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 hey...i dont like to hurt people but in the long run honesty the best policy...i'll tell the truth no matter how much it hurts me or the person i'm telling... It seems to be a problem with most men on here...they lump all women together and we arent all alike I'm going off experience, don't mean to generalize but of the some odd hundereds of women I've known only about two of them have been honest and forthright...so it's not like I have a whole lot to work with when it comes to this issue. ((((((fear)))))) how have you been? ((((((Princess)))))) I've been well, lonely bored but still pushing haha. How have you been? I've had such a terrible cold the last few days but I think it's getting better... I'll be on fire tomorrow  my guess is that the onion's worked. always listen to your veg.. they're saying....i love you..ley me make it better but then of course if you hear your veg's talking then you need to seek help from another type os doctor...  hoping that you feel better miss princess |
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what are they being dishonest about? okay i've occasionally found out later - he has a prison record - doesn't work full-time - lives at home - has babies he forgot to mention what're your women lying about? |
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what are they being dishonest about? okay i've occasionally found out later - he has a prison record - doesn't work full-time - lives at home - has babies he forgot to mention what're your women lying about? The women I've met usually lie about their feelings, either towards me or towards the situation. That's usually the big one, another one is whether they actually want to talk to me or not. Of course you have the common age, children, but really that doesn't bother me much unless the age is entirely too young. Most part be honest with feelings and we should have a pretty good relationship beit friends or more. |
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But I would never generalize all women. Just answering the question.
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hey...i dont like to hurt people but in the long run honesty the best policy...i'll tell the truth no matter how much it hurts me or the person i'm telling... It seems to be a problem with most men on here...they lump all women together and we arent all alike I'm going off experience, don't mean to generalize but of the some odd hundereds of women I've known only about two of them have been honest and forthright...so it's not like I have a whole lot to work with when it comes to this issue. ((((((fear)))))) how have you been? ((((((Princess)))))) I've been well, lonely bored but still pushing haha. How have you been? I've had such a terrible cold the last few days but I think it's getting better... I'll be on fire tomorrow Get better soon, I wanna see that fire   It's on it's way sweetness... |
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Honesty is always best coming from women and men
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Well if they can't be honest with themselves then how can they be with you. I always be honest with who ever I been with or talk to. I don't need the head trips. I rather be free and happy with myself. Now I just went through a situation where I thought this one was going to last a little while, but by her not being honest with herself on what she wanted. I was left in the dark. I guess the ole saying goes, you will never know anyone unless you move in with them and even then wil you ever really know them at all? Life goes on and the thing for me is, not to lose fath that maybe someday ill find or they will find me.
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I've always been honest..especially relationship wise or on sites like this..which is probably WHY I'm single..lol
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i rember that..i read it..but at the time i wasnt posting things..i'll be honest..at the beginning the people on here scared me...but i'm kool with them now most of us aren't too scary... good to hear from you  I've met a couple of crazy ones. Like right now, this guy wont leave me alone, keeps asking for pics of my family and if he can suck on my toes. 
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Edited by
kolhauszer
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Tue 02/05/08 10:39 PM
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i rember that..i read it..but at the time i wasnt posting things..i'll be honest..at the beginning the people on here scared me...but i'm kool with them now most of us aren't too scary... good to hear from you I've met a couple of crazy ones. Like right now, this guy wont leave me alone, keeps asking for pics of my family and if he can suck on my toes. maybe he thinks that your toes look like little gurkins??? |
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some people like that kind of thing...its called a fetish...i think foot fetishes to that extreame are creapy!!!!! then again there are girls who like that!
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i rember that..i read it..but at the time i wasnt posting things..i'll be honest..at the beginning the people on here scared me...but i'm kool with them now most of us aren't too scary... good to hear from you I've met a couple of crazy ones. Like right now, this guy wont leave me alone, keeps asking for pics of my family and if he can suck on my toes. You'd be quite suprised at how good that makes some women feel. |
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hey...i dont like to hurt people but in the long run honesty the best policy...i'll tell the truth no matter how much it hurts me or the person i'm telling... It seems to be a problem with most men on here...they lump all women together and we arent all alike I'm going off experience, don't mean to generalize but of the some odd hundereds of women I've known only about two of them have been honest and forthright...so it's not like I have a whole lot to work with when it comes to this issue. ((((((fear)))))) how have you been? ((((((Princess)))))) I've been well, lonely bored but still pushing haha. How have you been? I've had such a terrible cold the last few days but I think it's getting better... I'll be on fire tomorrow Get better soon, I wanna see that fire It's on it's way sweetness... I'll be waiting patiently Princess  
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Edited by
angelindarkness
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Wed 02/06/08 05:06 AM
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I don't think you can say that one sex lies more than the other. Sounds like you have been making some poor choices in love partners. Maybe it is time to re evaluate what you need, as opposed to what you want. It may also be a good time to work on yourself, to see what it is about you that attracts women like this and why you are attracted to women like this. Sometimes counseling or therapy works. Othertimes, self-help can do it. Try looking for some appropriate reading in one of your local major bookstores.
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Well if they can't be honest with themselves then how can they be with you. I always be honest with who ever I been with or talk to. I don't need the head trips. I rather be free and happy with myself. Now I just went through a situation where I thought this one was going to last a little while, but by her not being honest with herself on what she wanted. I was left in the dark. I guess the ole saying goes, you will never know anyone unless you move in with them and even then wil you ever really know them at all? Life goes on and the thing for me is, not to lose fath that maybe someday ill find or they will find me. NEVER lose faith..for once one does EVERYTHING is lost.
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Through my time in life I've noticed women are the worst with this, whereas I am quite honest and forthright most just shy away from telling me the truth. Only have known a couple of women that were actually honest with me, so what is the problem with being honest? I understand you don't want to "hurt" anyone, but you do realize it hurts more when we have to find out on our own, right? It's not a difficult concept to understand, honesty leads to trust, trust leads to a healthy relationship. So I suppose the question is, do women realize that it hurts more to find out rather than be told? If you aren't interested say it, if you are say it. I agree.. but men just go silent so I dont' think that's any better. Leaving a woman hanging. both are wrong. |
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Edited by
Fade2Black
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Wed 02/06/08 05:07 AM
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hey...i dont like to hurt people but in the long run honesty the best policy...i'll tell the truth no matter how much it hurts me or the person i'm telling... It seems to be a problem with most men on here...they lump all women together and we arent all alike amen to that .. people tend to stereotype genders. I agree with Angel too. Find better romantic interests - your choices are telling. 
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Well if they can't be honest with themselves then how can they be with you. bingo.... |
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I'm not stereotypeing, I'm simply stateing from my experience. It could be the wrong women I am going for, but then again how honest are you that say you are honest? It's easy for someone to type that they are honest, it is a lot harder to act on the honesty in the long run...trust me I know.
I don't mean to generalize and forgive me if I come off that way, I am just going from my experience as I have stated numerously in this topic. |
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I'm not stereotypeing, I'm simply stateing from my experience. It could be the wrong women I am going for, but then again how honest are you that say you are honest? It's easy for someone to type that they are honest, it is a lot harder to act on the honesty in the long run...trust me I know. I don't mean to generalize and forgive me if I come off that way, I am just going from my experience as I have stated numerously in this topic. Actions speak louder then words. Thats how you know
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