so...what do you do when you meet a guy...all seems wonderful, he has a bachelor's degree in phsych, kind, cute....then all the sudden you find out he wont work, wont look for work...wants to eat, watch tv or play video games, he is 38 years old and when you try to talk to him about a direction in life, he blows you off and says its overrated. said he only got the degree because it interested him and he went to college at 29 to get out of his parents house for a bit...everything you mention is "discusting". screams like a girl at everything, no mechanical ability, petting puppies makes him sick, germ phobia, just wants to sit on his ass 24/7 go no where, do nothing.....then you cant get rid of him!!!!!!

Wow that sucks. Have him seek counseling.

Wow madam where do you meet these people? And does he have a brother so I know who to avoid?

Seriously, I would tell him to get out and if he doesn't I would threaten to call the cops.

I think we talked a little about this in private sweetheart.

Easiest was is some rat poison in his soup, then since you live in Florida, make the gators happy with a meal.

No fuss, no muss, just a "clean break"

Of course you can get rid of him. He doesn't make the decisions, remember he is useless. Kick his sorry %$@ out of your place and refuse to see him, take his calls etc...your a big girl, you can do it.

you may want to discuss with an attorney a binding way to "get rid of him". Sounds like a big time loser.

WOW look at all the wonderful lips

Well I still think mine is the easiest and most effective..she could have him gone by gator dinner time!

Is this person living in your home???

madamx, did I understand correctly? you are dating/living/socializing with a 38 yr old man? ok

then all of a suddenyou find out he doesnt wanna work etc??? how did he cover it b4?

hes got money...thats not the issue, but how do you do something with someone who is interested in NOTHING. has no direction...simply happy sitting on his ass!

have him find an office where he can sit on his A$$ while being productive. I dont put any emphasis on money. He can sit on his behind in his home? his car? etc... not mine.

people without ambition really confuse me

I think you might have answered your own question, madam. If he is interested in nothing, does that not include you?

Are you interested in him, and if so, why?

exactly no ambition. a commercial came on about a cruise ship i was like omg that looks like fun..."awww thats discusting, id never do that"...i was playing with the puppies my dog had 3 weeks ago "omg thats discusting, dont forget to wash your hands"...i was talking about going to new orleans some day "id never go there, its a dirty discusting city"...everything is discusting i fricken hate that word now.

ME ?

SHOW HIM THE DOOR!!!

mR.nEGATIVE......ewwwwwwww get rid of the poisen!!!

LILITH - great question!!! very deep!!!

I can distribute gator bait here in louisiana as well madamx, they are hungrier that those in florida. And the services of Sharpshooter are yours
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