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foresight Joined Wed 01/09/08 Posts: 721	Sun 02/24/08 07:54 AM
no...i would dump them in a heartbeat...go ahead, try it...walking away is sooooo theraputic i luv her we're surpose to get married in 3 months i cant just walk off i just wanna know how she really feels before we take that leap if there are doubts or concerns now...they will just escalate after the marriage...i would want them all cleared up first then consider the marriage...or the alternative...starting fresh w/someone who trusts you...good luck brenda thx

chuck366 Joined Tue 10/16/07 Posts: 4666	Sun 02/24/08 07:55 AM
no...i would dump them in a heartbeat...go ahead, try it...walking away is sooooo theraputic i luv her we're surpose to get married in 3 months i cant just walk off i just wanna know how she really feels before we take that leap if there are doubts or concerns now...they will just escalate after the marriage...i would want them all cleared up first then consider the marriage...or the alternative...starting fresh w/someone who trusts you...good luck brenda thx doomed

foresight Joined Wed 01/09/08 Posts: 721	Sun 02/24/08 07:57 AM
no...i would dump them in a heartbeat...go ahead, try it...walking away is sooooo theraputic i luv her we're surpose to get married in 3 months i cant just walk off i just wanna know how she really feels before we take that leap if there are doubts or concerns now...they will just escalate after the marriage...i would want them all cleared up first then consider the marriage...or the alternative...starting fresh w/someone who trusts you...good luck brenda thx doomed

foresight Joined Wed 01/09/08 Posts: 721	Sun 02/24/08 07:58 AM
i feel like running away

chuck366 Joined Tue 10/16/07 Posts: 4666	Sun 02/24/08 07:59 AM
no...i would dump them in a heartbeat...go ahead, try it...walking away is sooooo theraputic i luv her we're surpose to get married in 3 months i cant just walk off i just wanna know how she really feels before we take that leap if there are doubts or concerns now...they will just escalate after the marriage...i would want them all cleared up first then consider the marriage...or the alternative...starting fresh w/someone who trusts you...good luck brenda thx doomed cant go wrong waiting longer, can go wrong rushing, very wrong

Jistme Joined Wed 10/31/07 Posts: 2991	Sun 02/24/08 08:01 AM
**** dr phil its all about lilith I really wish you didn't say that. As if distance wasn't enough of an issue.. Now I might have to wrestle with the mental image of Dr. Phil in our bedroom!

foresight Joined Wed 01/09/08 Posts: 721	Sun 02/24/08 08:01 AM
no...i would dump them in a heartbeat...go ahead, try it...walking away is sooooo theraputic i luv her we're surpose to get married in 3 months i cant just walk off i just wanna know how she really feels before we take that leap if there are doubts or concerns now...they will just escalate after the marriage...i would want them all cleared up first then consider the marriage...or the alternative...starting fresh w/someone who trusts you...good luck brenda thx doomed cant go wrong waiting longer, can go wrong rushing, very wrong true

foresight Joined Wed 01/09/08 Posts: 721	Sun 02/24/08 08:01 AM
**** dr phil its all about lilith I really wish you didn't say that. As if distance wasn't enough of an issue.. Now I might have to wrestle with the mental image of Dr. Phil in our bedroom!

dysFUNctional Joined Thu 01/10/08 Posts: 258	Sun 02/24/08 08:01 AM Edited by dysFUNctional on Sun 02/24/08 08:03 AM
i feel like running away If that is the way you feel then that's what you should do. You are too young and too much of a babe to go through this crap. Run baby run. Run like the wind! You know the old saying when in doubt...DON'T. Besides there are other ladies out there

foresight Joined Wed 01/09/08 Posts: 721	Sun 02/24/08 08:02 AM
i feel like running away If that is the way you feel then that's what you should do. You are too young and too much of a babe to go through this crap. Run baby run. Run like the wind! You know the old saying when in doubt...DON'T.

dysFUNctional Joined Thu 01/10/08 Posts: 258	Sun 02/24/08 08:05 AM
People have different reasons to talk about these things. Sometimes it is relative to something current. Sometimes they are just processing. Sometimes it is due to unresolved feelings... Analyzing her motives is a sign of something out of order in me.. not her. I don't take it personally, myself. If I did.. I would think I was not too secure in the relationship.. Regardless of what she is talking or not talking about. That is my issue, not hers. So.. My significant other can express herself how ever she feels necessary with me. I agree with you totally!!!!

foresight Joined Wed 01/09/08 Posts: 721	Sun 02/24/08 08:05 AM
People have different reasons to talk about these things. Sometimes it is relative to something current. Sometimes they are just processing. Sometimes it is due to unresolved feelings... Analyzing her motives is a sign of something out of order in me.. not her. I don't take it personally, myself. If I did.. I would think I was not too secure in the relationship.. Regardless of what she is talking or not talking about. That is my issue, not hers. So.. My significant other can express herself how ever she feels necessary with me. I agree with you totally!!!!

dysFUNctional Joined Thu 01/10/08 Posts: 258	Sun 02/24/08 08:10 AM
i feel like running away If that is the way you feel then that's what you should do. You are too young and too much of a babe to go through this crap. Run baby run. Run like the wind! You know the old saying when in doubt...DON'T. What I'm trying to say is that if you have any questions or doubts about anything in your relationship then they need to be addressed before you get married (when in doubt don't). Run away from the marraige thing right now. Wait and see what happens if it was meant to be then it will be. Good Luck and God bless ya!