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Topic: Dating rules & relationship rules!..Let's all put our two ce
Jim519's photo
Fri 01/11/08 02:06 AM
Ok, this is always the BIG question from all of us. What is it that will make it work? Let's all put our heads together, and with all of us doin this maybe we can help each other....Simply put down a few rules that would apply to you and/or deal breakers..... (This outta be good..lol)

I will start off with:

Dont attempt to change me

Dont expect me to not have friends and not see them regularly (yes, even without you!)

My money is my money (but will be glad to spend on you :wink: )

I am a single parent, so dont get jealous of and also try to control my child

(More to come)

hikingotter's photo
Fri 01/11/08 02:22 AM
:smile: Boy are you opening up a can of worms! lol But I will add
one:

Don't forget Valentine's Day. Cheap O box of Chocolate, big hug
and kiss.

Oh, and buy the Cheap box of Chocolate before the day, no saying
"Have to go get something and will be right back" on the day.

Jo


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Fri 01/11/08 02:27 AM
When a man truly loves a woman all you're rules go out the window. I kinda understand why you're single Bro....


Ok, this is always the BIG question from all of us. What is it that will make it work? Let's all put our heads together, and with all of us doin this maybe we can help each other....Simply put down a few rules that would apply to you and/or deal breakers..... (This outta be good..lol)

I will start off with:

Dont attempt to change me

Dont expect me to not have friends and not see them regularly (yes, even without you!)

My money is my money (but will be glad to spend on you :wink: )

I am a single parent, so dont get jealous of and also try to control my child

(More to come)


Jim519's photo
Fri 01/11/08 02:31 AM
Single by choice dude, no trouble meeting women at all. The problem is their expectations go through the roof way too soon....Not sure if your a parent, but when your a single parent that cahnges the rules a lot....You have to consider more about a person to expose them to your child...Most dont understand that

FloridaKendra's photo
Fri 01/11/08 02:35 AM
Always been open to dating a guy with a kid... I try not to put limitations on potential dates, more or less stick to a specific guideline to my own self and not stray from who I am. (=

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Fri 01/11/08 02:38 AM
So if you're single by choice, then why are you here?? Im messin with ya Bro. All gals are different till you meet the one you would do anything for. Thats my point Bro. Like the song "When a man loves a woman". Follow my drift Bro?


Single by choice dude, no trouble meeting women at all. The problem is their expectations go through the roof way too soon....Not sure if your a parent, but when your a single parent that cahnges the rules a lot....You have to consider more about a person to expose them to your child...Most dont understand that

Jim519's photo
Fri 01/11/08 02:40 AM

So if you're single by choice, then why are you here?? Im messin with ya Bro. All gals are different till you meet the one you would do anything for. Thats my point Bro. Like the song "When a man loves a woman". Follow my drift Bro?


Single by choice dude, no trouble meeting women at all. The problem is their expectations go through the roof way too soon....Not sure if your a parent, but when your a single parent that cahnges the rules a lot....You have to consider more about a person to expose them to your child...Most dont understand that



SIngle meaning "dating", I enjoy dating and meeting people. Sure cant have too many friends. Not sure if I could do the "relationship" thing as of yet. Yes, all women are different...I know I could be the romantic and do what it takes...Just havent found her yet....No offense taken bro, it's all good, all advice is good even if constructive!

Jim519's photo
Fri 01/11/08 02:41 AM

Always been open to dating a guy with a kid... I try not to put limitations on potential dates, more or less stick to a specific guideline to my own self and not stray from who I am. (=


That's awesome, you sound level headed. Be who you are

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Fri 01/11/08 02:45 AM
Well said Bro. Maybe that girl will come someday and make you want to stay home instead of drinking beer with the Bro's lol. Good luck:wink:



So if you're single by choice, then why are you here?? Im messin with ya Bro. All gals are different till you meet the one you would do anything for. Thats my point Bro. Like the song "When a man loves a woman". Follow my drift Bro?


Single by choice dude, no trouble meeting women at all. The problem is their expectations go through the roof way too soon....Not sure if your a parent, but when your a single parent that cahnges the rules a lot....You have to consider more about a person to expose them to your child...Most dont understand that



SIngle meaning "dating", I enjoy dating and meeting people. Sure cant have too many friends. Not sure if I could do the "relationship" thing as of yet. Yes, all women are different...I know I could be the romantic and do what it takes...Just havent found her yet....No offense taken bro, it's all good, all advice is good even if constructive!

