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if your honest with the women before you sleep with them and say its just sex wont be going any futher then fair enough...but if your not then you need to get a grip..cos you are going to hurt someone and it aint fair using women like that ..we are not pieces of meat
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I think you are selfish but so are a lot of folks .. the whole instant gratification then I don't want what I got syndrome is very common.. SO your nice when you break it off .. should you get a medal for that ?? How about not having someone put thier vulnerbility on the line for you ?? I think that you are immature and would be out of depth in a mud puddle ...
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He's a HO
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Edited by
scttrbrain
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Sun 03/02/08 09:29 AM
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Yeah...sit on your ass. Just because you are single doesn't mean you have to have sex. Do you have hands??
 Did I just say that? You asked the question, so you must be in turmoil with yourself. I do not believe one should have sex on the first second or third date. What do we really know about someone that soon? I am of the opinion that you want and need a heart connection and you probably are not going to find it by having sex so soon with a woman. If you want a connection then make a difference. Try getting to know a woman, her likes dislikes, her feelings and what is important to you. There are truths and untruths that get in the way. After those are found out, then look for the fit. If there seems to be one, then the natural thing would be to get personal and see if the difference is there. A heart connection makes sexual feelings come alive and therefore means so much more. Great sex is great sex....but with reality and feeling? Ohhhh sooo much more. Kat Oh and by the way......HO. 
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Im wondering if a woman was to NOT sleep with you for at least 3 months, would you respect her more??? and maybe want to stay with her????
Madonna complex???? I dunno I just woke up.... 
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I think I'm a bit suspicious of the OP.... Here are some previous posts...This was yesterday...
Sat 03/01/08 08:35 AM Dude, my wife left me last December, then proceeded to sleep with half the county. I know what it feels like... that punch in the gut everytime you think of her with someone else. I still get it sometimes, but the old addage "time heals all wounds" is the truth. It's going to take time to get over it--- it's that simple, and there is simply no other way. You're going to be depressed, maybe even suicidal. Just tell yourself that it's going to take time. Although going out whoring around is fun for a while (I did it), that loses it's luster after a while too. They say it takes about two years to fully recover from a long relationship/divorce. Accept that and take the lumps that are coming... I'll be with ya And this one speaks volumes as to the views on women.... Mon 01/07/08 07:33 AM On New Years Eve I met and proceeded to make out with a very cool girl in a mutual state of drunkeness. Phone #'s were exchanged, and we went out last Friday. This girl is AMAZING... we like the same music, TV shows, ect. she is arguably the coolest chick I've ever met. Hell, not only did she know who Monty Python was, she had seen "The Rutles", perhaps the most obscure of Eric Idle's movies... Small glitch... She's not exactly attractive. She's decent looking... a few extra pounds... but otherwise a dream girl. I'm definetley seeing her again, I just hope I can see past some minor physical things I don't like. You would think at my age that these things wouldn't matter. My experience with hot girls has been that they only stick around long enough until they meet an upgrade. Shallow, in other words, and usually boring as hell... So, how important is physical attraction to y'all? Don't lie! Wow.
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Im wondering if a woman was to NOT sleep with you for at least 3 months, would you respect her more??? and maybe want to stay with her???? Madonna complex???? I dunno I just woke up.... Too funny, I was dating a woman for a while and I was the one that held out, used to drive her nuts...But it was the right thing to do |
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I think I'm a bit suspicious of the OP.... Here are some previous posts...This was yesterday... Sat 03/01/08 08:35 AM Dude, my wife left me last December, then proceeded to sleep with half the county. I know what it feels like... that punch in the gut everytime you think of her with someone else. I still get it sometimes, but the old addage "time heals all wounds" is the truth. It's going to take time to get over it--- it's that simple, and there is simply no other way. You're going to be depressed, maybe even suicidal. Just tell yourself that it's going to take time. Although going out whoring around is fun for a while (I did it), that loses it's luster after a while too. They say it takes about two years to fully recover from a long relationship/divorce. Accept that and take the lumps that are coming... I'll be with ya And this one speaks volumes as to the views on women.... Mon 01/07/08 07:33 AM On New Years Eve I met and proceeded to make out with a very cool girl in a mutual state of drunkeness. Phone #'s were exchanged, and we went out last Friday. This girl is AMAZING... we like the same music, TV shows, ect. she is arguably the coolest chick I've ever met. Hell, not only did she know who Monty Python was, she had seen "The Rutles", perhaps the most obscure of Eric Idle's movies... Small glitch... She's not exactly attractive. She's decent looking... a few extra pounds... but otherwise a dream girl. I'm definetley seeing her again, I just hope I can see past some minor physical things I don't like. You would think at my age that these things wouldn't matter. My experience with hot girls has been that they only stick around long enough until they meet an upgrade. Shallow, in other words, and usually boring as hell... So, how important is physical attraction to y'all? Don't lie! Wow. out of depth in a mud puddle .. I just called it like I saw it without the other stuff .. now I am thinking out of depth in a raindrop .. |
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Yup. He makes a post yesterday saying all the things he did not say here, and asked advice about...
