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Topic: Question
foresight's photo
Sun 02/24/08 07:09 AM
if ur bf or gf always talked about their ex wouldnt you think they still had feeling for them?huh

mry's photo
Sun 02/24/08 07:10 AM
YEP

gowings2007's photo
Sun 02/24/08 07:10 AM

if ur bf or gf always talked about their ex wouldnt you think they still had feeling for them?huh


ummm...yes! :wink:

stevil342001's photo
Sun 02/24/08 07:11 AM
yeah i would.....

Brenna24's photo
Sun 02/24/08 07:12 AM
All depends on how long their past was its hard to tell your new love bout your past if it involves his/her ex if i had to tell someone bout my past it would be my ex and me....other wise i would really have nothing to say bout the last 4 years of my life

EtherealEmbers's photo
Sun 02/24/08 07:12 AM
yep, but it doesn't always mean they have good feelings for them... sometimes they're just so bitter they haven't resolved their issues

irad8you's photo
Sun 02/24/08 07:12 AM
Yes.

foresight's photo
Sun 02/24/08 07:13 AM
thx for feed back so im not alone w/ this onedrinker

evilolive's photo
Sun 02/24/08 07:14 AM
how could you not have feelings for someone you sppent part of your life with... positive and negative

lilith401's photo
Sun 02/24/08 07:15 AM

if ur bf or gf always talked about their ex wouldnt you think they still had feeling for them?huh


Yes... and it's just as dangerous to have negative feelings as romantic lingerings... Strong feelings are strong feelings.

The only exception I can think of is, if they are talking about them because there are kids involved~ then it is sort of hard not to talk about it. But even then, not all the time.

foresight's photo
Sun 02/24/08 07:16 AM
ok heres the story my gf liked this guy when she was 17 shes 25 now but her sister stole him from her n her sister and the guy has been together for 7 yrs now i feel like she feels like what if that was me so idk

EtherealEmbers's photo
Sun 02/24/08 07:18 AM
oooooh that sucks.

Romanticizing is worse.

foresight's photo
Sun 02/24/08 07:19 AM

oooooh that sucks.

Romanticizing is worse.
yea so i feel like she still has feeling for this guy cuz always talking about them and what her sister did to her

touchybear's photo
Sun 02/24/08 07:20 AM
there is probally jealousy issues along with...caring...that would be a confusing situation.....

foresight's photo
Sun 02/24/08 07:20 AM

there is probally jealousy issues along with...caring...that would be a confusing situation.....
yes idk what to do im so confused

celticpride0280's photo
Sun 02/24/08 07:21 AM

if ur bf or gf always talked about their ex wouldnt you think they still had feeling for them?huh


If I bring up my ex it relates directly to our child...Otherwise her personal affairs are of no concern of mine...Shes a wonderful mother...thats where my concern ends...I dont bash her...Chapter closed.drinker

merlot42's photo
Sun 02/24/08 07:23 AM
I think of my ex daily....I think someday I'll let her out of the trunk of my carnoway She just makes too much noise back therelaugh

EtherealEmbers's photo
Sun 02/24/08 07:23 AM
Edited by EtherealEmbers on Sun 02/24/08 07:23 AM


oooooh that sucks.

Romanticizing is worse.
yea so i feel like she still has feeling for this guy cuz always talking about them and what her sister did to her


You can remind her of the saying "absence makes the heart grow fonder.." as it also tends to help us forget how situations suck and only think about what could've been... she needs a wake up call about how the guy is NOT with her, hasn't been with her, and obviously cares about the sis, and it's something that she has to deal with... or just give you up.

foresight's photo
Sun 02/24/08 07:24 AM

I think of my ex daily....I think someday I'll let her out of the trunk of my carnoway She just makes too much noise back therelaugh
ok eminemnoway

EtherealEmbers's photo
Sun 02/24/08 07:24 AM
tell her it hurts you when she talks about him, too...

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