When starting a relationship, how often do you like to spend with the new girlfriend/boyfriend? once, twice, more times per week? When you grow further into the relationship do you like to spend even more time with your significant other?

I like to spend as much time with them as I can so we can get to know each other better ... from day to day ...

Depends on the girl really...I fell in love with a friend I saw once a week until we started dating..gradually it increased. I was engaged to a girl I spent everyday with for months when we met - we stayed together for years. It just depends. Just don't be too eager...if it works, it works - if it doesn't don't waste your money out of desperation...

If it's the right relationship - yes, this has been my experience...

I will let you know once i get into a relationship lol.

sounds good to me

I have to agree with you on that one. How are you today irad

I am good other than the weather, how are you?

the reason i ask is because I just started seeing my girlfriend almost for a month, but we've only been out 7 times. I know we won't be seeing each other very often because she goes to school full time and she works the overnight shift Thursday through Sunday nights. I would like to see her a little more often, but I know she needs space, I honestly don't know what that means, does that mean 2 times a week is too much? I've let her make all the decisions on what days to get together. I don't want to seem too suffocating to her like I probably did with my last short relationship I had.

Of course you want to see her more, but some things are out of your control, just relax and go with it and don't stress out about it.

I am good and how bad is the weather getting. I saw a little bit earlier you talking about it

The wind is absolutely awful, i think the storm is done, but it is freezing now, it was almost 70 today and wind gusts are really bad.

Well funny thing I have never met my fiance, I met him on Myspace we talk on the phone sometimes 8hrs a day and cam each other every night but we never met in person. I'm National Guard and will be leaving in 4 weeks for basic and ait then I'm going home to FT.Hood to be with him, before he leaves for Iraq. He is active duty Army..I'm going to see him on the 14 for 4 days and can't wait....I'm all nervous and excited...

What part of the state are you in that the weather is that crazy

Good luck to both of you

she did say that is part of the reason she likes me, because I understand that she needs the space especially because she has school work to do. I do understand, it just sort of sucks.

yeah but thats what u signed up for lol...if you ask to spend more time with her then she'll think you're needy which isnt what she wants

just go with the flow for now..if the relationship becomes stronger im sure youll spend more time with her

I agree with that Blades

Depends on the girl, you don't want her to think your too clingy. But at the same time you want to make sure she knows she is wanted. Its a tough call sometimes.

it is a tough call. I want her to know that she is wanted, but at the same time I am afraid to call her because I don't want her to think I am too clingy.

Dating confuses me.