Topic: Will God Ever Give me a REAL Loving relationship with a REAL
countrybumpkin2u's photo
Thu 02/21/08 06:37 PM
I dunno!ohwell Lately it seems like he never will. I know I know Its on his time , But I am lonely .:cry: Its like that old song...
This old house I'm living in , Is needing repair...
LA LA LA LA LA ....
Anyone else know the song?

hosea1's photo
Thu 02/21/08 06:39 PM
i dotn know the song, but i feel the same way

CATBW56's photo
Thu 02/21/08 06:40 PM
Can't say that I know the song...but I feel the same way. It will happen in his time not ours....guess I need to be patient. I've kind of adopted an I don't care attitude (think that will help it any?)

bgeorge's photo
Thu 02/21/08 06:40 PM
probably not...but you can start the process by loving yourselfflowerforyou
good luck to you in your search/adventure:heart: drinker :heart:

lcjw's photo
Thu 02/21/08 06:40 PM
I hear ya'll

countrybumpkin2u's photo
Thu 02/21/08 06:40 PM
I know!!! Its SO hard to Give it all to him, but I guess I have to in order to plese Him.

chickayoshi's photo
Thu 02/21/08 06:42 PM
It's the only way. flowerforyou

msjkk2020's photo
Thu 02/21/08 06:42 PM
I'm to sick sick sick sick sick to know that song...

bgeorge's photo
Thu 02/21/08 06:43 PM
did the cathedrals sing "this old house" ??? if so yeah i know it...i love all the old gospel songs and the cathedrals and mckamey's

adj4u's photo
Thu 02/21/08 06:44 PM

I dunno!ohwell Lately it seems like he never will. I know I know Its on his time , But I am lonely .:cry: Its like that old song...
This old house I'm living in , Is needing repair...
LA LA LA LA LA ....
Anyone else know the song?


i heard he helps those that help themselves

hhhmmmmmmmm interesting drinker

countrybumpkin2u's photo
Thu 02/21/08 06:44 PM
Have ya ever had not enough love?
I mean ....Have you ever felt as tho NO one loved you?
At least I have my Savior!!
Thank you Lord for your BLESSINGS on me!!!

countrybumpkin2u's photo
Thu 02/21/08 06:46 PM
:heart: :heart: :heart: Yes Bgeorge! I beleive so !!
I LOVE all the old songs as well !:heart: :heart: :heart:

no photo
Thu 02/21/08 06:49 PM
it says if you want to be successful you have too make an effort. then god will guide your steps and open doors. if you are getting out and looking god will bring the right one into your path. if you are sitting at home hoping he will ring your doorbell your going to wait a long time. i know for myslf its hard to put myself out there because i hate being rejected.

countrybumpkin2u's photo
Thu 02/21/08 06:51 PM
WOW!!! You are SO right Maxx!! Thank you!
p.s. I haye being rejected to .
Its happened my whole life.
Jesus will never reject us tho . NEVER!!!:smile:

Abracadabra's photo
Thu 02/21/08 07:00 PM

it says if you want to be successful you have too make an effort. then god will guide your steps and open doors. if you are getting out and looking god will bring the right one into your path. if you are sitting at home hoping he will ring your doorbell your going to wait a long time. i know for myslf its hard to put myself out there because i hate being rejected.


In other words, you have to make all the decisions, and do all the work to make everything happen.

Then you can give God the credit! bigsmile

CountryBumpkin, I basically ruined my life early on waiting for God to bring someone to me. And I was even going out there knocking! It never happened, I’m 58 and never-married. Yet, ironically I wanted to be married as early as my late teens. Not just for the sake of being married, but because that would have meant that I found my lifemate. I never found her, and that was really the only prayer request I ever really made. At least with respect to personal requests. And I didn’t view that as a ‘personal’ request, because I felt that finding a lifemate would have been good for me, for her, for my mother, and a whole lot of other people. So it was hardly a selfish request.

I’m not even sure if I want that prayer answer now. My mother passed away, and half the reason I wanted a loving lifemate is because it would have made my mother happy in so many ways. It always would have potentially provided her with grandchildren to love, and who would love her back.

In short, it would be too little, too late, at this point in my life. I might still be able to make a woman happy, and maybe her mother, and her children. But my mother lost out big-time. That original prayer not only hold any meaning. frown

RainbowTrout's photo
Thu 02/21/08 07:17 PM
I think my higher power has been giving me advice through some of the residents I care for. Just the other night I was helping this one resident and she told me that she thought I was depressed. She asked me if I had a girlfriend. She told me that I should get a girlfriend. I wanted to ask her why but didn't. It is sometimes like they aren't speaking to me but someone else. I find it interesting to talk to residents when they are in dementia. It is like talking to someone while they are in their sleep. My job sometimes fascinates me.

Abracadabra's photo
Thu 02/21/08 08:24 PM
She told me that I should get a girlfriend. I wanted to ask her why but didn't.


You should have asked her if she knew where you can get one. You could figure out the why on your way to that location. :wink:

countrybumpkin2u's photo
Fri 02/22/08 11:45 AM
I understand Rainbow.

I have been there many times.
As you know I am there now.
Good luck
I'll pray for you and your residents
GOD BLESS YOU!!happy