OOPS!! sorry my mistake

There are good woman and men out there. But like everyone said already if you have no respect for your self no one will! Good Luck!

Good men still exist.

Unfortunately, the dog pack
is legion.

Hmmmm, first turn the lights on and the flash off, you have a pretty face, let guys see it, lol, and secondly, put a shirt on, I would like it my girl to dress sexy for me, but not everybody else, theres no guy thats gonna see you in a barely there shirt and then ask you out on a real date, and lastly, put info in your profile that tells about YOU, if its not interesting, people keep on looking, best of luck to ya

Hmm nightime is not in my postion second i have been out on dates and personally they all turned out to be about one thing and thats sex im not looking for sex im looking for a real man thats feeling me for me a man thats on my level you feel me and if you had a clue most of my friends are married and happy.

yeah baby! rock on!

good morning

So they say, I know many married people that arent happy, start by smiling, thats the first step to feel better

Most of your friends might
be happy, but you are
still young, give yourself
enough time to find the right
one.

Don't let them pressure you
into making that commitment
until you are ready.

i must say though some of you guys do have good advice thanks alot

I must say that you are a great looking woman , do not sell yourself short hun , any man would be blessed to have you , just be descent and don't do things you really don't want to do , just be yourself and do not portray something you are not ok?

Then hun, change the pics on your profile, you are georgous! and when looking for a good man, Less skin is actually more..if you were looking at a guys profile and all you was was him in jeans with no shirt with a come get me look on his face, what would you think he's looking for? Seriously, you are advertising you, and what you are about.I know you have a few responses stating this but it is true, check out the pics on my profile....I've had tons of responses and I know it isn't because of my body or just my looks cause I have some pretty good pics of me definitely not looking my best and I don't think I have one on there that I'm not fully clothed....also I put my personality in words too.....I'm pretty direct and blunt and that's me, "if you don't like it?! Move on!" don't be afraid if men don't like what they see or read, show them the real you and you'll find better men...well, most of the time anyway....lol....

i agree with you 100% honey

I agree, hell your name is sexy black girl, act like a sexy black girl, be confident and direct, itll help you alot acting sad will only attract the men you dont want, tease, and show theres more to you but you want them to find out for theirself

yeah baby! anticipation and imagination can be very thrilling!

That all sounds good but the attraction has to be there too,one does not hold the beauty in the eye only but it sure as hell has to have something to do with the connection between two people,that is a fact,simple.

I am no one you should take advice from about dating but it says you joined this site today? If that is true then give yourself some time to meet some men. Do not go out on a date with them right off that bat too. E-mail back and forth get to know each other then see what happens. Like I said I am not sure but I would guess that would be a better bet for you on finding a good guy and not a dog.

Let me say it again. You are attracting the wrong kind of men because you are putting up a profile (and probably other signals) that attracts the wrong kind of men.

If you put up a shallow profile, you attract shallow men. Thats the bottom line.


Cancarian,

I looked at your profile. You need to format it. I can't get through the whole thing because I keep losing my place. From what I read however, I recommend putting more positive things towards the beginning of the profile, and negative things towards the end. Starting with the negative makes you seem defensive.

Don't talk about your pictures at all. Just leave that out of your profile.

-ArdentPause

Edit: Sexy, the picture update is a good start.

i have never met anyone online yet im kinda scare to but im willing to try if i meet that someone of course i gotta get to no them first

Good advice !!!!!