Daffy... I use Donald if it is a Senate race.
Floyd Strobelight if it is a Governor
And Ted Nugent for a Mayor.

Her point being.. If that is a major hangup of hers? What can you do about it? Pretend to be something you aren't? Or be who you are and try to take an interest in her interest.

There are some things that Lilith is interested in.. I can give a rats rear end for, if left to my own vices.. There are some things about me..that when I talk about too much.. I can see her eyes gloss over and a rigor start to set in.. So?
She is interested because I am.. She listens as best she can because it is a passion of mine.. I am interested in her stuff not because I am interested in it specifically.. but because I am interested in her.

Neither of us have to change our personalities and play games to be together.

thanks for all that advice

No problem... whether you use it or not.

I honestly have no idea what is going on, she doesn't respond to my text either, I sent a text to her asking how her project at school went, but she doesn't reply to that either. I just don't find any of this fair, I just wish i knew what was going on.

she will let u know when she is ready, don t horass her about it. Its a chic, space

Steven.

Ohhh. BIG SIGH. All this talk about a call and you send a text? A text is like, hmmmmm. I don't really want to talk to you, but rather send you a quick message as I either can't use the phone or I know you can't.

A text is a bastardized form of communication. It's not for regular contact unless you are young. And you're a grown man.
Okay, I know I'm going to get slammed for what I just said about texting, but really, think about it!

I agree impersonable texts

Ohh, Chuck, I think you're flirting and/or stalking.... Way to be a flatterer, I have noticed you're good at that.

I flirt not!

she says she doesn't like to talk on the phone

Want some solid advice bro? Wait till she gets back to u, if she does, listen and be still,cool beans, if she doesn t , u deserve more, problem solved. You want to lose her? keep text and calling.

Yeah, Yeah! What he said!

Way to go Chuck... You wrote more than three words! Woo Hoo! I'm proud.

you fliting?

well, I think if she doesn't get in touch with me tonight, I may just end it, unless she is thinking of ending it with me first, for some reason, not sure what i did wrong.

People always say "be yourself", but that doesn't work, I am nice to the girls I am with, and am always myself, it just seems to hurt me every time.

Of course.

Dude.. If this is you? Seriously? You may need some help. I don't think it is. This is you spun!

If I was with a woman that was acting like this.. I'd have kicked her to the curb many yesterdays ago... and most consider me pretty understanding.

Are you that impatient that you are going to end it with a girl b/c she did not reply to your text? Votes? Doesn't like to talk on the phone?

Go make plans with your friends or plop down and watch some tv and stop sweating it. If she wants to see you, she'll call. If she doesn't, move on.

But either way, address your issues with her. It's only been a month, and you can't expect her to give you all her time if that is not what you've agreed. It seems as though she is always in your thoughts. You might not always be in hers. People go at different speeds. Stop analyzing this to death.