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Topic: Just curious...
wanttachat Joined Sat 01/27/07 Posts: 8827	Mon 02/25/08 04:38 PM
just to make sure your not a perv to see if your sexually compatible PERV you have my number right????

TxsGal3333 Joined Tue 09/05/06 Posts: 76392	Mon 02/25/08 04:38 PM
Its human nature after a while just to find out what each likes. But now as far as talking just as friends then forget it those conversations I do try to stay away from. But.. if they go straight for the sex talk and that is it forget that let them perv someone else. Myself actually to find someone that flirts or hints at it but don't go directly into it is more ideal for me. That shows me they are interested with me as a person. It is not only more relaxing within the conversatiion but sure makes you see them for more then just a sexual object. Now it is different if you have already been with them in a sexually way. Then heck its a wide open field. But until then I think more need to take a reality check and learn more about the person themselves instead just what they say they can do or will do when it comes to sex. Besides 9 times out of 10 the ones that do all the talking normally that is all they can do!!

jjkitty Joined Thu 02/14/08 Posts: 1109	Mon 02/25/08 04:39 PM
Is it just platonic? What kind of feelings are you having? Then why not talk about it?

TheShadow Joined Sun 08/13/06 Posts: 14218	Mon 02/25/08 04:41 PM
just to make sure your not a perv to see if your sexually compatible PERV you have my number right???? What is it again 976 what????

Jess642 Joined Sat 03/31/07 Posts: 22732	Mon 02/25/08 04:42 PM
If one is seeking a well rounded, a whole relationship, then everything from favourite tasting Jelly Bean, to best christmas present when you were three is discussed, why should sex be any different? I talk about all and anything with my partner... how else is he supposed to figure me out? I don't come with an instruction manual...

TheShadow Joined Sun 08/13/06 Posts: 14218	Mon 02/25/08 04:43 PM
Its human nature after a while just to find out what each likes. But now as far as talking just as friends then forget it those conversations I do try to stay away from. But.. if they go straight for the sex talk and that is it forget that let them perv someone else. Myself actually to find someone that flirts or hints at it but don't go directly into it is more ideal for me. That shows me they are interested with me as a person. It is not only more relaxing within the conversatiion but sure makes you see them for more then just a sexual object. Now it is different if you have already been with them in a sexually way. Then heck its a wide open field. But until then I think more need to take a reality check and learn more about the person themselves instead just what they say they can do or will do when it comes to sex. Besides 9 times out of 10 the ones that do all the talking normally that is all they can do!! I love you Txs Thats what i'm talking about... Now mind you though. There is that wild side in me and that can get me into trouble

wanttachat Joined Sat 01/27/07 Posts: 8827	Mon 02/25/08 04:44 PM
just to make sure your not a perv to see if your sexually compatible PERV you have my number right???? What is it again 976 what???? 976-want not what CALL ME

TheShadow Joined Sun 08/13/06 Posts: 14218	Mon 02/25/08 04:47 PM
If one is seeking a well rounded, a whole relationship, then everything from favourite tasting Jelly Bean, to best christmas present when you were three is discussed, why should sex be any different? I talk about all and anything with my partner... how else is he supposed to figure me out? I don't come with an instruction manual... See, with your partner is one thing but just meeting someone off the net is a whole new story and most are single on here so will play into it for that attention. I'm not saying it's wrong but there is more to then just sending and email telling you how hot you are and what they would do to you....

misty_57 Joined Sat 12/01/07 Posts: 1618	Mon 02/25/08 04:47 PM
I'm straight up about it. They start I stop it. Simple really. If they are friends then they should understand

celtic_kitten Joined Fri 12/21/07 Posts: 9957	Mon 02/25/08 04:48 PM
If one is seeking a well rounded, a whole relationship, then everything from favourite tasting Jelly Bean, to best christmas present when you were three is discussed, why should sex be any different? I talk about all and anything with my partner... how else is he supposed to figure me out? I don't come with an instruction manual... See, with your partner is one thing but just meeting someone off the net is a whole new story and most are single on here so will play into it for that attention. I'm not saying it's wrong but there is more to then just sending and email telling you how hot you are and what they would do to you.... but i thought you enjoyed when i told ya what i had planned for ya

