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Do men REALLY want a woman who likes to HIKE, go CAMPING, FISHING, and HUNTING? Do you want a woman who LOVES NASCAR? Aren't these things guys do with their GUY friends?
That's like a woman saying she wants a man who loves to dance, crochets, and is into Tupperware parties...... Just my opinion, but I want a guy who is NOT into the sase things I am. God bless you if you find awoman who likes to sweat, smell dirty and go without indoor plumbing....that is my idea of hell on earth. How about just one man saying he is into long, relaxing weekends at luxury resorts, he enjoys cleaning and doing laundry, and isn't looking for a "slender" woman(get real..how many women are over 30, have kids, and are "slender"...we just don't have TIME with all the responsibility dumped on us)? Do you men really think after caring for kids all week and working full time that women want to go hiking on the weekend? How about one man that says he will make dinner and clean up and let me sit on the couch and watch whatever I want on TV for 2 hours? Just one who will clean up after everyone so I can sunbathe for an hour without having to jump up every 5 minutes to get someone something to drink ...? Sorry for venting.....just so sick of reading the same list of unrealistic demands on every guy's profile..... |
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I totally agree with you!
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This is not what i am looking for!!!
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kudo's to you!!!!!!! i AGREE
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i would honestly say yes to some......the camping fishing out door stuff...yes,yes,yes...when you camp its for the weekend ...and yes its nice to have your special lady there to enjoy that with you...build memories...for when you are in your rocking chairs...lol...and yes that is a major part of my life....
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u don't want a man,u want a servant,,,,,or did i read this correctley,,,,,,,,but whats rong with sharing adventures together??????
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Edited by
CatEyez
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Sun 02/24/08 09:00 AM
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This is awesome.. I love your thoughts.. they are so true for the majority of "relations."
I could very easily add a hundred comments of (what if's) to your already, well pointed out list  But then I wouldn't get the things done that I need too.. considering, I'm a mother with 2 daughters, take care of my mother 24/7 and the girls have voice lessons today (on a Sunday of all days). So, being that I don't have a man to help get things in order (so I can have a min. for myself) and enjoy a little relaxation on a Sunday.. I'll just continue to run myself ragged as I always do!!  
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Something to think about, but yes I enjoy a woman that has a like interest and don't mind helping her enjoy her interest also.
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Lmaoooooooooooooooo!!!!
I want a guy who can knit me an afghan and shop with me......NOT!!! But I dont mind camping....for short periods of time and hopefully there is a shower nearby or my unicorn hair will scare the other campers!!! I dont want to hunt or see dead animals ever unless they are packaged in plastic wrap and I dont have to see the fur sticking out..... I do however like to fish and have.......unfortunately I only caught mud sharks.......
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Mutual respect for your mate is rule one.. I do everything myself and mabey I'm on the other end, because my last 2 relationships ended because I wouldn't let them do anything for me.. They were bored because I did everything myself and didn't feel needed at all.. so it's a catch 22.
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Do men REALLY want a woman who likes to HIKE, go CAMPING, FISHING, and HUNTING? Do you want a woman who LOVES NASCAR? Aren't these things guys do with their GUY friends? That's like a woman saying she wants a man who loves to dance, crochets, and is into Tupperware parties...... Just my opinion, but I want a guy who is NOT into the sase things I am. God bless you if you find awoman who likes to sweat, smell dirty and go without indoor plumbing....that is my idea of hell on earth. How about just one man saying he is into long, relaxing weekends at luxury resorts, he enjoys cleaning and doing laundry, and isn't looking for a "slender" woman(get real..how many women are over 30, have kids, and are "slender"...we just don't have TIME with all the responsibility dumped on us)? Do you men really think after caring for kids all week and working full time that women want to go hiking on the weekend? How about one man that says he will make dinner and clean up and let me sit on the couch and watch whatever I want on TV for 2 hours? Just one who will clean up after everyone so I can sunbathe for an hour without having to jump up every 5 minutes to get someone something to drink ...? Sorry for venting.....just so sick of reading the same list of unrealistic demands on every guy's profile..... |
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Personally if she can cook
I'm cool with it
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That's exactly my point!!! We have so damn much to do raising kids alone that we don't have time to indulge in what WE would like to do! AS for wanting a servane, you are way off base. I just want someone who is willing to GIVE once in a while so I can enjoy life a bit. It's nice that men have time foir all their hobbies......I would LOVE to be able to take 2 hours a day at the gym so I could be "slender"...who the hell is going to cook dinner, help with homework, and bathe the kids and get them to bed? Not to mention they can't be left home alone! How come emn can sit on theis ass and watch Nascar FOR 3 HOURS STRAIGHT and we are expected to NEVER get a chance to relax....really fair!
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heck no
, all I'm looking for is someone who "gets me" Someone who understands that you can't MAKE anyone happy in this world, but rather only LET them be happy. I care not if she's into the things that interest me, because my main interest would only be that there's chemistry and shared values... If she's afraid of water or horses, it matters not, in the main scheme of things... 
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Edited by
dysFUNctional
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Sun 02/24/08 09:08 AM
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You know, I think it has to be a 2 way street. What you like to do and what I like to do. I'm willing to do the things my man likes to do as long he is willing to do the things I like to do.
There's nothing wrong with getting dirty, hot and sweaty for your man as long as it can be followed by a relaxing massage and dinner by the pool. The point is, being able to give as well as take and spending time together as a couple. Having fun. You don't have to be together all the time! Just my opinion.   Oh and don't forget it also means the things we HAVE to do together as responsible people and productive members of society! |
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Lmaoooooooooooooooo!!!! I want a guy who can knit me an afghan and shop with me......NOT!!! But I dont mind camping....for short periods of time and hopefully there is a shower nearby or my unicorn hair will scare the other campers!!! I dont want to hunt or see dead animals ever unless they are packaged in plastic wrap and I dont have to see the fur sticking out..... I do however like to fish and have.......unfortunately I only caught mud sharks....... Lol.. you wouldn't see me kniting, but I would try to make sure she has time to do things she enjoys |
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heck no , all I'm looking for is someone who "gets me" Someone who understands that you can't MAKE anyone happy in this world, but rather only LET them be happy. I care not if she's into the things that interest me, because my main interest would only be that there's chemistry and shared values... If she's afraid of water or horses, it matters not, in the main scheme of things...
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Well for myself i am looking for a best friend in life so yes i want to share life with her not just have her to come home to after the fun is over. We can clean the house together also it should be a 50/50 life together right?
One of the reason I want a younger woman. But it's my life I am speaking of so I can do what I want as we all can. |
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What about wanting to do things that are FUN for her????
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