And says all women are just looking for something better and that he'd rather have a woman with better physical attributes than one he actually likes. I think this will do wonders for him in a dating sense. All talk, too much action? No depth. |
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I think I'm a bit suspicious of the OP.... Here are some previous posts...This was yesterday... Sat 03/01/08 08:35 AM Dude, my wife left me last December, then proceeded to sleep with half the county. I know what it feels like... that punch in the gut everytime you think of her with someone else. I still get it sometimes, but the old addage "time heals all wounds" is the truth. It's going to take time to get over it--- it's that simple, and there is simply no other way. You're going to be depressed, maybe even suicidal. Just tell yourself that it's going to take time. Although going out whoring around is fun for a while (I did it), that loses it's luster after a while too. They say it takes about two years to fully recover from a long relationship/divorce. Accept that and take the lumps that are coming... I'll be with ya And this one speaks volumes as to the views on women.... Mon 01/07/08 07:33 AM On New Years Eve I met and proceeded to make out with a very cool girl in a mutual state of drunkeness. Phone #'s were exchanged, and we went out last Friday. This girl is AMAZING... we like the same music, TV shows, ect. she is arguably the coolest chick I've ever met. Hell, not only did she know who Monty Python was, she had seen "The Rutles", perhaps the most obscure of Eric Idle's movies... Small glitch... She's not exactly attractive. She's decent looking... a few extra pounds... but otherwise a dream girl. I'm definetley seeing her again, I just hope I can see past some minor physical things I don't like. You would think at my age that these things wouldn't matter. My experience with hot girls has been that they only stick around long enough until they meet an upgrade. Shallow, in other words, and usually boring as hell... So, how important is physical attraction to y'all? Don't lie! Wow. Ouch! You float like a butterfly, sting like a bee
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 No probiscus here...
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the wonderful thing is there are hundreds like this one out there .. so he is not unique or special in any way and who wants to settle ..
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No probiscus here... There you go using those big words on me again
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It's definetley getting old. I think some of you are missing the point... I get it that this behavior is wrong. So what do I do in the meantime? Divorced folks-- how long does it take? Are you being honest to women you date and telling them you are not ready to get into a relationship? Ever think maybe they are just in it for the challenge, too? Just be up front with the women you date so they know where they stand and let them make their own decisions if they want to have a sexual relationship with you. Maybe they are bored with you after sex, too. |
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Ohhh... I do I do... I want a man who will critique my physical attributes, assume I am just waiting for something better, and to have sex with me only to have him tell me nicely later I just don't cut it... and that it's me. Not him.
Jim.. I actually spelled it wrong.. sorry. It's proboscis.. please don't tell Lex. Please? |
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these kind of guys should come with warning.some of these women might regret giving in and the next man will pay.we all take a risk but women more often have feeling when they have sex.some might not i guess after so many men it just doesnt matter but i'm just not that way
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Ohhh... I do I do... I want a man who will critique my physical attributes, assume I am just waiting for something better, and to have sex with me only to have him tell me nicely later I just don't cut it... and that it's me. Not him. Jim.. I actually spelled it wrong.. sorry. It's proboscis.. please don't tell Lex. Please? what you mean that is not called foreplay ? I thought that is how it worked ... |
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Well, OP, I perved your profile to see how you present yourself...
You do say you are not looking for anything serious, just want to meet and have some fun.... you have only been apart from your Ex for a relatively short time, so you are out there testing the waters so to speak....losing interest just indicates you are not ready for committment & your body is telling you that....feeling jealous about your Ex doing the same thing you are doing is another indicator that you have not cleaned out your past and therefore not ready to commit... having sex with someone either the first, second, or third time you meet is a decision the two of you make...after all you are both adults....so for any of us to sit here judging you based on that is unnecessary.... I think Lilith has pointed out many things about your point of view and personality that you should take into consideration especially if you want to grow as a person...sometimes the best advice given is the hardest to receive...think about what she has told you... 
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You can date but you dont have to have sex immediately. Yhats probably why you lose interest. So that must be all you want right now. Make sure the women you date know that so they can use you & kick you to the curb
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This has been bothering me, so I need some opinions... Since my divorce I've dated about six or seven women (I was divorced last December, 2006). I always start these relationships with good intentions. The problem is that almost immediatley after I have sex with a woman, I lose interest in them, to the point that I don't want to speak to them. I am never a **** about breaking it off, in fact, I've stayed friends with several of them. I just don't understand it. Regardless of whether the sex is incredible, or mediocre, the results are the same. A friend of mine said that I'm addicted to the chase, and when the chase is over (usually no more than two or three dates), it's on to the next conquest. I think I'm just not meeting a woman who is "sweeping me off my feet". Do any of you experience this? Is it a phase of divorce (I'm still A LITTLE hung up on my wife, mostly jealousy)? I am not an ass hole, and not proud of these CONQUESTS, as many people would put it. Opinions? I have been seperated from my ex since May of 2007. Like you I have had several relationships. I was with him for 12 years married for 8 of them. I just think its because i'm not ready to settle down again and want to "see what is out there" |
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