Okay gotta vent for a moment!

To those that know me, you all know I am a realitively nice person. To those that don't know me, if you are so inclined too get to know me - you will find that I am a reletively nice person.

So why is it that some azzheads feel that it is necessary to send me one email and say "Hi! You got a pic?"

If I had a pic I wanted them to see, I am sure I would have it posted. Geez cannot people have a little couth and get to know someone for who they are, or at least send more than one email before asking for a pic!!!

Okay feel a little better now!! Sorry, but it really burns my butt!!!

Hope everyone is having a wonderful evening!!!

fear of rejection is depressing...put up a pic and ifthey dont like ya then they can f__k off

i for one like to see who i am chatting with. seems normal request.

you go ella

I know what you are saying. I don't bother emailing them back.

i feel ya! its always better to get to know ones personality first. looks fade over time

Can I have a pic?

Just kidding, I'll move on.

Hi got a pic? Wait a mint! You do, about 17 of them

sure they can...there are pleanty of people that won't ask right off..

im not one of them tho...i've sent a few people a 'where's your pic email" cuz they had a blue box..and i've already had a bad experience with a blue box on here..

now, don't get me wrong, i don't always ask for a pic straight away...i normally wait for the 5th or 6th email lol

most people just like to match a face ( a real one) to the name ..that's why i have fun pics, and real pics..

Ella...

Don't know you yet...Nice to meet you

And I agree...I may have pics, but I have no problem talking to ones without.

Im sorry. I wont ask you again.

I always tell the:

"yes i do have a pic, but i do not show it to people i do not know"

dont sweat it.. they are not looking on the inside.. their loss i say..

Good Evening to you...

I understand what you mean. Anyone should not send a first message saying, "You have a pic?" Not too smooth. A total turn off.

Sorry but I think it's fair to ask for a pic. I don't judge everyone by their pic but it's at least nice to put a face with the profile.....

It looks like my looks already faded

Ladies - Thank you!!!!!

Cam - I understand what you are saying, but by no means do I have a fear of rejection!!! Almost everyone on here says that they are looking for someone real, so get to know them first is all.

That is exactly what I do, but then to come back again and ask again (in email #2) is crazy!!!!!

There are alot of people on here that know what I look like. I do send out my pic, but not to anyone that asks for it in a first email. And not to any one that does not try to get to know me!!!