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ok heres the story my gf liked this guy when she was 17 shes 25 now but her sister stole him from her n her sister and the guy has been together for 7 yrs now i feel like she feels like what if that was me so idk Well, how does she talk about him? How often do you see him at family functions? Do you go out with them as a group? Is she really worth picking up another charge for?   |
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People have different reasons to talk about these things. Sometimes it is relative to something current. Sometimes they are just processing. Sometimes it is due to unresolved feelings... Analyzing her motives is a sign of something out of order in me.. not her. I don't take it personally, myself. If I did.. I would think I was not too secure in the relationship.. Regardless of what she is talking or not talking about. That is my issue, not hers. So.. My significant other can express herself how ever she feels necessary with me. |
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ok heres the story my gf liked this guy when she was 17 shes 25 now but her sister stole him from her n her sister and the guy has been together for 7 yrs now i feel like she feels like what if that was me so idk Well, how does she talk about him? How often do you see him at family functions? Do you go out with them as a group? Is she really worth picking up another charge for? ive never been to jail in my life
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your doomed
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Edited by
chuck366
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Sun 02/24/08 07:44 AM
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if ur bf or gf always talked about their ex wouldnt you think they still had feeling for them? maybe feelings, but possibly more suppressed anger than feelings of love 
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no...i would dump them in a heartbeat...go ahead, try it...walking away is sooooo theraputic  whoa.... in 3 months... that is soooo not a good idea... she's not ready |
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Foresight... All I can say is that you have to decide if you can stay with her the way she is behaving now. It might change, it might not. You have to be prepared for that.
If you marry her and she does not stop the behavior ~ you can not be angry with her. You knew what you were getting... Food for thought.
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if ur bf or gf always talked about their ex wouldnt you think they still had feeling for them? maybe feelings, but possibly more suppressed anger than feelings of love |
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no...i would dump them in a heartbeat...go ahead, try it...walking away is sooooo theraputic whoa.... in 3 months... that is soooo not a good idea... she's not ready 
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if ur bf or gf always talked about their ex wouldnt you think they still had feeling for them? maybe feelings, but possibly more suppressed anger than feelings of love either way,,,,,,,,,doomed |
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Foresight... All I can say is that you have to decide if you can stay with her the way she is behaving now. It might change, it might not. You have to be prepared for that. If you marry her and she does not stop the behavior ~ you can not be angry with her. You knew what you were getting... Food for thought. |
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if ur bf or gf always talked about their ex wouldnt you think they still had feeling for them? maybe feelings, but possibly more suppressed anger than feelings of love either way,,,,,,,,,doomed
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Foresight... All I can say is that you have to decide if you can stay with her the way she is behaving now. It might change, it might not. You have to be prepared for that. If you marry her and she does not stop the behavior ~ you can not be angry with her. You knew what you were getting... Food for thought. 
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ok heres the story my gf liked this guy when she was 17 shes 25 now but her sister stole him from her n her sister and the guy has been together for 7 yrs now i feel like she feels like what if that was me so idk Well, how does she talk about him? How often do you see him at family functions? Do you go out with them as a group? Is she really worth picking up another charge for? ive never been to jail in my life Oh sorry that would be me, my bad Would it be worth picking up a charge for? Think not!!!
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ok heres the story my gf liked this guy when she was 17 shes 25 now but her sister stole him from her n her sister and the guy has been together for 7 yrs now i feel like she feels like what if that was me so idk Well, how does she talk about him? How often do you see him at family functions? Do you go out with them as a group? Is she really worth picking up another charge for? ive never been to jail in my life Oh sorry that would be me, my bad Would it be worth picking up a charge for? Think not!!!
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Foresight... All I can say is that you have to decide if you can stay with her the way she is behaving now. It might change, it might not. You have to be prepared for that. If you marry her and she does not stop the behavior ~ you can not be angry with her. You knew what you were getting... Food for thought. Well, I'm glad that anything I said spoke to you. I hope you are able to make a decision that sits right in your heart.
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its just so much drama idk wtf to do my family acting up cuz shes another race (and not not white
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no...i would dump them in a heartbeat...go ahead, try it...walking away is sooooo theraputic if there are doubts or concerns now...they will just escalate after the marriage...i would want them all cleared up first then consider the marriage...or the alternative...starting fresh w/someone who trusts you...good luck brenda |
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