TheShadow Joined Sun 08/13/06 Posts: 14218	Mon 02/25/08 04:55 PM Edited by TheShadow on Mon 02/25/08 04:56 PM
If one is seeking a well rounded, a whole relationship, then everything from favourite tasting Jelly Bean, to best christmas present when you were three is discussed, why should sex be any different? I talk about all and anything with my partner... how else is he supposed to figure me out? I don't come with an instruction manual... See, with your partner is one thing but just meeting someone off the net is a whole new story and most are single on here so will play into it for that attention. I'm not saying it's wrong but there is more to then just sending and email telling you how hot you are and what they would do to you.... but i thought you enjoyed when i told ya what i had planned for ya LMAO Your just wrong OK! I see how you are. ill remember that and trust me. I DON'T FORGET

isaac_dede Joined Sat 11/24/07 Posts: 10632	Mon 02/25/08 04:56 PM
If one is seeking a well rounded, a whole relationship, then everything from favourite tasting Jelly Bean, to best christmas present when you were three is discussed, why should sex be any different? I talk about all and anything with my partner... how else is he supposed to figure me out? I don't come with an instruction manual... See, with your partner is one thing but just meeting someone off the net is a whole new story and most are single on here so will play into it for that attention. I'm not saying it's wrong but there is more to then just sending and email telling you how hot you are and what they would do to you.... but i thought you enjoyed when i told ya what i had planned for ya i did

celtic_kitten Joined Fri 12/21/07 Posts: 9957	Mon 02/25/08 04:57 PM
If one is seeking a well rounded, a whole relationship, then everything from favourite tasting Jelly Bean, to best christmas present when you were three is discussed, why should sex be any different? I talk about all and anything with my partner... how else is he supposed to figure me out? I don't come with an instruction manual... See, with your partner is one thing but just meeting someone off the net is a whole new story and most are single on here so will play into it for that attention. I'm not saying it's wrong but there is more to then just sending and email telling you how hot you are and what they would do to you.... but i thought you enjoyed when i told ya what i had planned for ya LMAO Your just wrong OK! I see how you are. ill remember that and trust me. I DON'T FORGET i knew you would laugh

lil_bit Joined Fri 01/25/08 Posts: 1685	Mon 02/25/08 04:58 PM
OH NO! i'm doing the why question again I know women get this all the time and ill say few of the men on here. Why when your getting to know someone, ill say a lot of the time that your kinda interested in. Sooner or latter you end up having a conversation about sex and it runs from there... Why do you think people think they need to have that to keep the friendship or what ever going? Personally, I am pleasantly surprised by Just Say Hi as other sites that I have explored, I have experienced real dirtbags who have IM'd me and within three sentences have already 'gone there'. I am with you on this one. Sometimes I wonder if certain people are actually looking for someone of substance or merely looking for a f**kbuddy. (Pardon my french)

TheShadow Joined Sun 08/13/06 Posts: 14218	Mon 02/25/08 04:59 PM
If one is seeking a well rounded, a whole relationship, then everything from favourite tasting Jelly Bean, to best christmas present when you were three is discussed, why should sex be any different? I talk about all and anything with my partner... how else is he supposed to figure me out? I don't come with an instruction manual... See, with your partner is one thing but just meeting someone off the net is a whole new story and most are single on here so will play into it for that attention. I'm not saying it's wrong but there is more to then just sending and email telling you how hot you are and what they would do to you.... but i thought you enjoyed when i told ya what i had planned for ya LMAO Your just wrong OK! I see how you are. ill remember that and trust me. I DON'T FORGET i knew you would laugh Yeah Hm, now here is a ladie I wouldn't mind getting to know

