The doctor told one of my sisters that she couldnt have kids. She wishes she could have kids too.

while this is a very painful conditiom, you cannot afford to give up. i used to know one lady with that condition. she decided to remove affected tissues, etc after several years of failed attempts to have a baby.she is now living a happy life.

another lady became pregnant after several years with the same condition. doctors cannot say with 100 percent certainty that you will or will not become pregnant. your chances to become pregnant is greatly reduced.

maybe God has a plan for your life. one that does not include having children of your own. you can have a very happy and productive life even without children.

please do not ever consider negative self destructive thoughts. if you need to talk email me through this site.

good luck.

Deb my sister was diagnosed with that years ago the doctors told her the same thing and now she has 2 healthey young children ages 7 and 4

i know u probley think this is rong,,,,,,but spend some time with kids that don't mind,,,,,,,hate one another,,,mean stubbern,,,,in other words some real bad kids,,,,,,,that might help,,,,,or try woring with kids,,,,,then u might seeing th clock hit 5 pm to where u can go to a quiet home,,,,,just a thought,,,,,,but i do understand

ive worked with children. and i have a neice whos 6 i love to bits. sometimes ive accidently said im her mommy, then i remember im not, i love my neice so much, i want to feel that love with a baby ive made.

You may need more of the endometriosis cleared, but don't give up. It worked for me, but took years, sugery, pain, lots of tears and more surgeries. Worth it all!

Debbie, I know how those longings can tear at you. I did not have your condition, but I remember the despair I felt in my early thirties.....clock ticking... watching my sister have kids...friends have kids...and wanting a family of my own. I had my daughter when I was 34.
Just remember, you are no less a woman or loving, human being if you do not have children. Never give up hope...... and never give up on yourself. You have that love and gift in your heart......... use it however you are able.

there is no more they can do for me, ive had lots of surgery and the endometriosis keeps coming back, its even spread and twisted my bowells. also because ive had so much surgery i have lots of scar tissue, which will alsomake it harder to conceive.

the time will come in the near future when you will have to make a choice between pain free or relentless pain.when that time comes a decision will become quite easy.

Debbie,
In case you can't conceive and (there is always hope) adoption is a wonderful option. It doesn't take conception to be a mom. You'll love the child the same. I was in the process of an adoption when I did conceive my 2nd son. It wasn't my choice, the adoption agency stoped the process, it was their policy.

Debbie,

My Aunt has the same condition with it twisted around the intestines. The Dr.'s put her on the birth control pill to slow the growth. Later, she received fertility shots to get pregnant and did. There is hope.

Seriously, though, I have friends that have adopted children and these children are their very own babies.

I am so sorry that you are having that pain.

My daughter will have a fit if she can't make me a grandbaby. Hope she comes out alright. Well good luck!