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Topic: Why do guys have to do all the work?
TheShadow Joined Sun 08/13/06 Posts: 14218	Wed 02/27/08 10:23 AM
I've had women buy me flowers, teddybares, etc etc. I find it if you give a little to the right woman, she will give a little back. Now to find that one. It's really hard See, that's exactly the way I am. I love to shower my man with gifts and kisses and extra presents... But I also love getting those things too. It should be fifty-fifty. Yeah and when it freely given is when it's more appreciated

hellkitten54 Joined Sun 01/06/08 Posts: 11707	Wed 02/27/08 10:24 AM
I've had women buy me flowers, teddybares, etc etc. I find it if you give a little to the right woman, she will give a little back. Now to find that one. It's really hard See, that's exactly the way I am. I love to shower my man with gifts and kisses and extra presents... But I also love getting those things too. It should be fifty-fifty. Yeah and when it freely given is when it's more appreciated Exactly.

QwicherBytchin Joined Sat 09/01/07 Posts: 1240	Wed 02/27/08 10:24 AM
I've asked men out plenty of times. Been turned down alot too. It just seems to work better if he asks me out. Contrary to how you feel about this subject, a lot of men are intimidated by a woman who is aggressive.

caamken Joined Sat 09/01/07 Posts: 18287	Wed 02/27/08 10:24 AM
I guess It went ZOOOOM above all your head. IT"S ABOUT SEXUAL CONTROL! Women have it Men do not. Thats what the underlying question is. WHY CANT MEN HAVE ALL THE SEXUAL CONTROL. Prince said it right "p u ss y control" and thats just it. women control the entire sexual process. Even the chase. can't say i have had that problem either maybe it is the attitude you have

Cmigic Joined Sun 01/13/08 Posts: 532	Wed 02/27/08 10:26 AM
and dont get me wrong by thinking I'm whinning, I'm just trying to see how many people realize that in the north american societies Women actually rule the sexuality scene. Unlike most of europe (excluding UK cause they're like the americans) but if you go to an eastern european counrty, women will approch men without inhibitions and start it up. So by what all of you are saying these women are agressive hunter types? hmmm i think not. just a diffrent set of values and ethnic customs.

blueeyedbarbie Joined Tue 01/22/08 Posts: 310	Wed 02/27/08 10:27 AM
WELL ME BEING ME I'M NOT THE TYPE TO MAKE THE FIRST MOVE. I THINK THAT IT SHOULD BE THE MALE TO MAKE THE MOVE. I ALSO FEEL THAT HE SHOULD PAY FOR THE DRINKS.

hellkitten54 Joined Sun 01/06/08 Posts: 11707	Wed 02/27/08 10:29 AM
WELL ME BEING ME I'M NOT THE TYPE TO MAKE THE FIRST MOVE. I THINK THAT IT SHOULD BE THE MALE TO MAKE THE MOVE. I ALSO FEEL THAT HE SHOULD PAY FOR THE DRINKS. Do you also yell at them?

Cmigic Joined Sun 01/13/08 Posts: 532	Wed 02/27/08 10:29 AM
When it comes to picking up a woman, why is it that even with numbers about the same population-wise, guys have to do all the wooing, the courting and stuff. Why cant we go to a bar and have the women buy us drinks (after all they do make the same money in mose truely civilised countries now) why cant they use the pick up lines and embarrass themselves. Why cant we have the pick of who we want to take home, of who we want to start a relationship with etc...? WHY??? (and if there is a bar like that that isnt a male strip club----send me an email and let me know where it is ) I don't seem ta have that prob. Must be at the right bar I guess It went ZOOOOM above all your head. IT"S ABOUT SEXUAL CONTROL! Women have it Men do not. Thats what the underlying question is. WHY CANT MEN HAVE ALL THE SEXUAL CONTROL. Prince said it right "p u ss y control" and thats just it. women control the entire sexual process. Even the chase. can't say i have had that problem either maybe it is the attitude you have yup you guys must have dates all the time...women punding at your doors right? thats why you're on here..... studs that you are?

caamken Joined Sat 09/01/07 Posts: 18287	Wed 02/27/08 10:29 AM
and dont get me wrong by thinking I'm whinning, I'm just trying to see how many people realize that in the north american societies Women actually rule the sexuality scene. Unlike most of europe (excluding UK cause they're like the americans) but if you go to an eastern european counrty, women will approch men without inhibitions and start it up. So by what all of you are saying these women are agressive hunter types? hmmm i think not. just a diffrent set of values and ethnic customs. are you talking the countries were the women have more hair than the men

crystalclearlyone Joined Sat 01/12/08 Posts: 1	Wed 02/27/08 10:29 AM
just wanted you to know that women still do not make as much as men. In fact about 40% less.

