I have reviewed Mutual Matches, & I had a lady respond & i subsequently sent her an e-mail (message). My concern is one in which i previously sent an inquiry, that I haven't had a checkmark which shows my message was read, since January 26th.
My latest message was to a woman whom i know is a new member, & many of my messages when i joined justsayhi were consistently read. I'm wondering if I somehow erred (I don't know how)with respect to your policies, & for some reason, although after sending it says my message was sucessfully sent, they in fact are not. Since it has been 16 days since my last message was read, I'm beginning to wonder if there is some sort of problem.
The odds that it is due to your FAQ response with regards to my
querrie should not be the problem, and, again, the fact everything was fine previous leads me to think something is amiss. Please review my profile, which i have recently changed, & advise as to why my messages are not being read. Best regards, Kelly Kadla.

The mutual match thing is a joke , now they are sending me matches from every state, when my settings are very specific, again it's a joke!!

At first I thought they were a good thing, but I don't get why people would say yes, get a "match" and then not write.

Yeah well the Mutual Match doesn't really work as PATSFAN stated.

It's more of a 50 - 50 on rather or not you will get a true match with any one or body etc. Which does suck.

I agree, I have e-mailed several of my Mutual Matches, and recieved nothing in return. It's a joke

It's a free friendly site! You aren't paying anything and someone is working hard to make things happy and workable for you and the rest of us. So calling it a "joke" seems somehow thankless. Mutual Match is new, maybe it will take a while to get the bugs out, everything does.

Everything is a crap shoot in relationships, you have to make your own wise choices and sift through the info. Mutual match or not so "watch yo mouth" and give the guys a pat on the back who are trying to make it work for you while giving some healthy criticism!

I agree with on the first part,It's a free friendly site! You aren't paying anything and someone is working hard to make things happy and workable for you and the rest of us. is right but sorry Mutual Match is a joke,and I been here long enough to say this,but it is a great place

I have to agree here too. It is a free date site and People are working hard to make it work for us. Give them some time to work things out and if you have a problem with it, there is a place where you can let them know about the bugs. In fact, they ask you to let them know about bugs in the system so they can work on them, so lighten up guys. have a great day.

From what I can tell your question has nothing to do with Mutual Match.

Why didn't she read your email yet??

How the heck would anyone but her know??

She lost her internet connection? Something you said in your last email offended her and she just deleted it without reading it? She's been busy and hasn't been on the internet in a long time? She's been on vacation? She decided online dating isn't for her and hasn't been back to this site? Aliens abducted her and she can't get to her computer??

The possibilities are endless. I'd suggest you let it go and write to someone else. Several someone else's in fact. Broaden your horizons.

And good luck on here!

if has off site email address formatted properly it does not get delivered

at least i had a bunch that did not get deleivered till i removed the email address

I had one with my email address in it that got delivered fine just five minutes ago adj4u

Don't think that's the problem.

The OP said the emails shows as delivered - just not read yet. Which seems like a strange complaint to me. Kind of like asking the phone company how come someone won't answer their phone.

well guyz i meet a great girl off a match and we are talking now so maby it works for some

I think that you guys gotta remember that people all over the US are also searching on Mutual Match and if someone found your profile and said "yes", then regardless to your search preferences, they will pop up in your match results. To be able to "match" people there has to be some kind of an answer from both profiles and even if I'm searching only 25 miles outside of my zip....I can't control if someone 200 miles away has said yes and now the system needs my response. Try to think of it as a good thing! People all over want to meet you! lol

Well, frankly, I can't even figure out how the thing even works! I'm a new member and have been getting emails on a daily basis: "Someone wants to meet you on JustSayHi!
1 new person, 5 new persons, 2 new persons (and so on) has said that they are interested in meeting you through Mutual Match, but you have not rated them yet."

Well, who ARE all these people and where do I find them? And the thing that irks me the most is when I click on 'my matches' you have to decide yes or no on the basis of one photo and not much else if you're interested or not. I would like to be able to click on their photo or screen name or something to view their profile, but can't so I normally click no, and go on to the next "match" a couple thousand miles away. Sorry, I don't get it.

MyNameTaken;
This is a fairly common issue and not a problem with the MM feature but rather a user created conflict.

There are a LOT of oddballs of every stripe and color on social sites; many desperate people flailing away trying to find SOMEone, ANYONE, to talk to.

So some members here will set their search parameters WIIIIDE open, any age, any distance, anything goes. They click YES YES YES on the MM selection process hoping the shotgun approach will yield a shoulder to cry on or an ear to give them the attention they crave.

If someone clicks "Yes" or "Maybe" on your picture then you get the email notice you refer to. Just go in your mutual match selection process as you describe and click "No" when they come up.

You are spot-on in your criticism of the lack of information listed during the MM selection process. I'm sure that's something admin here is working on but since this is a relatively new site changes and improvements take time.

One trick I use is when I see someone in the selection process I think I might be interested in I right-click on the picture then select "Open in new window" from the menu that pops up. That way I can look at their profile in a whole new browser window, decide if I am indeed interested, then close that window and be right back at the selection process.

Not a perfect answer but a practical work-around for now.

when you get a match outside of your settings that means they have showed interest in you

thanks for the idea - I had been wondering too how to see the full profile when going through the mm section - great idea about opening up a new window

You're most welcome!

I open things in a new window a LOT. At any given moment when I'm online I'll have six or more browser windows running.

Another thing that does is allow me to do or read something else while waiting for a window to load up. Not so much an issue now in the days of broadband connections but back when all we had was 33k dial-up... yeah.