I met a man on this site about a week ago and we have corresponded everyday via JSH or on the phone as he usually calls and we talk for hours. He lives in Phoenix and I am in Canada and we talked about maybe for my holidays this year I would visit him. I know it all happened so fast which did scare me a bit, but I felt he was being honest. I then took up to date pictures of myself (I have gained a bit of weight) and sent them to him yesterday and now he has blocked me and will not return my phonecalls. He is always on this site as well. I honestly felt he was sincere, my pics weren't that bad. I asked him to just tell me why he has cut off communication and I will leave him alone. I still have not heard from him and he is a councellor at a women's shelter. What do you all think?
I appreciate your input. Have a great day.

Panda

that is a bit deciving i must say so my self

Unfortunate, but doesn't sound like it's worth a second thought. At least you only wasted 1 week.

watch out for those guys at the women's shelter!!!!!!!

a week in my opinion is not enough time to get to really know someone...just my thoughts

I really mean that, some of them walk the walk

sorry some of them DON't walk the talk! lol, i know

AGREE

you,re a very attractive woman and if he can not accept you as you are thats his lost ,at least you found out before you visited him my hearts out to you because thats just wrong

sorry it happened. Just think you got to see this personality in 1 week. Could of been worst.

he probably is just a huge a*shole
i mean if he blocked you i wouldn't use his job or anything like that as an excuse.
but im sorry for that its his loss anyways
not yours you can do better then that =)

Go with your instincts...you said it was a bit scary.
Long distance relationships are tough enough without being scared. Hang in there.

I had a guy teaching a domestic violence counsel me and ask me what i did to "provoke" my partner

I raised hell and I think i got him reprimanded

sounds like a two faced goof

I am sorry for what appears to be a lost. You may be better off and without whole lot of drama! You are a pretty lady lady, someone will except you for you!

I believe you'll be ok, you can't miss what almost was. So lighten your heart and stand by for someone to sweep you off your feet!!!

Fay

Don't make me come over there 2much!

well put!!!!!!!!!

just try it

He's not worth worrying over. His loss not yours! Too many men want Barbie dolls who are not real people and fake. Keep your chin up girl and keep looking. You will find a nice man who accepts you for you. Be patient and keep looking those guys are out there!

purple: see it for what it is