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i wish my dream wasnt to have children, because its so hard when you want something so bad, and you may never get it. |
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i wish my dream wasnt to have children, because its so hard when you want something so bad, and you may never get it. thankyou. i  the last 5 words you said. 
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I know you want children of your own but there are children in this world who need a loving family of their own. Would you ever consider adopting? Nothing gives you great satisfaction knowing you gave a child a loving home
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hey sweetie, have you thought of praying about it? doctors told my sister she would NEVER have children because of the same thing...she has (3 ), 16 ,15, and an 8 year old!!!!!!!, plus i have friends that have tried for years and have miscarried numerous times, and they finally have children,so, focus on other things for right now,,and just let it happen, i will pray for you, hang in there
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as some of you might know i have endometriosis, doctors have said it will take me longer to get pregnant, and plenty practising lol and i should be fine, they said on a fertiltly point of view things look good, because my tubes were free of the endometriosis. however i asked one doctor if i could get pregnant, and he said to me, WELL I WOULDNT PUT MONEY ON IT. ive saw about 6 different doctors and he was the only thats said that. the problem is, everytime i see a pregnant women, my heart bleeds and i feel so depressed and upset and theres been times ive felt suicidal, incase i cant get pregnant. women were put on this earth to conceive and i might not be able to, i feel totally worthless and just a waste of space, and i feel i dont have a purpose to be alive sometimes.i cant even have a job because i cant work because im always in so much pain with the endometriosis. my dream in life is to settle down and have a baby, thats why i get so upset when i see someone pregnant, and if i see a newborn baby i just want to hold him/her, as i may never get the chance. how can i stop feeling like this?? first off pray .. God's in the business of miracles second off .. don't ever let ANYTHING take you to the edge of suicide. Life is a gift sweetie, and IF for some crazy reason you end up not carrying a child, that wasn't the reason for YOU. third .. there are boatloads of precious children out there who don't have a chance with out you & others who would take them in. Adoption is a wonderful option. Good luck little missy
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I know you want children of your own but there are children in this world who need a loving family of their own. Would you ever consider adopting? Nothing gives you great satisfaction knowing you gave a child a loving home I couldn't agree more. Speaking from being an adopted child, I am ever so greatful to my parents for adopting me and giving me a wonderful life. My daughter has told me she has no intention of ever having a baby - she plans on adopting. Being a mother doesn't come from whether you can concieve, carry and give birth to a baby - there are plenty of women who do that...Being a mother comes from the heart... |
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hey sweetie, have you thought of praying about it? doctors told my sister she would NEVER have children because of the same thing...she has (3 ), 16 ,15, and an 8 year old!!!!!!!, plus i have friends that have tried for years and have miscarried numerous times, and they finally have children,so, focus on other things for right now,,and just let it happen, i will pray for you, hang in there no i dont pray, i dont know if i beleive in god. ive had some very bad things happen to me, and if there was a god why did he allow that to happen. babies die when there a few hours old, people murder and rape children. in poor countries children are dieing of starvation, thats why i dont believe. i didnt know women with endometriosis miscarried more, when i read that last night it upset me even more, if i get pregnant, and i lost the baby, i would be a total wreck. and thankyou
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I know you want children of your own but there are children in this world who need a loving family of their own. Would you ever consider adopting? Nothing gives you great satisfaction knowing you gave a child a loving home I couldn't agree more. Speaking from being an adopted child, I am ever so greatful to my parents for adopting me and giving me a wonderful life. My daughter has told me she has no intention of ever having a baby - she plans on adopting. Being a mother doesn't come from whether you can concieve, carry and give birth to a baby - there are plenty of women who do that...Being a mother comes from the heart... i dont want to adopt, i want to experience being pregnant, and have a baby growing inside me. it must feel so amazing, and i desperatly want to experience that. |
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I know you want children of your own but there are children in this world who need a loving family of their own. Would you ever consider adopting? Nothing gives you great satisfaction knowing you gave a child a loving home I couldn't agree more. Speaking from being an adopted child, I am ever so greatful to my parents for adopting me and giving me a wonderful life. My daughter has told me she has no intention of ever having a baby - she plans on adopting. Being a mother doesn't come from whether you can concieve, carry and give birth to a baby - there are plenty of women who do that...Being a mother comes from the heart... i dont want to adopt, i want to experience being pregnant, and have a baby growing inside me. it must feel so amazing, and i desperatly want to experience that. Yes it does. I have 5 .. carried 7. But life is from Intelligent Design hon. It's too beautiful not to be. *hugs* |
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as some of you might know i have endometriosis, doctors have said it will take me longer to get pregnant, and plenty practising lol and i should be fine, they said on a fertiltly point of view things look good, because my tubes were free of the endometriosis. however i asked one doctor if i could get pregnant, and he said to me, WELL I WOULDNT PUT MONEY ON IT. ive saw about 6 different doctors and he was the only thats said that. the problem is, everytime i see a pregnant women, my heart bleeds and i feel so depressed and upset and theres been times ive felt suicidal, incase i cant get pregnant. women were put on this earth to conceive and i might not be able to, i feel totally worthless and just a waste of space, and i feel i dont have a purpose to be alive sometimes.i cant even have a job because i cant work because im always in so much pain with the endometriosis. my dream in life is to settle down and have a baby, thats why i get so upset when i see someone pregnant, and if i see a newborn baby i just want to hold him/her, as i may never get the chance. how can i stop feeling like this?? first off pray .. God's in the business of miracles second off .. don't ever let ANYTHING take you to the edge of suicide. Life is a gift sweetie, and IF for some crazy reason you end up not carrying a child, that wasn't the reason for YOU. third .. there are boatloads of precious children out there who don't have a chance with out you & others who would take them in. Adoption is a wonderful option. Good luck little missy cant say much on here, but suicide, well lets just say i know a lot about it. started when i was diagnosed when i was 17. thanks for the goodluck
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I know what your going through not being able to have children but the more you think about it the harder it gets. There are things doctors can do like fertility treatments??