celtic_kitten Joined Fri 12/21/07 Posts: 9957	Mon 02/25/08 04:59 PM
If one is seeking a well rounded, a whole relationship, then everything from favourite tasting Jelly Bean, to best christmas present when you were three is discussed, why should sex be any different? I talk about all and anything with my partner... how else is he supposed to figure me out? I don't come with an instruction manual... See, with your partner is one thing but just meeting someone off the net is a whole new story and most are single on here so will play into it for that attention. I'm not saying it's wrong but there is more to then just sending and email telling you how hot you are and what they would do to you.... but i thought you enjoyed when i told ya what i had planned for ya i did

celtic_kitten Joined Fri 12/21/07 Posts: 9957	Mon 02/25/08 05:00 PM
If one is seeking a well rounded, a whole relationship, then everything from favourite tasting Jelly Bean, to best christmas present when you were three is discussed, why should sex be any different? I talk about all and anything with my partner... how else is he supposed to figure me out? I don't come with an instruction manual... See, with your partner is one thing but just meeting someone off the net is a whole new story and most are single on here so will play into it for that attention. I'm not saying it's wrong but there is more to then just sending and email telling you how hot you are and what they would do to you.... but i thought you enjoyed when i told ya what i had planned for ya LMAO Your just wrong OK! I see how you are. ill remember that and trust me. I DON'T FORGET i knew you would laugh Yeah Hm, now here is a ladie I wouldn't mind getting to know handcuffs and oil are all ready and waiting sorry just can't help myself sometimes

TxsGal3333 Joined Tue 09/05/06 Posts: 76392	Mon 02/25/08 05:00 PM
Ohh heck we all have the wild side and when it is with the right one and you know they are the right one then hey go for it and well at times we tend to sway at times and hit the sex talk it is part of life. But I do understand what your saying for take time to find out about the one your talking to specialy online before all you talk about it sex only. Get to know them for who they are.

TheShadow Joined Sun 08/13/06 Posts: 14218	Mon 02/25/08 05:04 PM
OH NO! i'm doing the why question again I know women get this all the time and ill say few of the men on here. Why when your getting to know someone, ill say a lot of the time that your kinda interested in. Sooner or latter you end up having a conversation about sex and it runs from there... Why do you think people think they need to have that to keep the friendship or what ever going? Personally, I am pleasantly surprised by Just Say Hi as other sites that I have explored, I have experienced real dirtbags who have IM'd me and within three sentences have already 'gone there'. I am with you on this one. Sometimes I wonder if certain people are actually looking for someone of substance or merely looking for a f**kbuddy. (Pardon my french) I think what is really funny, is how guys put themselves out to be a certian why to me, Like they think like I do and will make it a point to send a email to me telling me so. For thoes who now me. I can say I stick way far out from most of the guys on here... And proud of it too

Jess642 Joined Sat 03/31/07 Posts: 22732	Mon 02/25/08 05:06 PM
If one is seeking a well rounded, a whole relationship, then everything from favourite tasting Jelly Bean, to best christmas present when you were three is discussed, why should sex be any different? I talk about all and anything with my partner... how else is he supposed to figure me out? I don't come with an instruction manual... See, with your partner is one thing but just meeting someone off the net is a whole new story and most are single on here so will play into it for that attention. I'm not saying it's wrong but there is more to then just sending and email telling you how hot you are and what they would do to you.... I agree, if I wanted smut talk, I would put it in my profile.... However, how does one decide to become a partner? Based on what? ALL the knowledge gleaned, shared, experienced. or just hazard a guess and go for it? My point Shads, is with no expectations, anyone, and everyone can talk about anything and everything, if they threw away the priority checklists...even when in the early stages of wanting to know more about each other. Seriously, what happens if someone falls madly in love with somone, (mad being the operative word) and discovers this person they are besotted with, is into some pretty unusual fetishes... I personally like to have a bit of a mud map on where I am travelling to.... including discussing sex....NOT doing the 'oh baby, give it me, uh huh, uh huh,' stuff...blech!