OH NO! i'm doing the why question again

I know women get this all the time and ill say few of the men on here. Why when your getting to know someone, ill say a lot of the time that your kinda interested in. Sooner or latter you end up having a conversation about sex and it runs from there... Why do you think people think they need to have that to keep the friendship or what ever going?

Because deep down we are all animals.

hmm... good question... but sorry haven't got an answer... if you get one though, let me know

good question

I don't think it necessarily has anything to do with keeping friends. Some people (like myself) have a very over-active sexual mind. Regardless, I think it's healthy for the topic to be brought up in conversation (even if it's early into a new friendship). It's a matter of how you interpret the thoughts shared and how quickly you act upon your wandering mind!

Id rather skip the getting-to-know-you-like-I-really-give-a-crap
BS and just go for the sex talk....zowie!!!!

just to make sure your not a perv

to see if your sexually compatible

Shadow~ I think if you're getting to know a person and you're having feelings for them, you're going to want to talk about sex at some point. I think part of it is to confirm they are "into" you as well, and the other part is to feel out some sort of compatibility.

Hm, ill agree but if you think about it. Whaere does the fine line end. it saterts out as friends some time and then there is the flirting and that leads to the sex. I guys what i'm getting at is. The conversationg become more sexual then anything. Now mind you thats what a lot of us like, but some just want to keep the friendship that way and for me, i look beyond that

PERV

Yeah I agree with you, but if it satrts out like that and is like that most of the time. what do think that is actually saying about the person?

What do you mean by deep down?

It's all a part of the mating thang. Human nature.
Plus...if you ain't been gettin' any lately...

All I can say is that I LOVE my webcam !!

Well i'm not touching that last part

Does it make you uncomfortable to talk about it? Or do wish you would talk about something else when the topic comes up? If so, maybe you should set boundaries with the person let them know.

Hahahhaaha...you said TOUCHING!

Okay, the picture of the cat eating cars...I want that on a tee shirt! That is way too cool!

You know.....I have had a male friend that I have known for about 10 years. Last October the friendship became more than just saying "Hi" when meeting each other...heck, we even went to same church for long time.

Anyway....we are still doing the just friends things and see each other almost on a nightly basis and talk every day on the phone checking on one another.

If we were to have the "sex" talk, I think our relationship would end and I don't want that. He truly is a sweetheart and I have grown to love him as my friend. In the beginning, I did want to have the "sex" talk and do something about it, but not now.