What does it take to make a woman WANT you? We're not talking about what it takes to make a woman LIKE you. Alotta guys get stuck in the Friends Zone with women because they doeverything they can to make a woman LIKE them ... and nothing tomakea woman WANT them. Women LIKE guys who buy them drinks, take them out, keep themcompany, wait around for them, and entertain them whenever they'rebored. Women are SMART - they know when they've got a good thing! But 99% of the time, those women are never EVER going to hook upwith that guy. They lead him on with promises that they neverintend on delivering. And what do these guys do? Do they tell her, "I've got otherplans"? Do they tell her, "Thanks, but I'm busy"? No! They still hang onto these women like puppy dogs, hoping toget the scraps that fall from her table. Now, I'm going to be straight with you in this lesson. The most IMPORTANT secret to making a woman NOT want you - and, forthat matter, NEVER want you -- is to like her so much that you'lldo anything to hang around her. I don't care how great she is. I don't care if she's the love ofyour life, "The One," or the most amazing woman you've ever met. You are NOT her puppy dog. Don't be on call for her.Don't drop all your plans for her.Don't sit at home waiting for her text.Don't ditch your friends for her.Don't be the one she calls ONLY when she needs something.Don't get led on by that little string of hope she keeps danglingin front of you. Go out and start meeting women who DO respect you.Start meeting women who DO want you.Start remembering what it feels like to be a MAN instead of a puppy. The world doesn't revolve around ONE woman. From experience, I cantell you that no matter how great you think a particular woman is,there's another out there who's even greater. Okay, with THAT out of the way, let's talk about what you reallywant to know... what the most important secret to making a womanwantyou is. Is it looks?Is it wealth?Is it confidence? Is it power? All those things are part of it, but they're not THE SINGLE MOSTFUNDAMENTAL THING. I want you to think deeper than what everyone else is telling you. Think deeper than "conventional wisdom." What is the single most fundamental thing that a woman wants in asexual partner? Think about it... What's the one thing she HAS to have? I can tell you straight off that it isn't looks. There are plentyof ugly men with hot girlfriends. I can also tell you that it isn't wealth (luckily for most of us!). Confidence is closer, but I still know shy timid guys who havegirlfriends. So what it it? Get ready for the answer, because it's gonna blow your mind... THE MOST IMPORTANT SECRET TO MAKING WOMEN WANT YOU The one thing a woman HAS to know about someone before feelingattraction is this... ...that he's a MAN. That's IT. Women are attracted to MEN, plain and simple. A MAN is someone who's completely different from her in every way. A MAN is someone who has integrity, knows who he is, and knowswhere he's going. A MAN is someone that a woman can trust to guide her and lead herinto a great future. See, you don't have to be a woman's "best friend" to attract her. In fact, if you TRY to be a woman's "best friend," then you'reputting yourself in the Friends Zone all on your own. A woman will go to other women to share feelings, gossip, and talkabout the neighbors. She'll go to a MAN for her other needs. She'll go to a MAN when she wants to lean on someone strong. She'll go to a MAN when she wants to let loose and go wild. A woman wants a man because he's a MAN ... not because he's her"bestfriend."

What does it take to make a woman WANT you?

Brevity

AMEN !

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Charismatic, you might try reposting your question, but make it more brief. You probably aren't getting many responses because it is so long to read. Just a thought. Best wishes.

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You make it sound like women always treat guys badly. Like we think you're our little lapdogs and that men must break free from us.

But look. If I want a lapdog, I'll get an actual dog. They're much cuter. I have no desire to even be friends with someone that acts like they're my puppy and have to trail after me all the time.

"The one thing a woman HAS to know about someone before feeling attraction is this... ...that he's a MAN."

I dunno... Kate Moennig is no man, but boy... *drool*

If I know that a male friend is wants something more and the attraction just isn't there on my side, and that he is just waiting around for it to happen, then I usually let the friendship go. That is a friend with ulterior motives. And if that's what he is waiting for, it isn't fair to keep him hanging on. Let the freindship go and then maybe he will find someone else.

On the other hand, if I was attracted to a friend like that, sure, I would totally go for him.