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Topic: how long do you wait?
Irishflower Joined Sat 08/25/07 Posts: 3	Mon 02/11/08 07:32 PM
I met a guy at the bar this weekend and I'm the type of person that doesnt mind calling the guy first. We hung out Sat nite and he wants to hang out again...so how long do I wait to call him?

darkowl1 Joined Sat 01/12/08 Posts: 13060	Mon 02/11/08 07:33 PM
the four day rule

itsmetina Joined Sun 12/09/07 Posts: 18944	Mon 02/11/08 07:33 PM
go ahead call take a chance but not too late at night darling

soxfan94 Joined Mon 05/28/07 Posts: 3384	Mon 02/11/08 07:34 PM
Call him after the initial rush goes away and you still realize that you want to call him. Other than that, I don't think you need to follow any of the so called "rules"

ellgee1976 Joined Sat 10/28/06 Posts: 7296	Mon 02/11/08 07:34 PM
the four day rule wtf? what is this!?

Kimmydoll2000 Joined Sat 12/08/07 Posts: 560	Mon 02/11/08 07:35 PM
Just give him a call....

zanne46 Joined Sun 07/01/07 Posts: 5610	Mon 02/11/08 07:36 PM
go ahead call take a chance but not too late at night darling and not drunk....

bubblejug6 Joined Thu 01/17/08 Posts: 79	Mon 02/11/08 07:37 PM
You know you like him and he's a guy so he probablylikes you too . . . so just do it. CALL HIM!!! :)

isaac_dede Joined Sat 11/24/07 Posts: 10632	Mon 02/11/08 07:39 PM
call him on thursday....well maybe not this thursday but a good rule if you hung out on the weekend...wait till about mid thursday afternoon because he'll be thinking about what to do this weekend and most likely doesn't have any plans yet...that's just my opinion.

smiless Joined Wed 09/26/07 Posts: 13765	Mon 02/11/08 07:39 PM
Irishgirl what does your gut say? If it says call then you call. If it says wait then you wait. While you make a decision don't forget to get the joke of the day from me. If you like it add me as a friend! This message goes for everyone! Cheers

Enya Joined Mon 11/26/07 Posts: 2077	Mon 02/11/08 07:39 PM
I SAY 2 DAYS...GIVE HIM ANTICIPATION. THEN,WHEN U CALL,HE'LL BE MORE HAPPY!

tonylee52 Joined Fri 01/04/08 Posts: 2035	Mon 02/11/08 07:39 PM
Just give him a call.... can i just call you instead

hikerchick Joined Sat 12/22/07 Posts: 13206	Mon 02/11/08 07:42 PM
wow I didn't know there were rules about these things. I have always just called people if I had something to say to them. So complicated! Must be why I am still single

itsmetina Joined Sun 12/09/07 Posts: 18944	Mon 02/11/08 07:43 PM
i'd wait for him 2 call me

willy_cents Joined Sat 07/14/07 Posts: 4471	Mon 02/11/08 07:43 PM
sheeeesh...if your phone ain't busted, call me...er I mean him right now. No time like the present to talk to him

ujGearhead Joined Wed 10/10/07 Posts: 6612	Mon 02/11/08 07:44 PM
Two days.

soxfan94 Joined Mon 05/28/07 Posts: 3384	Mon 02/11/08 07:46 PM
call him on thursday....well maybe not this thursday but a good rule if you hung out on the weekend...wait till about mid thursday afternoon because he'll be thinking about what to do this weekend and most likely doesn't have any plans yet...that's just my opinion. This can backfire, though, if he likes to plan in advance. I usually have my weekends figured out by wednesday.

gurlgmr Joined Sun 10/28/07 Posts: 148	Mon 02/11/08 07:46 PM
call him on thursday....well maybe not this thursday but a good rule if you hung out on the weekend...wait till about mid thursday afternoon because he'll be thinking about what to do this weekend and most likely doesn't have any plans yet...that's just my opinion. thanks for that advice.

jenleah32 Joined Sat 09/22/07 Posts: 4577	Mon 02/11/08 07:47 PM
Yup two days no need to rush, this way he will wonder why you havn't called yet and he may end up calling you!!

gurlgmr Joined Sun 10/28/07 Posts: 148	Mon 02/11/08 07:48 PM
i do have to say, though, that this is the disappointment that i experience from this site. . . and in life in general... why does there have to be a certain time we wait to call someone if we just want to talk to them? i guess i just really don't like games. go with your gut.