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Topic: temporary periods of loneliness
Mindy2483 Joined Wed 10/31/07 Posts: 15	Thu 02/28/08 09:58 PM
Hi All Im usually a pretty upbeat person, but lately Ive just been pretty down- lonely I guess. And Im sure its just a temporary rut, but any tips on how to get out of this rut- or on how to distract oneself while going through it? Thanks

Gypsy41 Joined Tue 05/15/07 Posts: 123359	Thu 02/28/08 09:59 PM
I think everyone is allowed to have a few lonely moments.....

itsmetina Joined Sun 12/09/07 Posts: 18944	Thu 02/28/08 09:59 PM
just find a cute neighbor

EtherealEmbers Joined Sun 02/03/08 Posts: 6580	Thu 02/28/08 09:59 PM
big hugs I've heard it's a very common thing around this time of year, since it's not very sunny. Try some light therapy

erowid1 Joined Wed 02/06/08 Posts: 1029	Thu 02/28/08 10:00 PM
Just know you arent the only one going through it and that it will pass!

Beachfarmer Joined Tue 04/17/07 Posts: 24661	Thu 02/28/08 10:00 PM
You're doing it right now Sweets. I said "doing it".

curios789 Joined Mon 12/03/07 Posts: 3156	Thu 02/28/08 10:00 PM
I feel ya...I just had a killer one tonight. I just took a walk for about an hour. Guess what? Didn't help.

Wonderbread Joined Wed 12/13/06 Posts: 5587	Thu 02/28/08 10:01 PM
I find smashing things with a large 25lb sledge hammer tends to break me from the lonelyness. Mainly fruits, sometimes vegetables, depends on how far i can get them from the hospital. I've already said to much....

Pjinkysmom63 Joined Tue 11/13/07 Posts: 331	Thu 02/28/08 10:01 PM
Join in on the forums I promise you won't be sad

hikerchick Joined Sat 12/22/07 Posts: 13206	Thu 02/28/08 10:02 PM
You're doing it right now Sweets. I said "doing it". oh baby oh baby

EtherealEmbers Joined Sun 02/03/08 Posts: 6580	Thu 02/28/08 10:02 PM
Actually chatting doesn't help much, but surrounding yourself with other people in person seems to a bit... as long as you're not surrounding yourself with a bunch of happy couples cuz it sucks when I do that.

erowid1 Joined Wed 02/06/08 Posts: 1029	Thu 02/28/08 10:03 PM
I feel ya...I just had a killer one tonight. I just took a walk for about an hour. Guess what? Didn't help. lol!

hikerchick Joined Sat 12/22/07 Posts: 13206	Thu 02/28/08 10:03 PM
I feel ya...I just had a killer one tonight. I just took a walk for about an hour. Guess what? Didn't help. Dave!! I was reading some of your posts from earlier today. My. you were really "on" this afternoon. Wish I had been there.

Jtevans Joined Fri 08/10/07 Posts: 30654	Thu 02/28/08 10:03 PM
whew.... i seen the word "periods"and it scared me

TwilightsTwin Joined Tue 04/10/07 Posts: 11054	Thu 02/28/08 10:03 PM
Hi All Im usually a pretty upbeat person, but lately Ive just been pretty down- lonely I guess. And Im sure its just a temporary rut, but any tips on how to get out of this rut- or on how to distract oneself while going through it? Thanks This is going to sound odd...but I rearrange furniture. It helps! Its laborous and uses a lot of creativity (esp. when you rearrange you house as often as I do)

curios789 Joined Mon 12/03/07 Posts: 3156	Thu 02/28/08 10:03 PM
Wonderfullllllll..... my roommate feels the need to webcam with his girlfriend again. Here it comes again.

hikerchick Joined Sat 12/22/07 Posts: 13206	Thu 02/28/08 10:04 PM
Actually chatting doesn't help much, but surrounding yourself with other people in person seems to a bit... as long as you're not surrounding yourself with a bunch of happy couples cuz it sucks when I do that. hmm..I find the opposite..chatting with the maniacs in the forum makes time fly and distracts me from anything that might be bothering me.

Mindy2483 Joined Wed 10/31/07 Posts: 15	Thu 02/28/08 10:05 PM
Thanks so much for all the suggestions. I just have to keep telling myself its only temporary. thanks again

mdl7070 Joined Wed 03/21/07 Posts: 1470	Thu 02/28/08 10:05 PM
carnal pleasure may work

Engraven_Image Joined Fri 01/25/08 Posts: 7798	Thu 02/28/08 10:06 PM
I feel ya...I just had a killer one tonight. I just took a walk for about an hour. Guess what? Didn't help. Same here... thank God for JSH!!! I use to handle it by goin to strip clubs, bars, and even one night stands; but I realized I have 2 sons that look up to me and I'd rather do everything I could to keep a smile on their faces even if I ain't smilin on the inside. Just waitin on the right woman to bump into me!