why are men jerks and the good ones seem great but they turn out to be the person they are not i see so many men on here and some are really hot why are they lonely or are they just trying to hide something are people on here for real or is a diguise my last boyfriend was a person who i thought i knew but turned out to be this abussive guy and the abusse did not start till i broke up with him and not looking back i guess he never loved me at all i have been single for 6 months now and loving life

Ya.....I wish they would come with a resume......I wont go out with anyone violent!!!

some women are like that too

I'm sorry you have been hurt like that...

I've worked so hard to be a decent honorable honest man, to be so is my pride and I am ashamed to be anything else...

I know with your experience, I must sound like another con artist. On the bright side, it doesn't matter if you believe me or not, I am what I am and I will continue to be so no matter what other people think.

I always thought that'd be a good idea for everyone to have relationship resumes.

This is true. I've been through that type of thing with women; and have seen men act that way.

I don't think it's right to confine it to a certain sex; people in general just seem to be mean and lie a lot.

Well I am not and never have been abusive. I hate that people are like that.
But I have a question for you.
If a man was abusive and stated that in his profile, how many women do you think would contact him?

they should have stickers that show in BIG letters what their mileage is for city/highway!!!

Energy Star rating, credit rating, Cosmo survey results and key tax info...

maybe theyre searching for true love or something
that one is b to find

But...we all know that resumes are embellished to make ourselves look good and we don't put the bad stuff on them...so...a relationship resume would be the same...wouldn't it? Just a thought..

OMG! Gonna pull my hair out if I hear anymore of this whining and crying! Look, get over it and move on, not everyone is perfect. You make it sound as though if a relationship has gone bad you have nothing to do with it.
My story is, yes, I am hot I haven't been in a long-term relationship for 2 and half year's because my 5 and half year old son that I have sole-custody of are a team. I am not about to bring a woman into his life like my last girlfriend and her make my son love her and then just get up and run out on us. I know the next thing is your gonna say is "What do you do to make her leave!" Wanh, booh-hooh it is alway's the man's fault. Let me tell you I am supportive, I listen well and a good talker, I am compassionate and passionate. I don't use drug's I work full-time and I have a college degree. So, it must be the men you are dating. My last girlfriend was in a marriage for 16 years from right out of high school. She used me for a litle over a year to raise her spirit's and once she had me help her recover from that 16 years of marriage. Poof, she was gone and me and my son were hung-out to dry.
"SO, PLEASE, FOR THE LOVE OF GOD QUITE WHINING YOUR KILLING ME!"

Dating is a Gamble...online and off.......People do lie and some are very honest.....one day at a time keep communication open, one day at a time......Someone will surprise you one day.......Good Luck , my dear.........

Maybe people caught lying in a hurtful fashion should be given a noticeable tattoo that cannot be legally removed. This way you can see the Tattoo,hear their side of the story, and then make your own judgment call from that.

Dating is a gamble no matter where it is done. Heck, for that matter life is a gamble everyday!