How do you begin to heal many year after the hurt?

They say time heals all wounds, but I don't think so, not in situations like that.

What's your thoughts?

You move on with your life

The pain dulls after awhile...
but the memory remains.

Time does, it's true!! You won't forget what has happened, but you move on in life..

What situations are you talking about?

In time you forget how bad it hurts because you move on

Grab Sharp objects and store them somewhere you wont be able to get to easy ^^

Sorry...no easy answer.

You live "with" it and hopefully channel the hurt into something positive..that's usually an effective pain killer.

get with your friends, it dipurses the hurt, so you think less about it. action things are best, because coordination splits the mind and lessens the pain for a while.

I just posted something kinda like this on relationships about how do you forgive.

go break something..that does it for me

It's like a scar. You see it's there, but the wound has healed. Looking at it makes you think of the pain...although the pain isn't really there. As everyone here says, just move on.

What's the deal? Is everybody friggin wounded tonight or what!

time bro

what kind of situations are talking about?

I wasn't talking about something going on personally with me.

I was just thinking about how sometimes people can't seem to move on from things that happen. They still have the hurt with them even years after whatever happened.

well sometimes you just have to write yourself a happy ending and get there ...

We are a product of our past. It's how we decide to react to it is how we are going to come out from it.

We never forget. It's important to stay busy, take up a new hobby, find new friends, get back in shape, eat better. Get focused on yourself and your business. Just stay busy and be happy doing it. That's what I had to do and I feel like I'm fine. Still single but happy again and loving it!

You put a band-aid over the bullet wound and move on.

its true, the memory is always going to remain, but the pain does go away. it just takes time bro. when my exwife cheated on me and got pregnant while i was in the gulf, i was devistated, but i had some badass friends that made it a point to constantly surround me and helped me along the way to be the awesome sonofabi+ch you see before you (lol, yeah look at me go).
my advice is to do the same. go out with the guys, have a blast, and do it on the regular. show her (i'm just guessin about your situation) that yeah, she might have hurt ya, but dammit, you're gonna go out and you're still gonna have a damned good time and yer not gonna give a $hit what she thinks.

but most importantly, you need to show yourself those things too. hell bro, ya might meet someone while you're out and about that will end up meaning more to you than she ever did.

hope this helped a little man