Topic: OK, I've decided...
shoes4rhon's photo
Mon 02/25/08 07:55 AM
Edited by shoes4rhon on Mon 02/25/08 07:59 AM


So does this mean I can't stalk you grumble




:tongue: laugh , you're so funny and you'd never have to stalk me. I'd be more than willing to meet you and then date you Rhon.flowerforyou ( if only ) sigh...ohwell


Whooot Whooot finally I wore someone down ... okay well there are things like trains and planes and automobiles and ways to get to know each other if you want to meet that person .. Lilth met the love of her life out here and they are moving towards a life together and they met in the threads .. so don't close your heart off to the possibility of happiness .. Besides I was hoping you would run off to the Cayman's with me when I chuck it all and say what the heck .. I am not that great of a scuba diver ... laugh And you are the bravest man I know if you would be willing to date me .... I didn't even have to use a trap or a net or ropes .. wow this is Awesome!!!

cuppy59's photo
Mon 02/25/08 07:57 AM
Allen, do what you think is best. The friends that you have made Im sure totally understand. Trying to date long distance is next to impossible unless your loaded with money and then if that were the case you would be living somewhere near people or at least near your age.

Talk to ya later, sweetie.................

AllenAqua's photo
Mon 02/25/08 08:04 AM



So does this mean I can't stalk you grumble




:tongue: laugh , you're so funny and you'd never have to stalk me. I'd be more than willing to meet you and then date you Rhon.flowerforyou ( if only ) sigh...ohwell


Whooot Whooot finally I wore someone down ... okay well there are things like trains and planes and automobiles and ways to get to know each other if you want to meet that person .. Lilth met the love of her life out here and they are moving towards a life together and they met in the threads .. so don't close your heart off to the possibility of happiness .. Besides I was hoping you would run off to the Cayman's with me when I chuck it all and say what the heck .. I am not that great of a scuba diver ... laugh And you are the bravest man I know if you would be willing to date me .... I didn't even have to use a trap or a net or ropes .. wow this is Awesome!!!




laugh laugh laugh :tongue: love , You can always email me for my phone #, if you're ever serious about that, and there's more to life than scuba. anyways...you had me at hello hon.:wink:

darkowl1's photo
Mon 02/25/08 08:05 AM
i'm sure you've heard, patience is the rock of time, and information is the key to the soul, i'm not looking either, but if some body politely steps on my toe, i'll acknowledge it. these people think very highly of you, that's obvious, which means you are far deeper tha the average joe, and feel pain more apparently as well. it might be cool to let them read your profile anyway, i read all profiles guy or girl, just to get insight on who i'm talking to. it helps me not slip up and miss interpret what one might be saying. good luck with what ever you feel comfortable with.

AllenAqua's photo
Mon 02/25/08 08:05 AM

Allen, do what you think is best. The friends that you have made Im sure totally understand. Trying to date long distance is next to impossible unless your loaded with money and then if that were the case you would be living somewhere near people or at least near your age.

Talk to ya later, sweetie.................



Thanks hon.:wink: flowerforyou drinker

shoes4rhon's photo
Mon 02/25/08 08:06 AM
I think honestly that you have to do what is best for you , but it sort of seems like you are feeling frustrated and I hate for you to make a decision based on negative feelings ... Truth is you were one of my first friends out here and someone that I always enjoy seeing in the threads .. Yeah if we were closer I would so go have coffee, or a beer with you or even just sit and watch the wheels go round and round and talk.. I would also look you up if I am ever in Florida.. I do have family there and do go there a lot .. So my dear one do what you feel is right and follow your heart .. you can always put it back up if you change your mind .. Very few things in life are forever or can't be changed .. :heart: :wink:

AllenAqua's photo
Mon 02/25/08 08:07 AM

i'm sure you've heard, patience is the rock of time, and information is the key to the soul, i'm not looking either, but if some body politely steps on my toe, i'll acknowledge it. these people think very highly of you, that's obvious, which means you are far deeper tha the average joe, and feel pain more apparently as well. it might be cool to let them read your profile anyway, i read all profiles guy or girl, just to get insight on who i'm talking to. it helps me not slip up and miss interpret what one might be saying. good luck with what ever you feel comfortable with.



hmmmmm...maybe you do have a point...thanks for the input.drinker

cuppy59's photo
Mon 02/25/08 08:18 AM
I agree with Shoes, Allen

Do what you think. You have many friends that are out here now and we would like to keep you poppin in rooms too.happy

franshade's photo
Mon 02/25/08 08:20 AM


morning Allen, quick question how far is too far?

