I love being on this site There is always something going on that will keep my mind inerested. but the one thing and this has been an on going topic and will keep going for how ever long this site is on LMAO

I'm going to play the game. WHY THIS< WHY THAT Hell you not everyone else does it LMAO. OK! I know the anwser to this but I think it funny as hell. Ok ok ill tell ya.

Whats so funny to me right now is how someone can come on this site and there new. Never even met me or even know who I am. Now most would like to think that most that come on here are single, RIGHT! lol So you get this email telling you how there interested in you and they start flirting and all that. Now I don't mind playing but if your going to play. You better expect me to play back lol and trust me. I hit hard! Anyhow, say your talking for a couple days and things are going great. so you keep playing with it. Then WAM! you find out not by them teling you but on the forum that thewre taken.

Now from where I stand in my life is. I'm an open and honest person with myself and anyone I talk to. it woulkd of been nice to know the person is taken before I started flirting. Now I feel stupid for not asking and they allowed it to run witch to me I have NO respect fore. OK now you can drill me on your opinions LMAO

No Drill Shadow. You're 100% right from beginning to end...

Thats a very true thought. But if they are takena and are on here it only means they havent found what there looking for..... after all thats why they came here....to find what they are looking for...... ..... cheers to me haha

Your Right on the money

Hummmmm so true but better to find out early sure makes you think different of them don't it

Man that is just wrong.....we all have been played one time or another. I could tell you some stories but I won't here. Hang in there man....

hey how ar eyou?

I agree with you, if someone is taken they should say they are taken either in their profile or when you e-mail them. Most of us are single it is true, why else would be on this site, but for those who are not single and are still looking for friends they should be upfront about it.

With ya shadow..


Indn, have a good date?

I'm not made at them, but i'm sure there going to get a hint here real quick lol. I would be lying if I told you all I din't have fun But comeone people. in time it's all going to slap you in the face and in time everyone is going to know who you are. I for one do not have a problem calling somone out on the forum. But things have changed this last year so i have to be nice today LMAO

need to slow down here lol. I'm adding letters to my words lol

I believe if they are taken, that should be stated on their profile. IF not, then to me they are a liar right from the beginning. I do not give liars the time of day, so I wouldn't ever talk to them again.
I don't think its your fault that they lied, how was you suppose to know? This is the problem with the internet..people can hide behind their computers and be whatever they want to be. They can be married and say they are single. They can be overweight and say they are thin. They can be a man and say they are a woman. They can lie and say whatever they want.
The truth of the matter is, you might never know if that person is really telling the truth. You are really going in to that friendship with both eyes shut. So the real question is..do you want to trust that person with your heart? I know I don't, thats why I am only looking for friends. I refuse to trust anyone off of here. I don't mean to sound negative, but honestly, think about it!! Until you meet that person face to face..you have no clue who you are talking to. Then you can still be with someone for years and still not really know that person. Is there ever a guarentee with love? I think not!!

"Then you can still be with someone for years and still not really know that person. Is there ever a guarentee with love? I think not!!"


Well said: been there....got the t-shirt.

haha I think we both have the same shirt!!!

I think a few of us been there. I heard this the other night from a friend. The question is. have you learnd anything about it...

AMEN SISTA!

Yes I can say I have learned....maybe not for the best...much more caution used getting close to someone now. Some call them walls build around the heart.....hard to get inside them.

Oh yes sweetie..this is why I am looking for friends only. Who needs a relationship anyways? I would rather have great friends and no chaos in my life. True love is a thing in the past!

Some call them walls build around the heart.....hard to get inside them. I seem to be running in to a lot of women like that. This resent one I was datting and trying to build a friendship with was not honest with herself and I asked her a question, well told her more like. I said, does it bother you that I new what I wanted and where I stood in my life as far as what I was looking for and who I am. She said yes because she always has had a preoblem being honest with herself. That aloe will lead you in all kinds of wrong directions and making wrong choices.

Humm think I have said this more than once in the past myself. It don't matter how long you have known them or how well you think you know them believe me YOU DON'T KNOW THEM LIKE YOU THINK YOU DO!!!!