you know he is in a relationship, with a kid! How would you like if someone does the same thing to you? What goes around comes around, always!

Just the fact that you are questioning it tells me that it isn't completely innocent. If you are having guilt issues, there is a reason. Back away from the commited man!!

I'm not flirting with him...i'm just friends...

Put yourself in her shoes!! (the other guys girlfriend)

You know, it's one thing to not really know someone (personally), yet trying to find out about them even though you've been informed they're taken. It's another thing to know someone (personally) and in time, learn that you've both grown emotionally taken by them. You know, not everyone is out looking to be a homewrecker (so to speak). However, we are human and unfortunately, we don't have full control of our emotions toward those who enter our lives. I'm not saying it's okay to take things to such measures (sex) per say.. but I can honestly say that it's one of the most difficult situations to face and deal with once you've realized how much you care for that person, etc. If you've not experienced it, then your rude comments aren't even worth reading. You seriously have no idea what it's like to be in a circumstance as this. If you have; then you know exactly what I'm talking about and how hard it is to walk away.. if anything, from your friend (not just the secret at hand).

You may not be trying to hurt his girl but you are. Stop before it gets worse.

all i said was i thought he was cute...then one day after my best friend closed with him she came over to my place and said he called me a **** tease...and i got his number and called him out on it..and thats how things started...

Honestly i think lots of people are cute but it doesnt mean i'm gonna start something with them

No, you are not just friends. You are flirting with with him. what you are doing is wrong and it will come back to you 3 fold.

i'm just a flirt by nature....half the time i dont even relize i'm flirting...its just my nature..and i just cant stop talking to him cuz he's friends with my best friend and we all hangout on thursdays

If you think it would be hard now to walk away from him, think about how hard it will be later. He has a family, he has friends, walk away. JMO

I agree!!And as far as friends,

i dont think it would be hard to walk away from him...although i dont look at it like that...cuz theres nothing to walk away from..
its a confusing situation...

sounds to me like you want to and thats why you started this thread to see if it was "okay"...take the advice you're given here, find someone you can be with and have a clear conscious about it.

i know i should...but i view him as a friend...yea a cute friend..but hes just a friend.... I am seriously talking to another guy..and that seems to be going well...

maybe i'm just a dramtic person and make things out to be more than what they are..i dont know..thanks for the help guys...

You are sooooooo trying to backtrack now

Whatever

I agree! I've been that girl before and didn't think much about it, until I ended up being the girl that my boyfriend was cheating on. It sux!!!!!!!! Karma will keep up with you. I promise.

i'm soo confused by that....

I think you are confused period

I really am...I'll admit that.. i'm 19..of course i am...and if u knew my history..u would understand why