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Topic: abortion
countrybumpkin2u's photo
Sat 03/01/08 05:09 PM

can I please state...everyone is entitled to their opinions. that's what a good debate is. an arguement is with insulting remarks. please don't be afraid to speak up bigsmile

ok....off the soap box


Ok Yellow you are right.flowerforyou
Here is my oppinion....
The Child has a heart beat!!!
IT IS MURDER!!!!!!!!!

hottpinkilicious's photo
Sat 03/01/08 05:09 PM
Does anyone know that exact statistics of women who ahve abortions and those who commit suicide?

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Sat 03/01/08 05:09 PM

Pro Life....all the way. No matter the situation.
Abortion=murder.
You can justify it or rationalize it all you want, but this is a human being and it is murder.
I think that all of the arguing about it is just people's way of justifying a decision that they know deep down is not right.

Good thread. I like to see other people's opinion on things like this.
Thanks


thanks for saying i made a good thread flowerforyou flowerforyou

TheShadow's photo
Sat 03/01/08 05:09 PM




WoW! there are so many views on this. but one thing i can't stand, is women that use it as a form of birth contolmad I seen thsi happen all to many times. I think it is the womens choice, but there is a limit to things...


i agree but then again...if you put restrictions on that then women would do what they did years ago. they would go to back wood abortionists or do something themselves


Well if some of them learn how to close ther legs, then there would be a different out look on this....


the flipside is true though too shadow. If more men learned to keep their pants on and fully zipped and buttoned, there would be different outlook also.


So the show goes onlaugh

yellowrose10's photo
Sat 03/01/08 05:10 PM



playing devils advocate here for a sec (i'm sooooo good at it lol)

what if the father wants the child and would love and care for the child?? shouldn't he have a say? i know the woman has to carry the child but shouldn't she have thought about that?


Did he have a written contract with her prior to the poke? If not, I think it is her decision. drinker


where does it state in the laws that a man loses his right to be a father, simply because the mother doesn't want to be a mother?

It all boils down to one simple question. "are you willing to be a parent or give the child up for adoption if you don't want to be a parent"
If you do not want to be a parent, and are unwilling to let the child be born if a pregnancy occurs, then you should not be having sex. Period.
For a lady victim to rape, I am sorry but as a lady posted in here using herself as an example, abortion is still wrong. Yes, you might not be emotionally capable of raising the child, like this lady is, however there is still adoption. And for every single person that claims adoption is useless and not working, bull****. Almost every single newborn baby that is put up for adoption is adopted, most before they are even born.
yes I can understand (although I still do not agree personally) how someone would choose abortion if it meant saving the lady's life. But unless you can prove beyond a shadow of a doubt that the child would be born dead (dead upon birth, not dying shortly thereafter), then in my opinion abortion is nothing more than legalized murder.


I disagree. I kept my son but I know what the fear and emotions involved are. Until in that situation...who can say how they would react. before my son...i would have said abortion

yellowrose10's photo
Sat 03/01/08 05:11 PM


can I please state...everyone is entitled to their opinions. that's what a good debate is. an arguement is with insulting remarks. please don't be afraid to speak up bigsmile

ok....off the soap box


Ok Yellow you are right.flowerforyou
Here is my oppinion....
The Child has a heart beat!!!
IT IS MURDER!!!!!!!!!


and that's your opinion...you are learning grasshopper laugh

summerlady's photo
Sat 03/01/08 05:12 PM


I just feel that in some cases such as rape, incest, or if because of prenatal testing you know the child will have some very serious medical condition, then abortion is OK. I do have a problem though if it is used just as a form of birth control.


thats exactly what i said. flowerforyou


Sorry Debbie, I apologize, I did not read everything here. blushing

yellowrose10's photo
Sat 03/01/08 05:12 PM

Does anyone know that exact statistics of women who ahve abortions and those who commit suicide?


i wish i did but i know suicide happens without abortions. i think it's something they need to get therapy about if they chose to go through it. but i'm not president...YET!!!! happy

countrybumpkin2u's photo
Sat 03/01/08 05:14 PM



can I please state...everyone is entitled to their opinions. that's what a good debate is. an arguement is with insulting remarks. please don't be afraid to speak up bigsmile

ok....off the soap box


Ok Yellow you are right.flowerforyou
Here is my oppinion....
The Child has a heart beat!!!
IT IS MURDER!!!!!!!!!


and that's your opinion...you are learning grasshopper laugh


Its something that is deep in my heart of hearts...
I was raped thru out my whole life.
I am basing my Oppinion from first hand exp.

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Sat 03/01/08 05:14 PM
this isnt nice, but, someone close to me had a abortion, she was over 3 months pregnant,so they couldnt do the abortion the normal way. they sedated her, gave her drugs tto kill the baby, and put instruments inside her to crush the babys skull and ribs, therefore its easier to get the baby out. its awful, i could never do that.

unsure's photo
Sat 03/01/08 05:15 PM
You don't want a baby? Then don't spread your legs!!

countrybumpkin2u's photo
Sat 03/01/08 05:17 PM

this isnt nice, but, someone close to me had a abortion, she was over 3 months pregnant,so they couldnt do the abortion the normal way. they sedated her, gave her drugs tto kill the baby, and put instruments inside her to crush the babys skull and ribs, therefore its easier to get the baby out. its awful, i could never do that.



And the child did not deserve that.

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Sat 03/01/08 05:23 PM



I just feel that in some cases such as rape, incest, or if because of prenatal testing you know the child will have some very serious medical condition, then abortion is OK. I do have a problem though if it is used just as a form of birth control.


thats exactly what i said. flowerforyou


Sorry Debbie, I apologize, I did not read everything here. blushing


thats fine flowerforyou flowerforyou

no photo
Sat 03/01/08 05:24 PM


this isnt nice, but, someone close to me had a abortion, she was over 3 months pregnant,so they couldnt do the abortion the normal way. they sedated her, gave her drugs tto kill the baby, and put instruments inside her to crush the babys skull and ribs, therefore its easier to get the baby out. its awful, i could never do that.



And the child did not deserve that.



i agree flowerforyou

countrybumpkin2u's photo
Sat 03/01/08 05:26 PM



this isnt nice, but, someone close to me had a abortion, she was over 3 months pregnant,so they couldnt do the abortion the normal way. they sedated her, gave her drugs tto kill the baby, and put instruments inside her to crush the babys skull and ribs, therefore its easier to get the baby out. its awful, i could never do that.



And the child did not deserve that.


:heart: I luv ya Debbie:heart: , But sorry I have to leave the thread I am sure You understand.ohwell
i agree flowerforyou

no photo
Sat 03/01/08 05:28 PM




this isnt nice, but, someone close to me had a abortion, she was over 3 months pregnant,so they couldnt do the abortion the normal way. they sedated her, gave her drugs tto kill the baby, and put instruments inside her to crush the babys skull and ribs, therefore its easier to get the baby out. its awful, i could never do that.



And the child did not deserve that.




:heart: I luv ya Debbie:heart: , But sorry I have to leave the thread I am sure You understand.ohwell
i agree flowerforyou



i understand hun flowerforyou flowerforyou

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