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Why is it that some people feel like they have to lie to you for you to like them? They talk about honesty but bluntly lie to you prob thinking they will never find out, but you know what we usually do.... ....it hurts I hate to be lied to why do it, I dont understand.
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I absolutely understand how you feel sweetheart
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Me niether.
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I am going through the same thing, 1 lie leads to 5 more, if ya cant be honest, i dont wanna know you!!! But thee are good honest people out there too, sweetie!!!
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Mikey is right. There are really great people out there. And they are worth looking for.
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Because they are uncertain/unsure of themselves.
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No one who lies will reply to this...they are out playing the field right now not trying to find someone who cares about them...I was just lied to this week...I didn't get mad. It's his loss, not mine.
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No one who lies will reply to this...they are out playing the field right now not trying to find someone who cares about them...I was just lied to this week...I didn't get mad. It's his loss, not mine. wtg cyrstal!!! dont waste any energy of negativity. definitely their loss!!! |
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Why is it that some people feel like they have to lie to you for you to like them? They talk about honesty but bluntly lie to you prob thinking they will never find out, but you know what we usually do.... ....it hurts I hate to be lied to why do it, I dont understand. if something lie it is not aimed at you, but rather at covering it's own weakness in shame.....to see this free the one lied to and make them able to see a lie in plain site always, which make teach you wisdom......so guess we needed the lies to know the truth |
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Yes I know there are good honest people out there still....but see this is one reason why I have a hard time getting close with people....I have been hurt by too many friends and family...and of course when I do let my heart get attached i get hurt yet again and think why bother anymore....it people like this that make me not want to even try to make friends
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Its tempting, but I dont lie about myself because I would like this thing to work out I dont understand what people who lie are trying to accomplish It makes you feel like you been had when you find out someone has been lying to you about themselves
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No other answer...their game is "DECEIT!!!" I for one don't want any part of it.
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No other answer...their game is "DECEIT!!!" I for one don't want any part of it. to see how what is said is true from anothers eyes give happiness and never sadness |
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I absolutely hate liars. I dated someone who I believe was a compulsive and pathological liar. He would lie about everything. I couldn't stand it.
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From where i stand most all the women i've talk with are not honest,and most men are the same,
Then they all want to get even,so they all lie now. Just tell the truth and let things fall where they will. |
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Tell one lie and a thousand truths are questioned...
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Yes I know there are good honest people out there still....but see this is one reason why I have a hard time getting close with people....I have been hurt by too many friends and family...and of course when I do let my heart get attached i get hurt yet again and think why bother anymore....it people like this that make me not want to even try to make friends one can be free to never be lied to when they do not see a lie as a bad thing....unfortunately all are told NOT to lie, and this make them lie all the more.....i tell my kids all the time lying is good and all do so they are not offended and truly have no need to lie now themsleves, as the mind will always try to make one do all that it say it will never do. |
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so many prophets of others doom and crimes
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Yes I know there are good honest people out there still....but see this is one reason why I have a hard time getting close with people....I have been hurt by too many friends and family...and of course when I do let my heart get attached i get hurt yet again and think why bother anymore....it people like this that make me not want to even try to make friends one can be free to never be lied to when they do not see a lie as a bad thing....unfortunately all are told NOT to lie, and this make them lie all the more.....i tell my kids all the time lying is good and all do so they are not offended and truly have no need to lie now themsleves, as the mind will always try to make one do all that it say it will never do. i'm sorry my friend, but most lies are ALWAYS bad, and the act of deceiving another person is definitely bad. if you live truthfully, and surround yourself with people that do the same, there's no need to lie. teaching your kids that lying is good is not the way. maybe teaching them that there are certain lies that will always, and have always been told is a better way to go. |
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Yes I know there are good honest people out there still....but see this is one reason why I have a hard time getting close with people....I have been hurt by too many friends and family...and of course when I do let my heart get attached i get hurt yet again and think why bother anymore....it people like this that make me not want to even try to make friends one can be free to never be lied to when they do not see a lie as a bad thing....unfortunately all are told NOT to lie, and this make them lie all the more.....i tell my kids all the time lying is good and all do so they are not offended and truly have no need to lie now themsleves, as the mind will always try to make one do all that it say it will never do. i'm sorry my friend, but most lies are ALWAYS bad, and the act of deceiving another person is definitely bad. if you live truthfully, and surround yourself with people that do the same, there's no need to lie. teaching your kids that lying is good is not the way. maybe teaching them that there are certain lies that will always, and have always been told is a better way to go. Agreed |
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