why confront him if youa re goign to break of the engagement. Seeems like you already made up your mind that he was doing something before you even asked.

I had a friend who almost got divorced becasue he bought his wife an expensive piece of furniture for her Birthday. He had to pay 250 on it every month for the year prior and woudlnt tell her what he needed the money for. She was sure he was having an affair too.

Sometimes if it walks like a duck its a duck, sometimes its just a goose.

find another who appreciates you...if he is doing this allready..move on he is a looser....

Agreed...easier said then done sometimes, but agreed!!

send his ass hittin the bricks baby cakes!

How come your on a dating site if you have a fiance? Not saying anything bad just curious.

get a shart knife and give him a sex change...

I'd get evidence before deciding if he is. If he is then ask yourself "what am I not doing right in this relationship causing him to cheat". But maybe he's just a player and you might figure that out.

Yes, get the evidence first. If he isnt cheating maybe you guys need to talk, heart to heart......tv and magazines etc.....he needs to pay some attention to you!!!

i'm not dismissing your suspecions, but at your age i would consider your relationship to be "young love". Sometimes, young love has a tendency to require or demand more time from their partner. You never did say how old is your friend, and how long have you known him. are you saying that in the past he did give you his full attention and suddenly this has changed?

such behavior can mean that he has becom disinterested in the lelationship, have another person to whom he direct his attention or he is on drugs.

if you can rule out the drugs, then you can focus on maybe there is another woman-girl in the picture.

you have stated that he is attentive to his phone and not anymore to you. this is clasic as it will give credit to a reasoning that someone else has his attention.

what can you do? well, confront him directly. do not confront him as if you want to fight. simply say.. john doe you and i have invested some time in our relationship. sometimes people drift apart instead of towards each other. if you want to go your seperate way it will hurt but it will save both you and i a lot of pain in the long run. in otherwords you can leave for good. when you are saying this keep eye contact . carefully look for any emotions that may indicate pain or relief.

someone suggested to check his cell phone
numbers. additionally you could talk with some of his male friends.

whatever you do, do not resort to violence. do not entertain
negative thoughts.if you must, break free and clean from the relationship and move on with life. love is ment to be free, pure and should only bring you happiness despite the challenges along the journey in relationship.

if you look carefully you will find all the answers you seek.
good luck.

What was her name? Orena . . . Lorena ... Bobbitt?
Now she knew how to get a man's attention. Your could hold the little nubbins hostage until he confessed. She made a decent amount of money off that (the story, not the nubbins).

Good advice. Similar things have happened before.

I think this one got passed over and I'd like to know too - not saying anything bad just curious.

What kind of magazines? Porn? I'd rather my man looked at porn than other women. Is he calling other women on his cell? Texting them? Find out and then you will know. Then dump him. Fast.

I think this is Jayme's sister...

HERE'S ANOTHER QUESTION, WHY DO WOMEN HOW ASSUME, THINK OR JUST GUESS THEIR MEN ARE CHEATING ON THEM QUESTION THEMSELVES?????

APPARENTLY IF SOMETHING IS GIVING YOU THAT IMPRESSION IT MAY WELL JUST BE SO, IF NOT, THEN IT'S YOU LOOKING FOR AN EXCUSE TO STOP SEEING THAT PERSON.

JUST A THOUGHT!
FRAN

This is the only advice I have for you....always trust your gut instinct, if you see litle things that show he may be cheating ask him... if he stumbles over his words you know what it is...if he comes home an accuses you of cheating or doing something behind his back most likely he is telling on himself.. If you feel like he is cheating then he might be, I would seriously think about if he is the one! you will not have a good marriage if you cant trust him...

You cannot cause someone to cheat, If they are gonna cheat its because they want to! It is not someones fault for someone else's actions that is just an excuse some men will use to make it a woman fill guilty for the mans actions! If the man was not fulfilled in the relationship then he has the choice to end it!!! I truely believe that

Don't jump to any conclusions but I would talk to him about your "feelings." Obviously you care about him if you are going to get married, but don't just break it off without any actual evidence or you may lose a good man.

But if it is conclusive...burn his stuff. :)