OK, I've been here for a bit now and have sent out some messages of interest, but have yet to recieve any replies. Perhaps there is something in my profile I could be doing better? Please rate me and be honest; I have a thick skin.

Your Honest ........

good job strong azz

goo job strongazz

goo job strongazz

Good luck in your quest

Your filters:

Female
Live within 50 miles
NOT looking for an intimate encounter

NOT married
NOT a smoker

And you are looking for a woman that is almost perfect, doesn't exist.

Sorry you asked

all u have to do is send more messages and trust me ull get lucky

everything is I, I, I, and me, me, me. and I can do this, and I did do that..

It's not a political race... which may be the reason it looks like LIE LIE LIE.

You like huh mirror?

You dont seem like a bad person or anything, however you did seem a tad bit cocky in your profile (but i actually think thats ok. you didnt overdo it). I will say it really depends on the people that you contacted! Lets face it, everybody has their own league. are you sending these interest messages to people who are in your league. Or it may even be the ages of the people that youre sending messages too. For example this man whos like 33 keeps sending me messages... ummm... NO! I never replied. Then again theres the idea that it could jus be that the people that you are sending messages to could jus not be lookin for anything seriously. There's a lot of possibilties but i dont think any of them have anything to do with your profile.

I agree He's picky, You fall inlove with ur heart not someones looks!

Post in the forums.. People get to know you there...

Um, you're up front about what you want which is a good thing. But you appear to think you are above others. While you have plenty going for you, very few women want to be with a man who so outwardly looks down on everyone around him.

I would guess that your past relationships have been very unsatisfactory as well. And if I was a betting woman I'd bet you think you were never to blame.

You said be honest.

what got me friend was when you wrote..travel with your equals or better...or travel alone.i would think that this level of confidence tells people that you place yourself above others..even if you feel that you are kind..

and you mentioned that you didnt want to be with a woman who has children...does this mean that should you meet a woman who had children,and you fall in love with her that you wouldn't want her babies to be part of your life?...

i suggest...only suggest..that you reconsider the words that you used friend...but if this is exactly the way you feel..then i hope that somewhere a woman feels the way you do..i mean that..

take care..
kol..

Thank you all for your honesty. Often it is very hard to see ourselves from the outside. I appreciate all of you helping to give me perspective.

Hello everyone! Give a rating, but please be gentle and consider my age and etc.

Hello everyone! Give a rating, but please be gentle and consider my age and etc.

I think I definitely have some unresolved issues with my last relationship that cause me to project in a cocky or superior manner as a defense mechanism. I'm really a very humble person, but reading my profile again I can see where the impression comes from. I guess I'm just afraid of getting hurt and I try to keep people at a distance without realizing it. It seems I have a lot of soul searching to do. Thank you all for your insight.