I've been with a girl for the past month, we both like each other, I think anyway. She always asks me if I am available on certain days, and that is usually when we get together. She has off on Wednesdays, both from school and work, so I emailed her on her myspace account to ask her if she would like to get together on Wednesday, she read it, but she never emailed me back, all she had to do was say yes or no. Also, we got together on Sunday to watch the superbowl game at her house, when I was leaving she told me she would call me Monday night, again, nothing. I don't know if I am boyfriend material, just seems like girls do things like this to me all the time. I give her space like she wants.

i personaly never dealt with this.if a guy liked me he called all the time.if this women doesnt have time for you now maybe she never will

Sounds like she is seeing someone else. Better ask her.

just a random fyi.. a friend of mine has his email on myspace tied to his cell phone.. so it will say he has read the messages when he hasnt. it sends him a txt message on his phone to tell him that he has a message then flaggs the message as read.. but he hasnt read it yet...


thats my random info of the day..

as for your question....


call her.. leave her a message.. and see what she says... even if your message said something like... even of you dont watn to do something, could youplease let me know because if you dont want to do something ill make plans elsewhere... even if you dont..
maybe.. who knows.. im the worst to ask for advice..

but good luck anyway...

sound like an odd situation... be careful... dont make yourself so available....

Ya......quit being so damn available.....

It depends on who you picked for the Super Bowl.

what do you mean, quit being available?

I agree. Don't play a game or anything but, just try to keep yourself occupied brother. It's not hard to do. Let her call you....don't call her from now on. If she never calls....it's not meant to be. So, you just try again. But, don't give up brother. There's someone out there for everyone and I DO believe that....just hang in there....you'll be just fine.

means u r always at her disposable waiting on when shes available

that wasn't meant to be a laugh....it was meant to be a smiley face.....sorry bout that

Your asking the wrong people. Ask her, before you spin yourself up with all kinds of unfounded suspicions..

I was hoping I wouldn't have to post any threads like this about this girl, I thought things were going well, but I just have know idea if I should be in a relationship if girls aren't into me like I am into them.

everything you have said to all of us about the situation is what you should sit and tell her......this is the only thing that will and always make the relationship you want to be or this will move you on to where your true love is waiting......what is the missing link.....her feelings that make her do what you say.....then the problem has a solution and it is clear what it is.....TALK TO HER ABOUT IT ALL!

I guess the reason i don't talk to her about it is because I don't want to seem too needy

i don't know if this could be a reason or not, on sunday she asked if i will be voting on tuesday, and I said no, could something like that change somebodies mind about someone?

Have you ever heard of the term 'Self Prophesy'?

Chances are? By not talking about it..pretending to be something you are not..I.E. Not bothered.. You are probably coming off as suspicious and needy.. She might be responding by pulling away..which causes more suspicion and neediness.. which causes...
See where I'm going with this?

Yea.. Keep doing that. That beats the hell out of being direct and honest.

Actually.. The truth of the mater probably has more to do with your false self-image and sense of self worth, as opposed to what she might or might not think.

My guess? You do not want to appear vulnerable. Well, guess what? You are. If you weren't, we wouldn't be having this conversation.

There is nothing wrong with being vulnerable and showing it. That is honest. Many women would consider that, the manly thing to do and reciprocate in kind.

Even if she does not.. That doesn't matter, because you did. You can walk away knowing that.

welcome to the wonderful world of women

i guess i'm just afraid it will turn into an argument, I don't want an argument this early on in the relationship

Again... Have you ever heard of the term 'Self Prophesy'?

We tend to create what we fear.