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Topic: i can't find a good man why
randy912's photo
Wed 01/09/08 06:50 AM
Also , a man that has a single life for real and not just playing games will give you his phone # and tell you to call him anytime !!!!

sulvic's photo
Wed 01/09/08 06:51 AM


I am no one you should take advice from about dating but it says you joined this site today? If that is true then give yourself some time to meet some men. Do not go out on a date with them right off that bat too. E-mail back and forth get to know each other then see what happens. Like I said I am not sure but I would guess that would be a better bet for you on finding a good guy and not a dog.
Good advice !!!!!


Well thanks!

Owen220's photo
Wed 01/09/08 06:51 AM
Hey Sulvic I am glad the Bulldogs beat Florida too! Being a Tennessee fan and all.

cancarian69's photo
Wed 01/09/08 06:51 AM

I am no one you should take advice from about dating but it says you joined this site today? If that is true then give yourself some time to meet some men. Do not go out on a date with them right off that bat too. E-mail back and forth get to know each other then see what happens. Like I said I am not sure but I would guess that would be a better bet for you on finding a good guy and not a dog.


Halleluha to that chickie! Never give out your phone number right away, never meet them right away, honey if they are worth it they will email, IM, until you are comfortable with meeting them, use email and IM as a kind of filter for dogs, if they start talking dirty to you before you have even met them then that's gonna be the way it's gonna be when you do meet them so FILTER THE DOGS OUT, always meet in a public place with lots of people, never drive with them alone on the first date.....those are just some of the rules I set for myself......

randy912's photo
Wed 01/09/08 06:51 AM



I am no one you should take advice from about dating but it says you joined this site today? If that is true then give yourself some time to meet some men. Do not go out on a date with them right off that bat too. E-mail back and forth get to know each other then see what happens. Like I said I am not sure but I would guess that would be a better bet for you on finding a good guy and not a dog.
Good advice !!!!!


Well thanks!
You are so welcome !!

sulvic's photo
Wed 01/09/08 06:55 AM

i have never met anyone online yet im kinda scare to but im willing to try if i meet that someone of course i gotta get to no them first


Well that is what I am saying. I have only met one person from online and I had a blast and it could turn into something more who knows. But I have met a lot more that I just talk to and you know it is nice to be able to get to know different people and get to know how they think. Just give it time girl you are way too young and way to pretty to stress over it. They always say when you do not look is when it will fall into your lap.

sulvic's photo
Wed 01/09/08 06:56 AM

Hey Sulvic I am glad the Bulldogs beat Florida too! Being a Tennessee fan and all.


HaHa Yeah! Oh and so you know we will get you next year! LOL! laugh happy drinker

cancarian69's photo
Wed 01/09/08 06:57 AM


Hmm nightime is not in my postion second i have been out on dates and personally they all turned out to be about one thing and thats sex im not looking for sex im looking for a real man thats feeling me for me a man thats on my level you feel me and if you had a clue most of my friends are married and happy.


Let me say it again. You are attracting the wrong kind of men because you are putting up a profile (and probably other signals) that attracts the wrong kind of men.

If you put up a shallow profile, you attract shallow men. Thats the bottom line.


Cancarian,

I looked at your profile. You need to format it. I can't get through the whole thing because I keep losing my place. From what I read however, I recommend putting more positive things towards the beginning of the profile, and negative things towards the end. Starting with the negative makes you seem defensive.

Don't talk about your pictures at all. Just leave that out of your profile.

-ArdentPause

Edit: Sexy, the picture update is a good start.


ArdentPause, thanks for the info, I'll take the advice!

no photo
Wed 01/09/08 06:57 AM

I read several dozen profiles a day, and they all say the same boring thing. "I'm funny and like to have a good time blah blah blah looking for a nice trusting guy blah blah blah I don't have anything interesting in this profile at all"



This is so true. I have written 100 rants about this very subject, and part of my profile is devoted to a critique of profiles in general.

When 95% of them are "I don't know what to write" or "I hate writing about myself" or "I'm a fun person who likes to have fun" or "I'm not going to fill this out until I see if it's worth my time" or "Anything you want to know, you'll have to ask," there's no incentive to bother pursuing it.


sulvic's photo
Wed 01/09/08 06:59 AM


I am no one you should take advice from about dating but it says you joined this site today? If that is true then give yourself some time to meet some men. Do not go out on a date with them right off that bat too. E-mail back and forth get to know each other then see what happens. Like I said I am not sure but I would guess that would be a better bet for you on finding a good guy and not a dog.


Halleluha to that chickie! Never give out your phone number right away, never meet them right away, honey if they are worth it they will email, IM, until you are comfortable with meeting them, use email and IM as a kind of filter for dogs, if they start talking dirty to you before you have even met them then that's gonna be the way it's gonna be when you do meet them so FILTER THE DOGS OUT, always meet in a public place with lots of people, never drive with them alone on the first date.....those are just some of the rules I set for myself......


The one time I did meet someone from online. I drove my own car and met in a public place, I also told my friends where I was going to be and what time I was going to be there. Sorry but my mom made me watch all those life time movies and well it just makes you think! You never know these days!

Sexyblackgirlp's photo
Wed 01/09/08 07:00 AM
you are very smart for doing that sulvic

sulvic's photo
Wed 01/09/08 07:01 AM

you are very smart for doing that sulvic


Lol yeah thank you!happy

CallMeYours's photo
Wed 01/09/08 07:02 AM

Not to sound rude dear, but if you want to meet nice guys, then first you need to put some clothes on. You need to have some secrets for them to figure out on there own. Secondly You have to change you, before you can change the type of men that you are looking for. It is in your attitude and body language, the way you dress and carry yourself.
Once you accomplish this, then the type of men that will address you be a much wider variety, for you to choose from.
I know that i left a few things out, but i just got home from work and i am tired, with that i don't think real straight at times.
If you have any questions later please feel free to email me

flowerforyou

Nightimefantasy


You hit the nail on the head. There is a quote that comes to mind about all of this: 'Who you are, is who you attract.' hhhhhmmmmmmm

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