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Topic: Who's superficial out there?
Moondark Joined Tue 11/27/07 Posts: 5866	Sun 03/02/08 05:19 PM
It it was something the person was wanting and money was not an issue and they were on the fence about it. I would tell him that I like him the way he is and that he should only do it if that is what he needs to do to feel better about himself.

pennyg281 Joined Thu 11/08/07 Posts: 4348	Sun 03/02/08 05:20 PM
If a person feels they need to spend $700 a month to improve their looks, they need help. I'd encourage them to get therapy so that they could figure out what was really wrong.

lilith401 Joined Wed 10/31/07 Posts: 19593	Sun 03/02/08 05:22 PM
If a person feels they need to spend $700 a month to improve their looks, they need help. I'd encourage them to get therapy so that they could figure out what was really wrong. Well that could be the the cost of therapy!

Peccy Joined Thu 06/28/07 Posts: 17181	Sun 03/02/08 05:24 PM Edited by Peccy on Sun 03/02/08 05:25 PM
If a person feels they need to spend $700 a month to improve their looks, they need help. I'd encourage them to get therapy so that they could figure out what was really wrong. Well that could be the the cost of therapy! could be, I never said it was make-up and such. I said appearance, not outward or inward.

Poetrywriter Joined Sun 10/14/07 Posts: 22675	Sun 03/02/08 05:25 PM
No I wouldn't because if I cared about someone, there would be no need for them to improve their appearance. I would want them to stay the way they are! I feel the same way about you! MMMUUUWWWAAAHHH!!! Ahhhh, my sweet hiker! I am pretty huh? I am old, huh? or is it "I am pretty old"

hikerchick Joined Sat 12/22/07 Posts: 13206	Sun 03/02/08 05:26 PM
No I wouldn't because if I cared about someone, there would be no need for them to improve their appearance. I would want them to stay the way they are! I feel the same way about you! MMMUUUWWWAAAHHH!!! Ahhhh, my sweet hiker! I am pretty huh? I am old, huh? or is it "I am pretty old" You're pretty old, babe, and it's working for me!

lil_bit Joined Fri 01/25/08 Posts: 1685	Sun 03/02/08 05:29 PM
Can't resist this one Peccy, If one truly cares for themselves, and cares about a significant other, there whoudl be no need to improvement. IMO, if one has let themselves go and need a $700 per month improvement plan, then there are some real personal problems in the underlying.

sounditout Joined Mon 02/04/08 Posts: 307	Mon 03/03/08 04:55 AM
I would, if it didnt bother her, Im not going to force her, but I see no harm in encouraging her. If it did bother her, then I wouldnt force her, and Id use the money on myself. Maybe buy some new clothes, get some pecs, and a six pack, hell make it a 12 pack , face lift, new hair cut, maybe even start a gym membership. **** I could go on and on...

Danette_Giavanna Joined Tue 01/01/08 Posts: 1273	Mon 03/03/08 05:14 AM
No, that's the payment for my Hummer Truck and my truck comes before vanity...

debbie1980 Joined Sun 09/09/07 Posts: 20487	Mon 03/03/08 05:17 AM
Would you encourage your partner to spend money to improve their appearance if it cost say $700 a month? For arguments sake, say you could easily spare that much. defintly NO. i will say im like that with myself, i spend a fortune on skincare, and makeup and designer clothes, but just because im like that, i wouldnt tell anyone else to do that.

DebbieJT Joined Mon 11/26/07 Posts: 10329	Mon 03/03/08 05:19 AM
nope you care for someone for who they are

eskimo_nell Joined Sat 11/24/07 Posts: 3035	Mon 03/03/08 05:19 AM
NO!!