cyrstal!!! dont waste any energy of negativity.

definitely their loss!!! flowerforyou flowerforyou

davidben1's photo
Thu 03/06/08 08:42 AM

Why is it that some people feel like they have to lie to you for you to like them? They talk about honesty but bluntly lie to you prob thinking they will never find out, but you know what we usually do....mad explode ....it hurts I hate to be lied to why do it, I dont understand.


if something lie it is not aimed at you, but rather at covering it's own weakness in shame.....to see this free the one lied to and make them able to see a lie in plain site always, which make teach you wisdom......so guess we needed the lies to know the truth

rarerose's photo
Thu 03/06/08 08:42 AM
Yes I know there are good honest people out there still....but see this is one reason why I have a hard time getting close with people....I have been hurt by too many friends and family...and of course when I do let my heart get attached i get hurt yet again and think why bother anymore....it people like this that make me not want to even try to make friends sad :angry:

MirrorMirror's photo
Thu 03/06/08 08:43 AM
flowerforyou Its tempting, but I dont lie about myself because I would like this thing to work outflowerforyou I dont understand what people who lie are trying to accomplishgrumble It makes you feel like you been had when you find out someone has been lying to you about themselvesgrumble

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Thu 03/06/08 08:44 AM
No other answer...their game is "DECEIT!!!" I for one don't want any part of it. :angry: mad

davidben1's photo
Thu 03/06/08 08:48 AM

No other answer...their game is "DECEIT!!!" I for one don't want any part of it. :angry: mad


to see how what is said is true from anothers eyes give happiness and never sadness

tanyaztoy's photo
Thu 03/06/08 08:52 AM
I absolutely hate liars. I dated someone who I believe was a compulsive and pathological liar. He would lie about everything. I couldn't stand it.

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Thu 03/06/08 08:52 AM
From where i stand most all the women i've talk with are not honest,and most men are the same,
Then they all want to get even,so they all lie now.
Just tell the truth and let things fall where they will.

Lily0923's photo
Thu 03/06/08 08:53 AM
Tell one lie and a thousand truths are questioned...

davidben1's photo
Thu 03/06/08 08:54 AM

Yes I know there are good honest people out there still....but see this is one reason why I have a hard time getting close with people....I have been hurt by too many friends and family...and of course when I do let my heart get attached i get hurt yet again and think why bother anymore....it people like this that make me not want to even try to make friends sad :angry:


one can be free to never be lied to when they do not see a lie as a bad thing....unfortunately all are told NOT to lie, and this make them lie all the more.....i tell my kids all the time lying is good and all do so they are not offended and truly have no need to lie now themsleves, as the mind will always try to make one do all that it say it will never do.

davidben1's photo
Thu 03/06/08 09:00 AM
so many prophets of others doom and crimes

tinabelle's photo
Thu 03/06/08 09:05 AM


Yes I know there are good honest people out there still....but see this is one reason why I have a hard time getting close with people....I have been hurt by too many friends and family...and of course when I do let my heart get attached i get hurt yet again and think why bother anymore....it people like this that make me not want to even try to make friends sad :angry:


one can be free to never be lied to when they do not see a lie as a bad thing....unfortunately all are told NOT to lie, and this make them lie all the more.....i tell my kids all the time lying is good and all do so they are not offended and truly have no need to lie now themsleves, as the mind will always try to make one do all that it say it will never do.

i'm sorry my friend, but most lies are ALWAYS bad, and the act of deceiving another person is definitely bad.
if you live truthfully, and surround yourself with people
that do the same, there's no need to lie.
teaching your kids that lying is good is not the way.
maybe teaching them that there are certain lies that will
always, and have always been told is a better way to go.

rarerose's photo
Thu 03/06/08 10:59 AM



Yes I know there are good honest people out there still....but see this is one reason why I have a hard time getting close with people....I have been hurt by too many friends and family...and of course when I do let my heart get attached i get hurt yet again and think why bother anymore....it people like this that make me not want to even try to make friends sad :angry:


one can be free to never be lied to when they do not see a lie as a bad thing....unfortunately all are told NOT to lie, and this make them lie all the more.....i tell my kids all the time lying is good and all do so they are not offended and truly have no need to lie now themsleves, as the mind will always try to make one do all that it say it will never do.

i'm sorry my friend, but most lies are ALWAYS bad, and the act of deceiving another person is definitely bad.
if you live truthfully, and surround yourself with people
that do the same, there's no need to lie.
teaching your kids that lying is good is not the way.
maybe teaching them that there are certain lies that will
always, and have always been told is a better way to go.


Agreed

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