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Topic: Why Lie???!!!!!
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Thu 03/06/08 11:00 AM
low self esteem.......noway

franshade's photo
Thu 03/06/08 11:04 AM
here's another: people probably lie because they think they will gain the other persons interest and by the time they discover the lie, they will be in luv!!! sad but true brokenheart


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Thu 03/06/08 11:04 AM
Lying sucks.

lynn83's photo
Thu 03/06/08 11:07 AM

here's another: people probably lie because they think they will gain the other persons interest and by the time they discover the lie, they will be in luv!!! sad but true brokenheart




I think this is true.

davidben1's photo
Thu 03/06/08 01:28 PM
Edited by davidben1 on Thu 03/06/08 01:32 PM




Yes I know there are good honest people out there still....but see this is one reason why I have a hard time getting close with people....I have been hurt by too many friends and family...and of course when I do let my heart get attached i get hurt yet again and think why bother anymore....it people like this that make me not want to even try to make friends sad :angry:


one can be free to never be lied to when they do not see a lie as a bad thing....unfortunately all are told NOT to lie, and this make them lie all the more.....i tell my kids all the time lying is good and all do so they are not offended and truly have no need to lie now themsleves, as the mind will always try to make one do all that it say it will never do.

i'm sorry my friend, but most lies are ALWAYS bad, and the act of deceiving another person is definitely bad.
if you live truthfully, and surround yourself with people
that do the same, there's no need to lie.
teaching your kids that lying is good is not the way.
maybe teaching them that there are certain lies that will
always, and have always been told is a better way to go.



we have been trying to teach the whole ****ing universe to try to be good since the inception of time, and it is still not working....have we not seen by now that somehting is amiss.....tell one sex is bad and they will always have an ashamed, poor sex life with their other, bad case will lead to molestation and rape.....tell something that drinking is bad and you will have a country of alcoholics, and kids that care not about their own life nor it's beauty....tell something that drugs are bad they will find their way straight to that person....all examples of telling something that anything is bad make bad to me alive and well.....my kids do not have to lie as i have taken the need away from them......they do not lie and when they do they run and tell me and are proud of themselves for being able to admit what they are, which make them stronger each day and believe more in themselves each day, and always never afraid to admit when something new is learned, rather than thinking they need some law to make them not lie.....if somebody catch a child stealing and call the child a thief, they will become all the more inclined to bad behavior.....tell the child stealing is good and teaches us how much better it feels to not steal and you have removed the power of bad from over them......NO KID CARES TO LIE, IT IS ONLY WHEN OTHERS TELL IT HOW BAD IT IS WHICH WILL MAKE IT A BAD CARROT TO THE CHILD.......the child will be able to learn from their mistakes if they do not see them as mistakes.....tell something anything is a mistake and it will never learn as it will hate itself for failing, and in trying to be better try harder, but all the more they try will bring more failure, as the child was not taught they had love inside and how to let it come out, but rather to try to be good and they already are love.....anything that condem anothers behavior will help make it more like you don't wish it to be, and rob it of self love, self love that is inside each that longs to love others

franshade's photo
Thu 03/06/08 01:36 PM
huh yawn

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Thu 03/06/08 01:40 PM
flowerforyou I agree 100%smooched

hellkitten54's photo
Thu 03/06/08 01:42 PM
People are people. They lie, get over it. Can't let it fester inside you all day.flowerforyou

davidben1's photo
Thu 03/06/08 02:18 PM

huh yawn


speak your mind franshade....would love to hear more of why that eye has a twitch, lol.....

davidben1's photo
Thu 03/06/08 02:20 PM
Edited by davidben1 on Thu 03/06/08 02:20 PM

flowerforyou I agree 100%smooched


explode devil bigsmile......ok, that looked like i don't know what....i have seen it first hand to be the truth, so only speak of what i see, that is all.

davidben1's photo
Thu 03/06/08 02:21 PM

People are people. They lie, get over it. Can't let it fester inside you all day.flowerforyou


flowerforyou drinker flowerforyou

livelife68's photo
Thu 03/06/08 02:24 PM
people who lie usually do it for selfish reasons. they lie because they don't believe the truth will get them what they want. Try not to let it get you down. It is them that are doing wrong not you. Do your best to move on.flowerforyou

davidben1's photo
Thu 03/06/08 02:32 PM

people who lie usually do it for selfish reasons. they lie because they don't believe the truth will get them what they want. Try not to let it get you down. It is them that are doing wrong not you. Do your best to move on.flowerforyou


sad bigsmile ...u speak the truth

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