Take it easy on the redheads!! Not every last one of us is insane. The only man I have ever hit was in the process of beating the shiot out of me. So bet your ass I got in a couple of good swings.........

Take it easy on the redheads!! Not every last one of us is insane. The only man I have ever hit was in the process of beating the shiot out of me. So bet your ass I got in a couple of good swings.........

I thought this topic would be a good premise. Seems that every woman I have had a relationship with turn out to be crazy. The last of which the girl hit me in the head with a beer bottle. I mean when did hitting become a part of communicating?

Hey that stuff cost to much to replace and my luck would end up having to take care of the other one that got hurt shshhhs


Myself I can't see why either finds the need to hit one another. I have heard of women getting the crap beat out of them. Myself have never had it done to me or had a friend that went through it guess that is why I have never felt the need to hit another just not right.

Only happened once I was pretty young and I RAN out of that relationship! It taught me what the warning signs of abuse are and now I steer clear of any man w/ abusive tenancies!

Good girl, I do feel for those that have went through it or is going through it.

Actually since being on this site I have talked to more women that has been abused then I have in my lifetime. It saddens me but yet amazes me the hold they have on them. Mind games are a terrible thing for one to have to live with. They threaten them and have there self esteem so low they are too scared and don't know what to do. It is a sad world at times.

But now more and more men are admitting to this as well as being the victim.

What would I do if one ever hit me well at my age I would go ahead and say a prayer for him. Cause he would seriously need it when I finished with him.







i was 17 when i met my ex...i met him a month after he got back from iraq...we met..and two weeks later he moved in with me...then 3 months later we moved in with my sister...brother in law and their two kids.. i started noticing that he was getting more and more physical with me but i fought back so i didnt think i should do anything about it...well when we had been together for about 6 months..i found out i was pregnant....when i was 5 months pregnant with our daughter we got our own place..things just went down hill from there...the violence got worse..only this time i didnt fight back..i thought it would be worse for our daughter... at 37 weeks ..we got into a huge fight because i wanted to take my sister to the hospital ( he didnt like me leaving the house) and he chased me outside...****ed up my car so it wouldnt run...threw out my clothes everything.. well ..a week later i went into labor ..after 17 hrs of labor ( which he wasnt in the room for ...until i started pushing) ..i had a beautiful daughter..cheyann denise .. come to find out she had a heart problem to where the left side of her heart never formed...and it came from his side of the family...since noone knew about it ...there wasnt much time to do anything and she passed away two days after she was born.. and everytime he tells me he thinks hes responsible for her dying i agree with him and tell him if wouldnt of been beating on me while i was pregnant with her then she could of fought a lil bit harder...

Did she try to push down the stairs?

If not , maybe she wasn't crazy enough

immadrunkpimp my heart goes out to you and the pain you had to endure. But I'm so happy that you found your way in the world and you did not let him take you down.


Would of the baby lived if he had not beat you that can only be answered by God. Don't ever let what one man did to you keep you from loving again there are alot of great men out there.

Matter of fact a lot of great men right here on this site.