TheShadow Joined Sun 08/13/06 Posts: 14218	Wed 02/27/08 10:29 AM Edited by TheShadow on Wed 02/27/08 10:30 AM
WELL ME BEING ME I'M NOT THE TYPE TO MAKE THE FIRST MOVE. I THINK THAT IT SHOULD BE THE MALE TO MAKE THE MOVE. I ALSO FEEL THAT HE SHOULD PAY FOR THE DRINKS. Yeah but little hint's that your interested in them, don't hurt Ok people i'm out of here. have a good day everyone

Gypsy41 Joined Tue 05/15/07 Posts: 123359	Wed 02/27/08 10:30 AM
<----holder of the nectar of the GODS!!!

hellkitten54 Joined Sun 01/06/08 Posts: 11707	Wed 02/27/08 10:30 AM
just wanted you to know that women still do not make as much as men. In fact about 40% less. Oh dear....

briancarr Joined Mon 12/17/07 Posts: 3310	Wed 02/27/08 10:30 AM
When it comes to picking up a woman, why is it that even with numbers about the same population-wise, guys have to do all the wooing, the courting and stuff. Why cant we go to a bar and have the women buy us drinks (after all they do make the same money in mose truely civilised countries now) why cant they use the pick up lines and embarrass themselves. Why cant we have the pick of who we want to take home, of who we want to start a relationship with etc...? WHY??? (and if there is a bar like that that isnt a male strip club----send me an email and let me know where it is ) In order for the woman to do all the work, she has to be head over heels crazy about you, before you even open your mouth. Other wise you have to do the work. When you have to do the work, the more she likes you the easier she makes it for you. If shes not sure, your going to have to climb a mountain. Trust me they have it work out in there head in about 5-10 minutes after they meet you, how much, and how far. The greatest thing you can have when persuing a woman is patience, and a life. Eventhough you know the crazy is going to come out soon or later, just continue to make her feel that she the only one that matters. The payoff will be worth it.

hellkitten54 Joined Sun 01/06/08 Posts: 11707	Wed 02/27/08 10:30 AM
<----holder of the nectar of the GODS!!!

flyankee07 Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 310	Wed 02/27/08 10:31 AM
And when we do want to "pick you up" You call us a slut.

Cmigic Joined Sun 01/13/08 Posts: 532	Wed 02/27/08 10:32 AM
I agree. There are women out there that do those things but they are still rare. I would just once be loved to be asked to go out on a date not have to put myself out there for failure yes that'd be nice too. all this talk of equality between sexes and still the women think men should do this and that. very equal isnt it. So in fact. Women actually take home more money in the end of the working day....they dont have to buy drinks and supper and pay for the dates. (lets see where this goes ha ha haaa )

hellkitten54 Joined Sun 01/06/08 Posts: 11707	Wed 02/27/08 10:32 AM
There is a lot of bitterness in here.....

Shaden Joined Sat 09/29/07 Posts: 6118	Wed 02/27/08 10:32 AM
A little flirting is okay, but I do always wait for a guy to ask me out. Guess I'm old fashioned, in that sense.

caamken Joined Sat 09/01/07 Posts: 18287	Wed 02/27/08 10:32 AM
When it comes to picking up a woman, why is it that even with numbers about the same population-wise, guys have to do all the wooing, the courting and stuff. Why cant we go to a bar and have the women buy us drinks (after all they do make the same money in mose truely civilised countries now) why cant they use the pick up lines and embarrass themselves. Why cant we have the pick of who we want to take home, of who we want to start a relationship with etc...? WHY??? (and if there is a bar like that that isnt a male strip club----send me an email and let me know where it is ) I don't seem ta have that prob. Must be at the right bar I guess It went ZOOOOM above all your head. IT"S ABOUT SEXUAL CONTROL! Women have it Men do not. Thats what the underlying question is. WHY CANT MEN HAVE ALL THE SEXUAL CONTROL. Prince said it right "p u ss y control" and thats just it. women control the entire sexual process. Even the chase. can't say i have had that problem either maybe it is the attitude you have yup you guys must have dates all the time...women punding at your doors right? thats why you're on here..... studs that you are? well there is a difference from being able to have dates and then the search for the one person you want to spend for ever with