Topic: abortion
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Sun 03/02/08 09:21 AM
i was just about to say barbie

if your mature enough to have sex, then you should be mature enough about the consequences, especially if you dont use a contraceptive.

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Sun 03/02/08 09:23 AM

i was just about to say barbie

if your mature enough to have sex, then you should be mature enough about the consequences, especially if you dont use a contraceptive.


HELLO PEOPLE! She didnt ask for a debate on whether it is right or wrong. Would you be this harsh to someone you love who is hurting?? How bout some compassion?

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Sun 03/02/08 09:24 AM

Well my oppinion on abortion is this. If you were big enough to lay down and play you should be big enough to suffer the consiquences unless.......... a) something is roung with the pregnancy that could hurt mom or the baby b) the pregnancie was caused by a rape! There are plenty of men and woman out there that would love to have kids that can't and would be more than happy to give love and caring to a baby that someone else can't. Just a thought.... isn't condoms or birth control cheaper than an abortion?

abortions are free in the uk, but you can only have 3. if you want more you have to pay. keep having abortions is damaging to the body. i know someone who had 3 abortions, and thought she was pregnant AGAIN, and she couldnt afford to pay for another. luckily she wasnt pregnant. HOW FUC*ING STUPID CAN PEOPLE BE TO HAVE 3 ABORTIONS OR MORE, DO THEY NOT LEARN?? OR DO THEY ENJOY MURDERING THERE BABY explode explode explode :angry: :angry:

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Sun 03/02/08 09:25 AM


i was just about to say barbie

if your mature enough to have sex, then you should be mature enough about the consequences, especially if you dont use a contraceptive.


HELLO PEOPLE! She didnt ask for a debate on whether it is right or wrong. Would you be this harsh to someone you love who is hurting?? How bout some compassion?


The whole thread as been a debate, dont direct it to me. yellow did say a few times to see the other thread about abortion, and like yellow said it was more civil, and shes right.

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Sun 03/02/08 09:25 AM
as i said difference of opinion here but this girl is fifteen and i think enoughs been said hope your sister comes out of this ok hun...you both take care

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Sun 03/02/08 09:26 AM
For instance.... I was 15 when i got pregnant for my son whom is now 11. When i went to the doctor and found out that i was pregnant the doctors first words were "what r u going to do"? The first words out of my mouth was "keep it". It was my fault for not using protection not my sons. He had every right to have a living chance. I know of a girl from school that had like 3 or 4 abortions in high school. That just makes me totally sick! That is why they invented birth control!

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Sun 03/02/08 09:26 AM
Brokenwing, i wanted to apologize for this thread. I am very angry and sorry that the people on here seem to be so uncaring and cruel. PLEASE IGNORE THESE JERKS!!

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Sun 03/02/08 09:28 AM

For instance.... I was 15 when i got pregnant for my son whom is now 11. When i went to the doctor and found out that i was pregnant the doctors first words were "what r u going to do"? The first words out of my mouth was "keep it". It was my fault for not using protection not my sons. He had every right to have a living chance. I know of a girl from school that had like 3 or 4 abortions in high school. That just makes me totally sick! That is why they invented birth control!


good for you.flowerforyou flowerforyou you were 15, but you were still responsible, thats brilliant. if you read my post above, you will see my opinion on women having 3 or more abortions. flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou

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Sun 03/02/08 09:29 AM


i was just about to say barbie

if your mature enough to have sex, then you should be mature enough about the consequences, especially if you dont use a contraceptive.


HELLO PEOPLE! She didnt ask for a debate on whether it is right or wrong. Would you be this harsh to someone you love who is hurting?? How bout some compassion?


This was her post....

Sat 03/01/08 07:36 PM
i want some feedback on whats right and wrong about this i need to help my sister out cuz she just had one and is really going through it bad now

if i read it right it say's right and wroung!

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Sun 03/02/08 09:30 AM


For instance.... I was 15 when i got pregnant for my son whom is now 11. When i went to the doctor and found out that i was pregnant the doctors first words were "what r u going to do"? The first words out of my mouth was "keep it". It was my fault for not using protection not my sons. He had every right to have a living chance. I know of a girl from school that had like 3 or 4 abortions in high school. That just makes me totally sick! That is why they invented birth control!


good for you.flowerforyou flowerforyou you were 15, but you were still responsible, thats brilliant. if you read my post above, you will see my opinion on women having 3 or more abortions. flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou


I read that i think that is wroung! Who pay's for the first three? Men and woman that can't have kids?