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Fri 01/11/08 02:50 AM
Seeing how you flamed that other guy a couple days ago, I find that hard to believe youre the sensative type


Always been open to dating a guy with a kid... I try not to put limitations on potential dates, more or less stick to a specific guideline to my own self and not stray from who I am. (=

Jim519's photo
Fri 01/11/08 02:55 AM

Seeing how you flamed that other guy a couple days ago, I find that hard to believe youre the sensative type


Always been open to dating a guy with a kid... I try not to put limitations on potential dates, more or less stick to a specific guideline to my own self and not stray from who I am. (=



She burned one eh'?

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Fri 01/11/08 03:03 AM
Hmmmmmmmmmmm dont tell me what to do............noway noway noway noway

Jim519's photo
Fri 01/11/08 03:07 AM

Hmmmmmmmmmmm dont tell me what to do............noway noway noway noway


now your telling me what to do....lol!!!

sup gypsy!

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Fri 01/11/08 03:07 AM
She kinda went out of her way to hurt this kids feelings Bro. I didnt even know him but he mailed me personaly about it. Some people think there all that when there not. I like to razz people a bit like I ribbed you but theres a point when its just mean and snotty..



Seeing how you flamed that other guy a couple days ago, I find that hard to believe youre the sensative type


Always been open to dating a guy with a kid... I try not to put limitations on potential dates, more or less stick to a specific guideline to my own self and not stray from who I am. (=



She burned one eh'?

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Fri 01/11/08 03:11 AM


Hmmmmmmmmmmm dont tell me what to do............noway noway noway noway


now your telling me what to do....lol!!!

sup gypsy!
No one tells me what to do:wink: bigsmile

Jim519's photo
Fri 01/11/08 03:13 AM

She kinda went out of her way to hurt this kids feelings Bro. I didnt even know him but he mailed me personaly about it. Some people think there all that when there not. I like to razz people a bit like I ribbed you but theres a point when its just mean and snotty..



Seeing how you flamed that other guy a couple days ago, I find that hard to believe youre the sensative type


Always been open to dating a guy with a kid... I try not to put limitations on potential dates, more or less stick to a specific guideline to my own self and not stray from who I am. (=



She burned one eh'?



Not cool, especially to go out of your way to hurt someone...Yea some razzin' is all good and I sure can play a part in that..But would never hurt anyone intetionally....That's just not cool...let it go and dont waste your time...Then again, early 20's...they still have some growing pains to encounter...Karma comes around

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Fri 01/11/08 03:23 AM
You're the one who's level headed bro. Respect...



She kinda went out of her way to hurt this kids feelings Bro. I didnt even know him but he mailed me personaly about it. Some people think there all that when there not. I like to razz people a bit like I ribbed you but theres a point when its just mean and snotty..



Seeing how you flamed that other guy a couple days ago, I find that hard to believe youre the sensative type


Always been open to dating a guy with a kid... I try not to put limitations on potential dates, more or less stick to a specific guideline to my own self and not stray from who I am. (=



She burned one eh'?



Not cool, especially to go out of your way to hurt someone...Yea some razzin' is all good and I sure can play a part in that..But would never hurt anyone intetionally....That's just not cool...let it go and dont waste your time...Then again, early 20's...they still have some growing pains to encounter...Karma comes around

femalearian's photo
Fri 01/11/08 08:56 AM
Edited by femalearian on Fri 01/11/08 08:59 AM
i agree with justkev on this one. The same applies to a woman. When a woman truely loves a man, rules don't come to play at all

flyankee07's photo
Fri 01/11/08 09:20 AM
Don't tell me how I feel.

Don't laugh at me when I'm emotional.

Don't forget my birthday.

Take me to bed daily.

Dragoness's photo
Fri 01/11/08 09:22 AM

i agree with justkev on this one. The same applies to a woman. When a woman truely loves a man, rules don't come to play at all


There should ALWAYS be personal boundaries, if you set none and or do not keep them you will become a doormat in the relationship, I don't care how much you LLLOOOOOVVVEEEE them.

Door mats are all those who sit talking about "why did he/she do this to me" "all I did was love them and they just hurt me all the time", et........

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