Do you have a partner to have children with ?? |
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I know what your going through not being able to have children but the more you think about it the harder it gets. There are things doctors can do like fertility treatments?? Do you have a partner to have children with ?? i might be able to conceieve, i could get pregnant the first time, its the NOT knowing that kills me. and when i do try for a baby i will have to stop my depot, so i need to get pregnant quick and the endometriosis will spread every where again,i was plastered in it, it even spread to my bowells and twisted them. and when i do try, and im praying im pregnant, and i have a period, i will be heartbroken. seems all so hard. and im sick to death of the constant pain, and ive just been diagnosed with cluster headaches, they are agony, put those together and imagaine the pain, times like that i wish i was dead. |
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Oh debs
So there is a chance of you conceiving. The thing is stress doesn't help and your getting all worked up over something that could happen in the next couple of years you never know whats around the corner hun!! You need to relax and enjoy life and when you least expect it you could find yourself pregnant sweetie. Put it this way my cousin who is 36 had a child 19yrs a go and it was a bad pregnancy she nearly died. Anyway she got pregnant 6yrs ago and had an eptopic pregnancy lost the baby and her tube she only has one tube and was told she won't have children again but here she is 6yrs later and 6 months pregnant. So come on stop worrying and life may throw you some unexpected surprises.
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Oh debs So there is a chance of you conceiving. The thing is stress doesn't help and your getting all worked up over something that could happen in the next couple of years you never know whats around the corner hun!! You need to relax and enjoy life and when you least expect it you could find yourself pregnant sweetie. Put it this way my cousin who is 36 had a child 19yrs a go and it was a bad pregnancy she nearly died. Anyway she got pregnant 6yrs ago and had an eptopic pregnancy lost the baby and her tube she only has one tube and was told she won't have children again but here she is 6yrs later and 6 months pregnant. So come on stop worrying and life may throw you some unexpected surprises. yes there is a chance, the doctor said at my last laparoscopy on a fertility point of view its good, and anothter doctor after doing a laparocopy said my tubes were perfect. but since then the pain has got a lot worse, so theres a chance its spread again, i now could be plastered in it, and my bowells, i dont know. everytime the pain is really bad, i get so scared its spreading, because if it spreads its even harder to conceive. the pain i have on a daily basis is a constant reminder i might not be able to have children. ive suffered this pain since i was diagnosed at 17, im neally 28, ive only suffered it because i desperatly want a baby, if i didnt want one, i would have had a hysterectomy years ago. i just pray all this pain and mental suffering is worth it. i know if i do get pregnant and i see my baby, i will forget all the pain and suffering ive had. |
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You certainly will have children one day and the pain will be worth it but you do need to relax and no stress its no good on tryin to conceive.
Now cheer up cos i said so 
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I second what Nell said!!! ( Hey Nell, wanna practice)
  
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You certainly will have children one day and the pain will be worth it but you do need to relax and no stress its no good on tryin to conceive. Now cheer up cos i said so i hope your right. i really do, thankyou
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I second what Nell said!!! ( Hey Nell, wanna practice) meeee!! what about you doll oops wife??
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I second what Nell said!!! ( Hey Nell, wanna practice) hi jacker lol j/k
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You certainly will have children one day and the pain will be worth it but you do need to relax and no stress its no good on tryin to conceive. Now cheer up cos i said so i hope your right. i really do, thankyou just think positive and get rid of all the negative it will happen one day for you
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