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Sun 03/02/08 09:31 AM


i was just about to say barbie

if your mature enough to have sex, then you should be mature enough about the consequences, especially if you dont use a contraceptive.


HELLO PEOPLE! She didnt ask for a debate on whether it is right or wrong. Would you be this harsh to someone you love who is hurting?? How bout some compassion?


Yes I would. Especially if I loved them and wanted to spare them.
Kat

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Sun 03/02/08 09:31 AM
yep they invented birth control unfortunatley kids from 12 upwards, have alot to learn and one is remembering what there parents tell them and using trhat information wisely..and although some girls can handle bringing up a kid under the age of 16 some cant..yes theres adoption etc but even then the whole process can be scary as hell, im not a great believer of abortion but i sure as hell wouldnt judge a scared 13, 14 or 15 year old kid who had one

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Sun 03/02/08 09:31 AM
Okay...yes she did say that, I guess. But I dont see how saying these things are going to help her sister.

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Sun 03/02/08 09:32 AM

Brokenwing, i wanted to apologize for this thread. I am very angry and sorry that the people on here seem to be so uncaring and cruel. PLEASE IGNORE THESE JERKS!!


so its not uncaring to murder a baby??

some people are deserate for a baby and cant have them, instead of murdering the baby why dont they let couples who cant have children raise that child properly and make there dreams come true.

i have endometriosis, and it may be harder for me to conceive, thats why it annoys me so much, so many murdered babies, that would have had loving homes.

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Sun 03/02/08 09:33 AM
Keep your opinions to yourself... Ill keep mine to myself...itll make a much happier place.

drinker

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Sun 03/02/08 09:34 AM



For instance.... I was 15 when i got pregnant for my son whom is now 11. When i went to the doctor and found out that i was pregnant the doctors first words were "what r u going to do"? The first words out of my mouth was "keep it". It was my fault for not using protection not my sons. He had every right to have a living chance. I know of a girl from school that had like 3 or 4 abortions in high school. That just makes me totally sick! That is why they invented birth control!


good for you.flowerforyou flowerforyou you were 15, but you were still responsible, thats brilliant. if you read my post above, you will see my opinion on women having 3 or more abortions. flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou


I read that i think that is wroung! Who pay's for the first three? Men and woman that can't have kids?


here in the uk, our national health service will do 3 abortions free, but anymore you have to pay private.

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Sun 03/02/08 09:35 AM

Okay...yes she did say that, I guess. But I dont see how saying these things are going to help her sister.


her sister wont get help from a dating site, her sister needs to go and see her doctor or a councellor.

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Sun 03/02/08 09:36 AM



i was just about to say barbie

if your mature enough to have sex, then you should be mature enough about the consequences, especially if you dont use a contraceptive.


HELLO PEOPLE! She didnt ask for a debate on whether it is right or wrong. Would you be this harsh to someone you love who is hurting?? How bout some compassion?


This was her post....

Sat 03/01/08 07:36 PM
i want some feedback on whats right and wrong about this i need to help my sister out cuz she just had one and is really going through it bad now

if i read it right it say's right and wroung!



after reading that, i would take it as she wants opinions good and bad, therefore it will be a debate.

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Sun 03/02/08 09:38 AM
It is her body, her choice.

She is struggling with her feelings. Did she receive counseling before the procedure? It sounds like she would benefit from psychotherapy and/or some non-jugemental spiritual counseling. Please encourage her to get it as soon as possible.

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Sun 03/02/08 09:39 AM

Brokenwing, i wanted to apologize for this thread. I am very angry and sorry that the people on here seem to be so uncaring and cruel. PLEASE IGNORE THESE JERKS!!

Sorry not picking on you but it is yours that gives me the words.
Uncaring??? Is it uncaring to love and believe that the unborn BABY has a right to life? Uncaring to believe that all life has a right to live as we all do? I have wondered what would be if my mom had aborted me? She had it rough. But, still managed to raise healthy loving children.
I believe abortion to be murder. I have seen that two month old fetus. It has arms, a head, fingers, toes, ribs,it is a baby. A tiny tiny baby. What of the PAIN that a fetus is FORCED to endure when being torn apart in the mothers womb.Unimaginable pain. The mothers body? Do what she wants? What of the babies body that has no control over it's own body? Who speaaks for that child? Not an uncaring person. A person that CARES.
This a topic that can get really nasty. This one is fairing quite well. I have seen it get MUCH WORSE.
Kat