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I think a lot of ppl are attracted to more than one person online. For me im not like that so much. Im kinda picky and i know that. So when i like someone its usually just that person and thats it. oh wait the question is attracted to...oops i guess liking someone and being attracted to is different...right?  Not always, if I like someone it is sometimes due to a certain amount of attraction as well. On the other hand...I can be attracted to someone without necessarily being interested in them. There IS a difference. ok someone got what i was trying to say in my confusing post lol lol, I'm fluent in confusion |
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I think a lot of ppl are attracted to more than one person online. For me im not like that so much. Im kinda picky and i know that. So when i like someone its usually just that person and thats it. oh wait the question is attracted to...oops i guess liking someone and being attracted to is different...right? Not always, if I like someone it is sometimes due to a certain amount of attraction as well. On the other hand...I can be attracted to someone without necessarily being interested in them. There IS a difference. ok someone got what i was trying to say in my confusing post lol lol, I'm fluent in confusion i usually speak pretty clear but im tired so i think i might confuse everyone tonight lol |
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Edited by
Peccy
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Wed 02/13/08 05:04 PM
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Oh I got it I said "Not always" which is not every time.
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I think when you're on a dating site like this, it should be expected that you will be getting to know more than one person at a time. So unless you are leading all of the people you are talking with to believe they are the only one... Would it benefit you in anyway to point out that you are getting to know "more than one"? And when one emerges as the most special it shouldn't tear up the others if you share that with them.
I don't know though. I haven't set any high expectations on these sites, I really like the forums though! 
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i have lots of friends on here, and im gettin to know more daily..
everyone i talk to knows im talkin to others...i don't lead anyone to think that they're 'the only one' ..that's just short selling myself..lol i try to keep things light, and stay friends unless i think something more will come from it.. i'd also let them know... |
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its sort of like an all you can eat buffet, isnt it? Take what you like, leave the rest behind, come back for seconds, maybe thirds?....mmmmm...
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i have lots of friends on here, and im gettin to know more daily.. everyone i talk to knows im talkin to others...i don't lead anyone to think that they're 'the only one' ..that's just short selling myself..lol i try to keep things light, and stay friends unless i think something more will come from it.. i'd also let them know... UHm....**clears throat** you told me you were mine and mine only..... NICE................  and Peccy, make sure the ladies in question feel the same or close to it before you devote your undying love for them... just a suggestion I have picked up over the years.... 
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i have lots of friends on here, and im gettin to know more daily.. everyone i talk to knows im talkin to others...i don't lead anyone to think that they're 'the only one' ..that's just short selling myself..lol i try to keep things light, and stay friends unless i think something more will come from it.. i'd also let them know... UHm....**clears throat** you told me you were mine and mine only..... NICE................ and Peccy, make sure the ladies in question feel the same or close to it before you devote your undying love for them... just a suggestion I have picked up over the years.... She says this while she's clearly stalking me |
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She says this while she's clearly stalking me Just because she told me she was mine doesn't mean I ever said I was hers..... and love does not equal obsession...or the other way around.... |
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i've only stalked one...errr...two.. umm...
3? OMG I CAN'T REMEMBER!!! (only a seclect few get stalked by the best..err..me ;) ) |
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  I felt that meeting and interacting with as many different women, from as many places and walks of life as possible and trying to get to know them in hopes of finding "the one" was the purpose here. I dont know how an online friendship can be considered exclusive without meeting and long term talks. If that was decided between two people then I could understand that, but when told to talk, be yourself, flirt, have fun and then lose a friend for doing exactly that, well 
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Wise words (((sharp))) Good morning did you dream about all of us women?
 I felt that meeting and interacting with as many different women, from as many places and walks of life as possible and trying to get to know them in hopes of finding "the one" was the purpose here. I dont know how an online friendship can be considered exclusive without meeting and long term talks. If that was decided between two people then I could understand that, but when told to talk, be yourself, flirt, have fun and then lose a friend for doing exactly that, well |
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if you start caring for/liking or simply being attracted to more than one person online? How do you handle it in a non-hurtful way? Do you tell them? Do you not tell them? What gives here? |
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Bad girl, how you doing darlin, didn't know you were on here, just been cruisen round doing some reading, you wanna be in my dreams, lol,
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eeeeeeeeeenie meeeeeeeeeeeeeeeenie mineyyyyyyyyyyyy moe!!!
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eeeeeeeeeenie meeeeeeeeeeeeeeeenie mineyyyyyyyyyyyy moe!!! |
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ahhhhhhhhhhh hello my stalker of the night!!!
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just trolling the boards..you wish
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Uh huh!!!
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Uh huh!!!
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