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Topic: Otay...
cats219 Joined Wed 08/01/07 Posts: 2663	Tue 03/04/08 05:20 PM
If he was just a friend you wouldnt havd to talk to him behind his girlfriends back.

Brenda_Darling Joined Wed 12/05/07 Posts: 3696	Tue 03/04/08 05:24 PM
thats his choice not mine...he doesnt want to get into trouble with her for talking to me...

Jim519 Joined Thu 12/27/07 Posts: 9203	Tue 03/04/08 05:24 PM
I think you are confused period I really am...I'll admit that.. i'm 19..of course i am...and if u knew my history..u would understand why History has nothing to do with it, your present/future actions say all...I dont need to understand.. I am very bitter in regards to this type of human nature, it's wrong and disrespectful...Period Let me give you a hint that may help you in life.. If you wouldnt want it done to you, dont do it to the one your with. What if you were the other girl? Especially since she has a child?...Sorry, plain and simple...No excuses for that behavior

tmbond Joined Sat 02/09/08 Posts: 1462	Tue 03/04/08 05:28 PM
thats his choice not mine...he doesnt want to get into trouble with her for talking to me... But you know about his girl being upset. Dont play his games. Dont waste your time or text on him.

Jim519 Joined Thu 12/27/07 Posts: 9203	Tue 03/04/08 05:29 PM
thats his choice not mine...he doesnt want to get into trouble with her for talking to me... You initiated it, invited it, allowed it, and continue it

tmbond Joined Sat 02/09/08 Posts: 1462	Tue 03/04/08 05:34 PM
thats his choice not mine...he doesnt want to get into trouble with her for talking to me... You initiated it, invited it, allowed it, and continue it Just walk away. Don't play. Run, don't walk.

Brenda_Darling Joined Wed 12/05/07 Posts: 3696	Tue 03/04/08 05:36 PM
well i just found out about it last night... and i'm suppost to call him 2night to get this kids number from him....one of his friends that he wants to hook me up with...and i know i shouldnt..but i do want the number...

tmbond Joined Sat 02/09/08 Posts: 1462	Tue 03/04/08 05:37 PM
well i just found out about it last night... and i'm suppost to call him 2night to get this kids number from him....one of his friends that he wants to hook me up with...and i know i shouldnt..but i do want the number... Thought you said you were serious about someone else??? It is just an excuse to talk to him. Dont do it.

Brenda_Darling Joined Wed 12/05/07 Posts: 3696	Tue 03/04/08 05:40 PM
i'm serously talking to some one else...but i dont know where things are gonna go...cuz his ex just had his baby...and i know hes spending alot of time with the kid...which is great and figuring out custody things... no its not an excuse to talk to him...cuz i would get the number and then say bye...

tmbond Joined Sat 02/09/08 Posts: 1462	Tue 03/04/08 05:41 PM
sure...sure. If you really want the number...ask your friend who is always telling you to text him get the number for you. You are to young and pretty for this mess.

Brenda_Darling Joined Wed 12/05/07 Posts: 3696	Tue 03/04/08 05:43 PM
i'm just gonna say screw it.... i dont need this aggravation, or confusion... and this girl doesnt need to be upset with him cuz i was talking to him.. if i see him when we go out on thursdays..i see him...but other than that...DONE!!! This has really shown me i'm not as together as i thought...

tmbond Joined Sat 02/09/08 Posts: 1462	Tue 03/04/08 05:44 PM
Good for you. You are better that playing these childish games.

cutelildevilsmom Joined Sat 04/07/07 Posts: 8862	Tue 03/04/08 05:45 PM
Brenda..good for you!!

Brenda_Darling Joined Wed 12/05/07 Posts: 3696	Tue 03/04/08 05:48 PM
i think i invite too much drama into my life... cuz i know what i should do. and what i shouldnt...yet i still do things that i know i shouldnt...like talking to this kid.. i think i need help...lol

tmbond Joined Sat 02/09/08 Posts: 1462	Tue 03/04/08 05:50 PM
We will keep you on track.

maxxximus007 Joined Mon 11/13/06 Posts: 6082	Tue 03/04/08 05:52 PM
i think i invite too much drama into my life... cuz i know what i should do. and what i shouldnt...yet i still do things that i know i shouldnt...like talking to this kid.. i think i need help...lol we all learn from our mistakes, be nice to yourself and find some one not in a relationship that feels the same for you. good luck

Brenda_Darling Joined Wed 12/05/07 Posts: 3696	Tue 03/04/08 05:53 PM
well the nice ones here will...and i thank all of u who were nice about ur points...although some of the responses made me want to cry... to all the people who were nice about it!

Brenda_Darling Joined Wed 12/05/07 Posts: 3696	Wed 03/05/08 10:05 AM
so my bestie txted me last night..and told me she was driving this kid home cuz the weather was bad...and she would tell me when i could call him...i told her NOPE...Wasnt gonna do it... well that made him call me...and ask why...and i told him i felt like i was helping him cheat, and i wasnt gonna be the reason his gf is mad at him... BE PROUD!!!!! Little brenda is learning!

Peachiepoohie Joined Wed 09/13/06 Posts: 2124	Wed 03/05/08 10:09 AM
if you have to sneak whatever you're doing is wrong. my grandma used to tell me that, and no matter what we're talking about it works.

giants_fan_36 Joined Fri 01/25/08 Posts: 7	Wed 03/05/08 10:10 AM
ZZZZZZZZZZZ...wake me when it's over