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Topic: depressed
cajunwhitetiger Joined Fri 07/27/07 Posts: 1277	Tue 02/12/08 08:57 PM
i know its not easy. i been there personal my self about losing a love one. i wont say i know how you feel . only you and god know that. just take it one day at time. just know we (everyone here) are here for you.

LatinMommy Joined Mon 12/10/07 Posts: 27	Tue 02/12/08 08:59 PM
Stay strong!!!!!!!

yvory Joined Tue 01/15/08 Posts: 251	Tue 02/12/08 09:00 PM
i'm sorry to hear that. i'm sure he is watching over you and want you to be happy. ::hugs::

nvrsaynvr Joined Tue 06/12/07 Posts: 5283	Tue 02/12/08 09:00 PM
{{Peachie}} Hugs, prayers and good thoughts are what I send for you.

sweetjeep Joined Sat 01/05/08 Posts: 1165	Tue 02/12/08 09:01 PM
my thoughts and prayers are with you!

peachiegirl28 Joined Sun 09/16/07 Posts: 19292	Tue 02/12/08 09:05 PM
i went to the cemetary today thinking that it would help a little if i went and just let out how i felt and it has just made things worse...but i feel if i stay away from his grave i am doing him an injustice...

Enya Joined Mon 11/26/07 Posts: 2077	Tue 02/12/08 09:08 PM
..i am sorry if i hurt your feelings AMBER, RIGHT NOW,IT'S YOUR FEELINGS THAT MATTER.{NOT MINE} GIRL,I LOVE YOU! I PRAY THAT YOU'LL FEEL BETTER SOON.

zanne46 Joined Sun 07/01/07 Posts: 5610	Tue 02/12/08 09:08 PM
okay well i just have to let it out...i am really depressed....i try and act like everything is okay but its not...i was married for 6 1/2 years to my child hood sweetheart....we started dating when i was thirteen and he was my life.....it'll be two years ago that he died on May 12th...this time of year is always the hardest for me because his birthday was Valentines Day...dont mean to act like im seeking pity cause i am not i just want to let people know whats going on with me and why i havent been on as much...im still here just going through alot... Pity???...O my....there is no room here for pity...U have every right to feel the way u feel...It's called Love...and Loss of someone u Loved so much...... I am so happy u wrote about ur feelings.... Wrapping my arms around u...... This is a very hard time....post anything u want and need to say at any time...I surely will be here for u.... When the days are bad..they are so painful...I know... Hugs again to u.... Zanne

fastlinnie Joined Wed 09/26/07 Posts: 1993	Tue 02/12/08 09:28 PM
peachie you are a special lady you have help me so many times you have no ideal. i wish i could make it all go away for you.but i will say this you are special. you have such a great heart. i can only wish the best for you and yours. my heart hurts for you my lady

madamx7316 Joined Tue 10/16/07 Posts: 15886	Tue 02/12/08 09:30 PM
amber im so sorry xoxoxoxoxoo you are in my thoughts and prayers darlin!

drummerjosh Joined Sat 10/27/07 Posts: 320	Tue 02/12/08 09:47 PM
DON'T WORRY! BE HAPPY! Just start a thread where we can be goofballs and you'll cheer up!

Shakin389 Joined Tue 02/12/08 Posts: 362	Tue 02/12/08 09:57 PM
FIRST OF ALL,I AM VERY SORRY FOR THE LOST OF YOUR SWEETHEART. NOW,I FEEL WRONG.I THOUGHT YOU WERE IGNORING ME. MY OLDER SISTER GOES THROUGH THE SAME LONELY FEELING EVERY CHRISTMAS SHE SAID IT MAKES HER SAD TO REMEMBER HOW HE WAS ALWAYS THERE. SO YOU MUST MISS HIM ALOT TOO. i would never ignore you....i just feel like im wandering out in a fog....its hard to explain...its just that familiarity is lost and it took part of me with it...i cant get it back and its hard to deal with....i dont always feel like this but it has just hit me and im having a difficult time dealing with it..i am sorry if i hurt your feelings Not that this will help you much, but I am sort of in the same boat. My exwife and I married at 19, had two children finally when we were 25, and at the age of 36, she decided to walk out on me. It caught me totally of guard and it was like losing someone, like you did because I wasn't ready for that, and it wasn't something I had ever even thought about. For someone to turn their back like that and do a 180 degree turn, really hurt. A year later, its my kids and I, alone and the world seems like a much better place than it was a year ago. I just had to give it time and keep a stiff upper lip. (ACDC rules) Sorry to hear about your loss.

