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Topic: Why do guys have to do all the work?
Cmigic's photo
Wed 02/27/08 10:13 AM
When it comes to picking up a woman, why is it that even with numbers about the same population-wise, guys have to do all the wooing, the courting and stuff. Why cant we go to a bar and have the women buy us drinks (after all they do make the same money in mose truely civilised countries now) why cant they use the pick up lines and embarrass themselves. Why cant we have the pick of who we want to take home, of who we want to start a relationship with etc...? WHY??? (and if there is a bar like that that isnt a male strip club----send me an email and let me know where it islaugh )

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Wed 02/27/08 10:14 AM
Why are men so much whinier now than the good old days when men were men???laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh

franshade's photo
Wed 02/27/08 10:16 AM

Why are men so much whinier now than the good old days when men were men???laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh


wtg laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh


hellkitten54's photo
Wed 02/27/08 10:16 AM
There are plenty of times that I pay. I'm not stingy at all. :smile:

MirrorMirror's photo
Wed 02/27/08 10:16 AM
smokin Men are more aggresive by nature. smokin

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Wed 02/27/08 10:16 AM

When it comes to picking up a woman, why is it that even with numbers about the same population-wise, guys have to do all the wooing, the courting and stuff. Why cant we go to a bar and have the women buy us drinks (after all they do make the same money in mose truely civilised countries now) why cant they use the pick up lines and embarrass themselves. Why cant we have the pick of who we want to take home, of who we want to start a relationship with etc...? WHY??? (and if there is a bar like that that isnt a male strip club----send me an email and let me know where it islaugh )
laugh Dude ur a male u should love to be the chaser its in ur blood but then again that is for only dominant males, If a woman is that in to u she will come after u believe me it happens but stop whining about it u sound like u want to be to submissivehuh

MirrorMirror's photo
Wed 02/27/08 10:17 AM
smokin A man should almost always pay for everythingsmokin

alon4now's photo
Wed 02/27/08 10:17 AM

Why are men so much whinier now than the good old days when men were men???laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh

lol that was funny.

jhitchco's photo
Wed 02/27/08 10:17 AM
I agree. There are women out there that do those things but they are still rare. I would just once be loved to be asked to go out on a date not have to put myself out there for failure

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Wed 02/27/08 10:17 AM
Men are supposed to be the hunters........geeeeeez you need to read some more books on men......men are from mars mon!!:wink: laugh laugh laugh

txmomof2's photo
Wed 02/27/08 10:17 AM

Why are men so much whinier now than the good old days when men were men???laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh
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Wed 02/27/08 10:18 AM

smokin Men are more aggresive by nature. smokin
Mirror I think ur aggresive by nature blushing its quite lovely i must say flowerforyou

TheShadow's photo
Wed 02/27/08 10:18 AM
Edited by TheShadow on Wed 02/27/08 10:19 AM
I've had women buy me flowers, teddybares, etc etc. I find it if you give a little to the right woman, she will give a little back. Now to find that one. It's really hard ohwell

dcrdnk's photo
Wed 02/27/08 10:18 AM

When it comes to picking up a woman, why is it that even with numbers about the same population-wise, guys have to do all the wooing, the courting and stuff. Why cant we go to a bar and have the women buy us drinks (after all they do make the same money in mose truely civilised countries now) why cant they use the pick up lines and embarrass themselves. Why cant we have the pick of who we want to take home, of who we want to start a relationship with etc...? WHY??? (and if there is a bar like that that isnt a male strip club----send me an email and let me know where it islaugh )


I don't seem ta have that prob.

Must be at the right bar laugh laugh drinker drinker

hellkitten54's photo
Wed 02/27/08 10:20 AM

I've had women buy me flowers, teddybares, etc etc. I find it if you give a little to the right woman, she will give a little back. Now to find that one. It's really hard ohwell


See, that's exactly the way I am. I love to shower my man with gifts and kisses and extra presents...:wink:

But I also love getting those things too. It should be fifty-fifty.flowerforyou

caamken's photo
Wed 02/27/08 10:20 AM

Why are men so much whinier now than the good old days when men were men???laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh
drinker drinker drinker drinker

Cmigic's photo
Wed 02/27/08 10:20 AM
I guess It went ZOOOOM above all your head. IT"S ABOUT SEXUAL CONTROL! Women have it Men do not. Thats what the underlying question is. WHY CANT MEN HAVE ALL THE SEXUAL CONTROL. Prince said it right "p u ss y control" and thats just it. women control the entire sexual process. Even the chase.

tanyaztoy's photo
Wed 02/27/08 10:20 AM

Why are men so much whinier now than the good old days when men were men???laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh

Thank you! I on the other hand think that the whole courtship thing has been forgotten by men. Sometimes they think if they buy you a drink we owe you something. Or they consider that courting. I personally have no problem making the first move on a guy in a bar or buying him a drink. But, what happened to the man buying flowers of dinner?

hellkitten54's photo
Wed 02/27/08 10:20 AM


When it comes to picking up a woman, why is it that even with numbers about the same population-wise, guys have to do all the wooing, the courting and stuff. Why cant we go to a bar and have the women buy us drinks (after all they do make the same money in mose truely civilised countries now) why cant they use the pick up lines and embarrass themselves. Why cant we have the pick of who we want to take home, of who we want to start a relationship with etc...? WHY??? (and if there is a bar like that that isnt a male strip club----send me an email and let me know where it islaugh )


I don't seem ta have that prob.

Must be at the right bar laugh laugh drinker drinker


laugh laugh

JustLooking3's photo
Wed 02/27/08 10:21 AM
By nature man is the hunter, more aggressive and there is a lot of competition between male's and women know this and don't have to try as hard.

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