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Topic: Does it matter?
southern_bee Joined Sun 07/29/07 Posts: 4812	Sat 01/19/08 05:10 PM
not as much as it used to.. now that ive grown up alot.. what is truly important to me is how someone treats his or her family and friends and people around them..will be a big factor of how they will treat you

Grateful_Dan Joined Wed 12/19/07 Posts: 119	Sat 01/19/08 05:11 PM
Agreed...presentation is key.

aLittleBird Joined Sat 01/05/08 Posts: 2515	Sat 01/19/08 05:11 PM
yes it douse.They have to be as cute as littlebird or I dont bug themand its hard tobe cutter than her but hay thats my opinion(I just couldnt resist trying to make you smile littlebird) awww...thanks, I am smiling now.

madamx7316 Joined Tue 10/16/07 Posts: 15886	Sat 01/19/08 05:12 PM
Not that there's anything wrong with that. I mean, seriously people, do you pick the ugly dog? the parrot with one wing? the cat that can't pull its tongue back into its mouth? We like pretty. It's not a prejudice; it's a taste. I like green in the spring and summer, yet my favorite color is orange in the fall and winter. not true. every pet ive ever had was a rescued abused pet. something wrong with it. everyone needs love

sweetjeep Joined Sat 01/05/08 Posts: 1165	Sat 01/19/08 05:12 PM
ok...maybe you guys didn't see the threesome post....yikes. I think they wanted to do a little more that chat..that is just a guess though!

aLittleBird Joined Sat 01/05/08 Posts: 2515	Sat 01/19/08 05:12 PM
You know what it means if you're not attractive (LIKE ME) it means you're not attractive. I still enjoy everything I enjoy, even if I ain't purty. Oh stop...you know you're pretty. I'd scratch your ears anytime..lol

alonenotlonely Joined Thu 01/03/08 Posts: 2957	Sat 01/19/08 05:14 PM
Not that there's anything wrong with that. I mean, seriously people, do you pick the ugly dog? the parrot with one wing? the cat that can't pull its tongue back into its mouth? We like pretty. It's not a prejudice; it's a taste. I like green in the spring and summer, yet my favorite color is orange in the fall and winter. not true. every pet ive ever had was a rescued abused pet. something wrong with it. everyone needs love Yes, Madam, but was that pity? Or love?

alonenotlonely Joined Thu 01/03/08 Posts: 2957	Sat 01/19/08 05:16 PM
You know what it means if you're not attractive (LIKE ME) it means you're not attractive. I still enjoy everything I enjoy, even if I ain't purty. Oh stop...you know you're pretty. I'd scratch your ears anytime..lol I wish I had ever been pretty - I'd like to know what that's like. However, here's an ear . . .

Suzanne20 Joined Thu 11/15/07 Posts: 9261	Sat 01/19/08 05:16 PM
Are you saying that someone could only pity me because I am in a wheelchair? That I couldn't really be loved?

alonenotlonely Joined Thu 01/03/08 Posts: 2957	Sat 01/19/08 05:17 PM
Everyone's who's not reprobate, loves the pitiful.

AllSmilesInTulsa Joined Mon 05/28/07 Posts: 1903	Sat 01/19/08 05:18 PM
ok...maybe you guys didn't see the threesome post....yikes. Took the words right out of my brain!!

alonenotlonely Joined Thu 01/03/08 Posts: 2957	Sat 01/19/08 05:19 PM
Are you saying that someone could only pity me because I am in a wheelchair? That I couldn't really be loved? No. And I don't have to justify that statement. I don't know you. I genuinely like you. Just today I was thinking about people in wheelchairs and how it would not matter to me. I didn't even know you were in one, I've seen you on here many times, and I've never said anything to you because of your age. I think you're cute as a button!

lilbug Joined Wed 10/10/07 Posts: 14791	Sat 01/19/08 05:41 PM
If we'e talkin' just talkin to someone, I'll talk to anyone. If we're talkin' relationship, I do think a certain amount of physical attraction is important and I don't think that makes me shallow. We consider and are attracted to folks in the real world first by their physical appearance, I don't see why it should be any different here.

southern_bee Joined Sun 07/29/07 Posts: 4812	Sat 01/19/08 06:02 PM
it does help if u have an attraction on all levels

LexFonteyne Joined Thu 12/07/06 Posts: 32131	Sat 01/19/08 06:05 PM
Does it matter how a person looks when make your choices on who to talk to? Whether consciously or unconsciously it matters to everyone. I agree - it's going to be a factor, on some level, whether you're aware of it or not. It may not be the only factor, or even the main factor; but it's going to figure in there somewhere.

TxsGal3333 Joined Tue 09/05/06 Posts: 76392	Sat 01/19/08 06:09 PM
Does it matter how a person looks when make your choices on who to talk to? Whether consciously or unconsciously it matters to everyone. I agree - it's going to be a factor, on some level, whether you're aware of it or not. It may not be the only factor, or even the main factor; but it's going to figure in there somewhere. This is true as far as a relationship goes I mean they must be at least pleasant to eyes of the beholder. But as just friends well heck no!

fortsmithman Joined Sun 10/28/07 Posts: 2819	Sat 01/19/08 06:32 PM
Not really. Someone once said that beauty is in the eye of the beholder. A very hot person to one person might appear as ugly top another. We all have our own definintion of beauty, and they are different from the next person. I have to be able to talk to and do stuff with that special lady when i find her.

hunter870 Joined Fri 01/26/07 Posts: 772	Sat 01/19/08 07:56 PM
I will be Danged if fortsmithman didnt hit the real nail on the head,Just as I think littlebird is a beutifull young lady others may not,and just like Suzane being pritty to me,others may think not.Truly beuty is in the eye of the beholder,and Owell if the world dont understand me,I can hardly understand myself and I think they call that being human,well dont they???? ???? ?????? OOOOOOOOOhwell they are both cute in there own ways and hay thats my opinion!!!! OPS.Danged if I didnt forget I'm not normal but those girls are still cute