Why is it all weman want what they cant have, always looking over the shoulder of a real man looking for some ass hole on a white horse ???? Cant you see nine out of ten times your dream man is the guys shoulder you are looking over....I have sisters too and I sat along side them for those stories "Those are called fantasies"...Stop looking at people for what you want them to be and love them for what they are....You know we dont have much time on this earth to find someone who loves us. Because in the end love is all we have.And in the end we all get ugly....So all you have are the eyes of the man or woman that once was...Good Luck people and God Bless....

You are exactly right....life is too short and could be over at anytime....when god feels that our job on earth is complete then he will take us.....

Life is too short...

Stop looking at people for what you want them to be and love them for what they are...

Awwwwwwwwwwwww I love this part,,, Nice post,,

I have already found love once, don't think it will happen again, and was dissappointed....

I have no idea what you talking about dude.

^^^^ WHY are we not surprised

nice post ...

Looking for Mr. Right... Nope, I rather have Mr. Wrong. Call me cynical or jaded but nobody can be that perfect. I know I am not Ms. Right

Seems kinda angry

Well, I think you should speak for yourself, and not all women. I really am not all that into azzholes, and the last time I got too close to a horse it sneezed on me.

I'm not looking over my shoulder for anything. I don't want my "man" to be anything other than what he is.

You are in here looking to meet a woman??? I'm sorry to disagre with the other responses, but I think the post sounds bitter and judgmental. Not to mention generalizing in a negative way.

Bearifically stated my friend.Perhaps that may be why the divorce & break-up is high.Vanity sux.;( Many kudo's & welcome to JSH.Very nice ice breaker.Good Luck w/ ur search.Godspeed!CyPoet

I apparently want something that doesn't exist..a good,kind, faithful,loving,honest man that will love and accept me for me as I am and not try to change me..especially since they want things to change that are IMPOSSIBLE to change.

Kudos!1

there's people of all walks on here, men have to learn to stop thinking, i'm the man your the woman these are our differences, B.S. and concentrate on friendship clean and pure, open discussion about everything, no holds barred with quiet understanding. a true friend to go through time with.... women will be receptive to this but very sceptical, and should be.. but women, try not to be too critical, because women can be rather hard at times as well. look at the sh!t of poo since egypt, when they were queens and gods at one time, so far away, it's not wrong to wish, but the sexes have to get along first and foremost. until that happens the circle will continue,...just an observation.

I think that it is about counting your blessings and being thankful for the people that you have in your life that are real....There are wonderful hard working men that are willing to love the right woman, be their best friend...I think life is about the dings that are in the armour, without those, we have no character.

Im happy with "Mr. Close Enough"....