peachiegirl28 Joined Sun 09/16/07 Posts: 19292	Wed 02/13/08 01:49 PM
FIRST OF ALL,I AM VERY SORRY FOR THE LOST OF YOUR SWEETHEART. NOW,I FEEL WRONG.I THOUGHT YOU WERE IGNORING ME. MY OLDER SISTER GOES THROUGH THE SAME LONELY FEELING EVERY CHRISTMAS SHE SAID IT MAKES HER SAD TO REMEMBER HOW HE WAS ALWAYS THERE. SO YOU MUST MISS HIM ALOT TOO. i would never ignore you....i just feel like im wandering out in a fog....its hard to explain...its just that familiarity is lost and it took part of me with it...i cant get it back and its hard to deal with....i dont always feel like this but it has just hit me and im having a difficult time dealing with it..i am sorry if i hurt your feelings Not that this will help you much, but I am sort of in the same boat. My exwife and I married at 19, had two children finally when we were 25, and at the age of 36, she decided to walk out on me. It caught me totally of guard and it was like losing someone, like you did because I wasn't ready for that, and it wasn't something I had ever even thought about. For someone to turn their back like that and do a 180 degree turn, really hurt. A year later, its my kids and I, alone and the world seems like a much better place than it was a year ago. I just had to give it time and keep a stiff upper lip. (ACDC rules) Sorry to hear about your loss. thank you for your words...they hit home

Gypsy41 Joined Tue 05/15/07 Posts: 123359	Wed 02/13/08 01:52 PM
(((((((((((((Peachie)))))))))))))

trueokie2 Joined Mon 07/02/07 Posts: 1894	Wed 02/13/08 01:56 PM
Awe ((((Peachiegirl)))) My heart and prayers go out to you...

LookinRound Joined Sun 12/02/07 Posts: 7894	Wed 02/13/08 01:56 PM
Oh Peachie, I had no idea...I am so terribly sorry honey. Hug those kids and yourself tightly. There are no words I know, just lots of hugs and prayers for you dear.

RainbowTrout Joined Fri 04/06/07 Posts: 13869	Wed 02/13/08 01:59 PM
Lost mine May 3rd. This May 3rd will be three years since her passing. Just because they leave you doesn't make the love any less that what it was. If anything it keeps on growing.

SuzinVA Joined Wed 04/25/07 Posts: 28730	Wed 02/13/08 02:05 PM
((((((((((((Amber)))))))))))) My sweet sisterfriend! I have no words except to say that I and so many others are here for you. Talk, talk, and talk some more, keep hope in your heart and love that little one for all she's worth. Time will eventually ease the pain. When you need me, I'm here for you

JaceKnows Joined Mon 11/12/07 Posts: 5110	Wed 02/13/08 02:17 PM
okay well i just have to let it out...i am really depressed....i try and act like everything is okay but its not...i was married for 6 1/2 years to my child hood sweetheart....we started dating when i was thirteen and he was my life.....it'll be two years ago that he died on May 12th...this time of year is always the hardest for me because his birthday was Valentines Day...dont mean to act like im seeking pity cause i am not i just want to let people know whats going on with me and why i havent been on as much...im still here just going through alot... You have my sympathy, Peachie. Hang in there, remember the good. You'll be okay. You're not alone. We're all here for ya! (((((((((Peachie)))))))))