I wish you luck, while I have had quite a lot of fun on this site, I have yet to meet anyone either. I enjoy the forums and the friends I have made so far, and if and when I do meet that special someone, I doubt I would place boundaries or limits, but this is JMO. Good luck!flowerforyou



"Too far" is any distance that prevents me from just casually getting to know someone, which I need before I can offer deeper intimacy. In real life, you're able to use and recieve the subtle eye signals and body language that it's ok to move closer to that (intimacy). Online, it's just way too tempting to believe in things that have no basis in reality. I shouldn't, therefore couldn't, expect that just because I've spent hours and hours relating with someone online, it would cut much ice when/if an actual meeting occured. It would still be, no matter what, just two strangers meeting. Thanks for wishing me goodluck and I wish that for you too.flowerforyou


JMO again, distance is not the deterent in this Allen I think we put limits and boundaries and end up either being too cautious or too trusting (applies to myself as well).

darkowl1's photo
Mon 02/25/08 08:45 AM
thanks for reading! hope it helps.

cuppy59's photo
Mon 02/25/08 08:46 AM
Allen reads everything. He has reading glasses under his goggles. hehehehelaugh laugh

DebbieJT's photo
Mon 02/25/08 08:57 AM
friendship always sweetflowerforyou flowerforyou

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Mon 02/25/08 04:34 PM
Edited by shutterbug on Mon 02/25/08 04:37 PM
(((((((Allen)))))))):heart: flowerforyou happy
Wish I could have been apart of this discussion this morning. Please call me...if I don't pick up on land line, use cell number, (in email=yahoo).

AllenAqua's photo
Mon 02/25/08 08:38 PM
I just wanted to thank everyone for their input on this thread & let you all know that I did take it all to heart.flowerforyou :smile:

cuppy59's photo
Mon 02/25/08 09:11 PM
So is the end of the discussion have you made a decision that is viable for everyone........


Just thinking is all....

trueokie2's photo
Mon 02/25/08 09:15 PM
Sorry to hear that dude.. but there's always someone waiting right around the corner.. I wish ya the best of luck..drinker drinker

AllenAqua's photo
Mon 02/25/08 09:16 PM
I wouldn't dare to presume that it's the end of anyone's discussion... by all means...please feel free and welcome to question or contribute to it...

madamx7316's photo
Mon 02/25/08 09:18 PM


i'm sure you've heard, patience is the rock of time, and information is the key to the soul, i'm not looking either, but if some body politely steps on my toe, i'll acknowledge it. these people think very highly of you, that's obvious, which means you are far deeper tha the average joe, and feel pain more apparently as well. it might be cool to let them read your profile anyway, i read all profiles guy or girl, just to get insight on who i'm talking to. it helps me not slip up and miss interpret what one might be saying. good luck with what ever you feel comfortable with.



hmmmmm...maybe you do have a point...thanks for the input.drinker


owl is a wise one! we love you allen!!! xoxoxo

Jtevans's photo
Mon 02/25/08 09:19 PM
i ain't removing a thing from mine.all the great women i've met might live on the moon but dammit,space travel ain't that far from now for me!

AllenAqua's photo
Mon 02/25/08 09:21 PM
Edited by AllenAqua on Mon 02/25/08 09:22 PM



"owl is a wise one! we love you allen!!! xoxoxo"



Back at'cha MadamX, you've always been nice to me, even though I'm sure you're aware of what happened in the 420 thread that time. hugs:smile: