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Well even though it sucks to go through feeling and as all yo know how it feels. If we didn't we wouldn't get stronger. Some days are better then others and as time goes on, you will find yourself again
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Why does being alone hurt so much? Sometimes, you have a good thing and for no apparent reason, it's stripped from you. You try to move on, but good girls are hard to find. I've been trying my best, and run into a few that were ok. I'm not even looking for love anymore, I've given up on it. How hard can it possibly be to find a half way intelligent woman to lean on? Someone who can help mend my heart back to the way it was. 
I can understand your feelings. However unlike everyone else I'm not going to tell you to not give up. I can tell you after awhile its not so bad. You learn to accept it. sooner or later you stop smiling as much, you start to loose your humor, you drown yourself in work, and you go on. Shortly after that you'll start looking at the chatrooms and forums thinking that there still might be hope and for the most part your ignored but you still keep trying to no avail. After awhile you'll just quit. And the sad thing is that everyone will tell you not to give up but noone willl try or wants to really give you the chance to get to know you. I know, I'm at that point now. The good thing is when I'm gone I know that noone will care much less relize that I'm no longer there, and I'm o.k. with that now. It just lets me know that I won't leave anyone behind that needs me or will miss me. I know this will most likely be ignored and maybe it should, Its just the ramblings of someone that has been jaded and calased byone a point of return. Be it because I can't or I won't I haven't figured that out yet. I'm sure this will not be well recieved, but it is how I feel about it, so let the hate begin as it always does. i am truly sorry you feel this way. thats so sad. i'm sure there are some people in your life who love you and care for you. At one time I thought there was too, but I was wrong. My family only talks to me when they need money, and other than business associates that I deal with, i only get talked to when some one needs a hook up or something. I've tried to hang out with "Friends" but usually just end up shoved out of the conversaton and sitting alone at a bar. I tried to find people to go do things with but they all have something better to do unless they need something. and if they get it they take off with their friends, if they don't then they get mad and take off with their friends. Eather way I'm still alone. |
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Why does being alone hurt so much? Sometimes, you have a good thing and for no apparent reason, it's stripped from you. You try to move on, but good girls are hard to find. I've been trying my best, and run into a few that were ok. I'm not even looking for love anymore, I've given up on it. How hard can it possibly be to find a half way intelligent woman to lean on? Someone who can help mend my heart back to the way it was.
I can understand your feelings. However unlike everyone else I'm not going to tell you to not give up. I can tell you after awhile its not so bad. You learn to accept it. sooner or later you stop smiling as much, you start to loose your humor, you drown yourself in work, and you go on. Shortly after that you'll start looking at the chatrooms and forums thinking that there still might be hope and for the most part your ignored but you still keep trying to no avail. After awhile you'll just quit. And the sad thing is that everyone will tell you not to give up but noone willl try or wants to really give you the chance to get to know you. I know, I'm at that point now. The good thing is when I'm gone I know that noone will care much less relize that I'm no longer there, and I'm o.k. with that now. It just lets me know that I won't leave anyone behind that needs me or will miss me. I know this will most likely be ignored and maybe it should, Its just the ramblings of someone that has been jaded and calased byone a point of return. Be it because I can't or I won't I haven't figured that out yet. I'm sure this will not be well recieved, but it is how I feel about it, so let the hate begin as it always does. i am truly sorry you feel this way. thats so sad. i'm sure there are some people in your life who love you and care for you. At one time I thought there was too, but I was wrong. My family only talks to me when they need money, and other than business associates that I deal with, i only get talked to when some one needs a hook up or something. I've tried to hang out with "Friends" but usually just end up shoved out of the conversaton and sitting alone at a bar. I tried to find people to go do things with but they all have something better to do unless they need something. and if they get it they take off with their friends, if they don't then they get mad and take off with their friends. Eather way I'm still alone. Dude i'm sorry this has/is happening to you it sucks. But I felt this way for a little bit but someone said one thing to me. "if you were someone else would you want to hang out with you?" meaning that if your always down and out...is that really fun for anyone? just a thought. Find something that makes you really happy wheter you do it alone or not...chances our you'll find someone else who enjoys the same thing and you automaticaly know you have something in common....just an idea. |
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I'm single but after 10 years I decided that I am better off this way, I have never been happy in a relationship. I can't sit here and tell you to not give up, as I already have.
Look for the things that make you happy instead of worrying about what you don't have. If something like that is going to happen, it will. 
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Edited by
Drifters13
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Tue 01/29/08 11:12 PM
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Why does being alone hurt so much? Sometimes, you have a good thing and for no apparent reason, it's stripped from you. You try to move on, but good girls are hard to find. I've been trying my best, and run into a few that were ok. I'm not even looking for love anymore, I've given up on it. How hard can it possibly be to find a half way intelligent woman to lean on? Someone who can help mend my heart back to the way it was.
I can understand your feelings. However unlike everyone else I'm not going to tell you to not give up. I can tell you after awhile its not so bad. You learn to accept it. sooner or later you stop smiling as much, you start to loose your humor, you drown yourself in work, and you go on. Shortly after that you'll start looking at the chatrooms and forums thinking that there still might be hope and for the most part your ignored but you still keep trying to no avail. After awhile you'll just quit. And the sad thing is that everyone will tell you not to give up but noone willl try or wants to really give you the chance to get to know you. I know, I'm at that point now. The good thing is when I'm gone I know that noone will care much less relize that I'm no longer there, and I'm o.k. with that now. It just lets me know that I won't leave anyone behind that needs me or will miss me. I know this will most likely be ignored and maybe it should, Its just the ramblings of someone that has been jaded and calased byone a point of return. Be it because I can't or I won't I haven't figured that out yet. I'm sure this will not be well recieved, but it is how I feel about it, so let the hate begin as it always does. i am truly sorry you feel this way. thats so sad. i'm sure there are some people in your life who love you and care for you. At one time I thought there was too, but I was wrong. My family only talks to me when they need money, and other than business associates that I deal with, i only get talked to when some one needs a hook up or something. I've tried to hang out with "Friends" but usually just end up shoved out of the conversaton and sitting alone at a bar. I tried to find people to go do things with but they all have something better to do unless they need something. and if they get it they take off with their friends, if they don't then they get mad and take off with their friends. Eather way I'm still alone. Dude i'm sorry this has/is happening to you it sucks. But I felt this way for a little bit but someone said one thing to me. "if you were someone else would you want to hang out with you?" meaning that if your always down and out...is that really fun for anyone? just a thought. Find something that makes you really happy wheter you do it alone or not...chances our you'll find someone else who enjoys the same thing and you automaticaly know you have something in common....just an idea. Ya know at one time I was care free, I love nothing more than to have a good time and make sure that my "friends" had a good time too. I help them throught devorces, bad break ups, deaths, everything. When they were down and out they knew if they came to me I'd help them and they wouldn't have to ask, and I'n never ask anything in return. But when I went through the worst time I ever had in my life there was no one around. They had better things to do, or they didn't want to get involved, or my favorite one "I don't have time for this Bullsh*t" I was at a point of just ending it all and NO ONE cared. tried to get help from my family and they just hung the phone up on me. I've had people using me for almost 13 years now, dealt with my family for 30. I thought I had it handled, but when the only person I ever loved enough to ask to marry, Left me for a drug dealer that pimps her out to his friends for $50.00 an hour and beats her when she dosen't make him eonugh money on the day I was going to ask her to marry me. Two years ago is when all this happened, and theres alot more to the story, but thats when I started understanding that I'm not sopposted to be happy. Just do my job and go away alone. I've lived like this ever sence. HOw long could you take it before you started to look at things like I do? |
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keep ur head up it will get better just look forword and never look back or u will never be able to move forword in life i always just live for today and not tomrrow one day at a time and dont try to find some one let it come to u trust me it will happen dont try so hard thats where ur going worng.
 
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Only got through half the posts. Very tired and going to bed, BUT
They only way you can hope for a good relationship is to heal the heartbreak yourself. You are no good until then. If you keep trying to find someone with that pain still inside you, you are going to draw the wrong types of girls. The girls who want to make it all better, who want to fix it for you. Trust me, take the time to heal and mend and take care of yourself for a while. Once you are back on your feet, feeling-wise and romance-wise, then you will be able to attract someone ready for a healthy relationship. You have to be healthy yourself, to find that. |
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Why does being alone hurt so much? Sometimes, you have a good thing and for no apparent reason, it's stripped from you. You try to move on, but good girls are hard to find. I've been trying my best, and run into a few that were ok. I'm not even looking for love anymore, I've given up on it. How hard can it possibly be to find a half way intelligent woman to lean on? Someone who can help mend my heart back to the way it was.
I can understand your feelings. However unlike everyone else I'm not going to tell you to not give up. I can tell you after awhile its not so bad. You learn to accept it. sooner or later you stop smiling as much, you start to loose your humor, you drown yourself in work, and you go on. Shortly after that you'll start looking at the chatrooms and forums thinking that there still might be hope and for the most part your ignored but you still keep trying to no avail. After awhile you'll just quit. And the sad thing is that everyone will tell you not to give up but noone willl try or wants to really give you the chance to get to know you. I know, I'm at that point now. The good thing is when I'm gone I know that noone will care much less relize that I'm no longer there, and I'm o.k. with that now. It just lets me know that I won't leave anyone behind that needs me or will miss me. I know this will most likely be ignored and maybe it should, Its just the ramblings of someone that has been jaded and calased byone a point of return. Be it because I can't or I won't I haven't figured that out yet. I'm sure this will not be well recieved, but it is how I feel about it, so let the hate begin as it always does. i am truly sorry you feel this way. thats so sad. i'm sure there are some people in your life who love you and care for you. At one time I thought there was too, but I was wrong. My family only talks to me when they need money, and other than business associates that I deal with, i only get talked to when some one needs a hook up or something. I've tried to hang out with "Friends" but usually just end up shoved out of the conversaton and sitting alone at a bar. I tried to find people to go do things with but they all have something better to do unless they need something. and if they get it they take off with their friends, if they don't then they get mad and take off with their friends. Eather way I'm still alone. Dude i'm sorry this has/is happening to you it sucks. But I felt this way for a little bit but someone said one thing to me. "if you were someone else would you want to hang out with you?" meaning that if your always down and out...is that really fun for anyone? just a thought. Find something that makes you really happy wheter you do it alone or not...chances our you'll find someone else who enjoys the same thing and you automaticaly know you have something in common....just an idea. Ya know at one time I was care free, I love nothing more than to have a good time and make sure that my "friends" had a good time too. I help them throught devorces, bad break ups, deaths, everything. When they were down and out they knew if they came to me I'd help them and they wouldn't have to ask, and I'n never ask anything in return. But when I went through the worst time I ever had in my life there was no one around. They had better things to do, or they didn't want to get involved, or my favorite one "I don't have time for this Bullsh*t" I was at a point of just ending it all and NO ONE cared. tried to get help from my family and they just hung the phone up on me. I've had people using me for almost 13 years now, dealt with my family for 30. I thought I had it handled, but when the only person I ever loved enough to ask to marry, Left me for a drug dealer that pimps her out to his friends for $50.00 an hour and beats her when she dosen't make him eonugh money on the day I was going to ask her to marry me. Two years ago is when all this happened, and theres alot more to the story, but thats when I started understanding that I'm not sopposted to be happy. Just do my job and go away alone. I've lived like this ever sence. HOw long could you take it before you started to look at things like I do? But in the end who really gives a sh*t?? |
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 for one thing believe in urself.
if u r not happy with urself u r not going to be happy with someone. start with friendship first and go from there. it takes 2 to make the relationship work. |
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OP, you are too young to be so jaded. Give yourself time to heal.
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It always happens just when your at the point your at, you don't care anymore. Just try not to push someone away who maybe great for you, when she comes along.
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How hard can it possibly be to find a half way intelligent woman to lean on? Someone who can help mend my heart back to the way it was.
Until you heal your own heart, no one can do it for you. Stop trying to mend yourself with other people, mend yourself first, then you will find the relationship that won't break your heart. |
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I feel your pain 100 percent
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Why does being alone hurt so much? Sometimes, you have a good thing and for no apparent reason, it's stripped from you. You try to move on, but good girls are hard to find. I've been trying my best, and run into a few that were ok. I'm not even looking for love anymore, I've given up on it. How hard can it possibly be to find a half way intelligent woman to lean on? Someone who can help mend my heart back to the way it was.
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truly sorry for your heartache and hope you find that special one to help you thru it all madamx.....I LOVE your pic!!! I have that movie and I LOVE THE S**T out of it!!!! Charlie and Peter.....THE FEARLESS VAMPIRE KILLERS!! thanks sugar bug!!!! 
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keep ur head up it will get better just look forword and never look back or u will never be able to move forword in life i always just live for today and not tomrrow one day at a time and dont try to find some one let it come to u trust me it will happen dont try so hard thats where ur going worng.
good piece of advice |
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Because your trying so hard. Just chill, get yourself a drink and relax. Good things come to those who wait. Just go by my personal motto, which just happens to be two words long "One day" |
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